The topic of virgins has derailed plenty of threads in the past, and I’d hate for Saint or Fire to have to come in here and purge a bunch of unproductive conversation.
Can we pull it back to Wanted results and questions?
I’ll start –
When I first started running New Wanted, I got a bunch more attention from a few girls I’m attracted to online. They started double texting me and asking questions, but it didn’t feel flirty.
I know them from my religious community, so I have a serious hang up about initiating the flirty behavior with them, as I don’t want to be seen in that community as someone trolling for pussy.
However, just knowing that they see me as someone fun to talk to, who they want to engage with, be friends with, etc, is healing in its own way, as I am starting to come to terms with the value I have inherently.
I’m also feeling less needy about wanting them to hit me up. One of the girls is fucking model gorgeous and so smart, and she did a laughing face reaction to my last message a few days ago and left it at that, and I’m not feeling any type of way about it. I don’t feel the need to double text to try to reel her back in and try to get some validation or something, nor am I pressed about “what if I lose her??”
It is what it is, and I’m happy nonetheless. I don’t need their attention to feel sexy and cool, I am sexy and cool already haha