Uhhh
So the subconsciously intuitively pings you when discovers “bad intentions” in someone?
Who is the judge of that?
Who determines good or bad? The subconscious is just your mind, all your memories and beliefs, so based on what’s in there it will make that decision?
Isn’t that the ultimate question everyone asks, what is good, what is bad, and how to judge someone appropriately?
Don’t you want your humanity to judge that instead of your intellect? Intellect will base good and bad on dogma and belief.
How can you let that responsibility be in the hands of your subconscious process of the mind, and not you yourself the being that is aware?
Do you think if that scripting wasn’t in there this event would have never orchestrated itself for @Elendil
In the way that his subconscious was almost seeking for it, and whatever bad “possibility” of an intention was in that person came out to the forefront.
I’m saying none is perfectly pure, and people can react impulsively, one day she could feel like responding to the seduction, the other day she feels repulsed and perhaps more professional, and feels like this is not appropriate behavior in a workspace.
Is that wrong? Is that a bad intention of this woman?
Especially if these are the rules of that environment and you have signed a contract, to behave appropriately and she brings someone to the attention of her superiors who she feels misbehaves on the work floor, or not even someone perhaps she felt uncomfortable and did not name any names in particular but brought it to their attention nonetheless.
This is all conjecture just to make that clear, I’m taking the context of your situation @Elendil but this is not about you or anything alright 
Just trying to think this through and contemplate on it a bit as I have myself had experiences that are questionable
It could be a 100 different things why she reacted that way, in truth we really do not know, and we do know why the subconscious gave that intuition, so how do we know what moral it bases that on?
Perhaps a bad feeling she subconsciously felt towards @Elendil’s behaviour but does this mean a bad intention, perhaps she felt uncomfortable due to a past sexual trauma or a desire to keep the work floor professional? Anything can be possible here really I do not know to women any confident assessment of her would just be prejudiced.
But just stating some possibilities here.
Anything that manifests has a cause, perhaps sometimes it is just us seeking for things that aren’t there.
In this day and age if you really look for it you can find moral and ethical flaws in just about everyone and distort them as a bad person don’t you agree?
In literally everyone.
But if it is really a friend or a person close to you, you will never judge them nor even see it in them. That’s how biased we are, because if we love someone we will only ever see the good in them and that’s the way it should always be.
Judge a person’s actions, but never the person itself.
Actions cannot change, they are actions, and if they are wrong they should be judged accordingly, a bad action is a bad action, but there is no such thing as a bad person, only a person on the wrong path, doing the wrong things, but deep within at their core if you have a Soul there is a sense of humanity and goodness in everyone.
So moral of the story, you want to judge someone’s actions not ever the person who commits the actions. Actions can be judged, can be seen fault.
I’m saying actions are separate from a person in a way, to judge the act, not the person allows you to judge without pretense. The act is clear it is there, if it is wrong it can be judged but you can still love the person.
Also if you judge a person you will always lower yourself to negativity and hate, if you want to protect yourself against misconduct just see fault in the wrongdoing and the actuals deeds and punish those. If you judge a person it becomes personal and it creates distance and many other kind of unnecessary reactions.
A true leaders needs to know how to judge appropriately, nothing wrong with that, judgement is necessary to keep certain order going, but it is wise to see that we need to judge actions never persons.
Persons can change, actions do not, actions are material, if they are wrong they will still be wrong 1000 years from now.
Plus we can free ourselves from negativity towards others, because their actions may affect and impact our lives, but we can still be in a state of love and joy towards that person if we judge the deeds, not the emotions thoughts or beliefs that are personal that’s for him and her to work through if they are of a lower nature.
