No. Again, it’s about understanding them (our circumstances), adapting to them and choosing the path of the least resistance (adaptation and making the most of life) in overcoming our objective limitations, to grow stronger and more capable in order to shape our circumstances (our reality) in a way more skillful and potent manner.
Building upon gradual overcoming those limitations, from the least resistant, helps us build more resilience, confidence, energy, skills and that makes overcoming more resistant limitations easier and faster. The snowball effect in action yet again. I would rather call it “evolution” which is actually nothing else than self-development in progress and expanding, enriching our reality as the main consequence of it.
It’s no longer about forcing you to fit into certain archetypes but about developing certain qualities, traits and skills, upon experiencing your life and making the most of those experiences on the subconscious level. That’s why with a few experiences, sometimes even one, you can experience a powerful shift in your perceptions and belief system. That’s the magic of NSE as you’ve experienced yourself.