Well, life is meant to be lived and those authentic experiences of life are what shape and form us.
Entering a new life, truly living it as your new reality–which takes some time and effort as the forces of the past will TRY and pull you back, cannot help but to change you on the inside, mentally, emotionally, and energetically the new life will seep through your being and everyone will notice the change in your Spirit.
Often when a trauma occurs we prevent ourselves from living beyond it, but does dissecting it from every angle truly allow us to heal?
What if you can just let go (but learn from it and wisely adapt, as the experience has first made a wound, then healed and now turned into wisdom that can be drawn upon in a future experience) and allow yourself to step into a new experience so that the power of the traumatizing experience dissipates, and losing grip over you as you allow yourself to step into a new experience and “move on” thus also mirroring that on the inside as your inner life begins to change because of it.
I personally think a bit of time should and can be set aside for a bit of reflection and contemplation but only by choice and not for more than 15 minutes, that life essentially needs to be lived and to be felt and to be experienced without much thought, to be fully in the moment, experiencing the full scope of your senses and being present of them.
Time can be set aside for contemplation and reflection if you so desire. But for the most part, if you are engaged in an activity, be fully in it—only this way will you perform at your highest and experience fully what you are doing.
Many people are scattered mentally and emotionally and Spiritually, but aligning their entire being in the now is what makes a truly whole person and being.
With this program and with Nouveau Rich I notice in part some of these principles have been applied as I have not been going back (unintentionally/subconsciously) to past my past experiences of romance to reflect on them much. Instead, I have been feeling more of an inner adjustment in how I deal with the past and knowing that I can move beyond it to change my experience of romance.
Something like that, it’s still very early but I’m having a kind of similar experience with Nouveau Rich which I’m about to run second loop of.