dating kinda like with business you gotta find your niche.
I’m a hit with tall artsy rich girls.
I’m not a hit with the general population because im not 6’3 with a finance corporate job cause I dont fit the meta for dating lmao my build is nicheee
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Re reading this whole thing again and now I think I understand. Yeah we face recon we do shadow work we put in the effort. Even people without subs could do that. It would definitely give them better chances in life. I see your point.
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Khan helped me with identifying the kind of women I actually want in the first place, shifting from the pov of "what do I offer? " to “what kind of qualities does she have that align with my needs, can she meet me up there?”.
I despise the whole concept of having to “game” women, to do anything besides leveling up and becoming my healthiest, most authentic and powerful self across the board.
And since coming to terms with not having to fit into any social construct of having to date certain types of women, or the way I build relationships with them, I found myself attracting more of the kind that actually speak to me on a spiritual level even.
Mind you I wouldn’t have dreamed of ever being appreciated by them for my true self first, instead of just my body or the money I have in the bank.
Occasionally I still feel doubts about it, questioning their sincerity, but when I sit with it, reflecting deeply, I recognise that it’s just a completely different kind of life that I am tapping into, it’s just not something I was used to beforehand, it’s pulling out all those little insecurities and self doubts.
At the end of the day, explore and find out exactly what kind of partners really ignite that passion in you and don’t hesitate for one second to go for what you want in life. Be bold, be brave, take your world by storm.
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I had an experience in the same vein as you guys. I was at a silent disco and I tried to talk to this woman that i thought was very attractive. I asked her a question and she said “I’m sorry” and walked away. A part of me was hurt because I’ve been craving sexual validation for some time now. Maybe I can be slightly happy that this didn’t ruin my night like it might have last year, but it reminded me that I’m not where I need to be. Physique wise, nor financially. So this upcoming college semester, I’ve got to freaking grind. There’s no other way out, but through. I have to improve myself until my fantasies are a forgone, inevitable conclusion
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Its a funny trend i see, a lot of women these days have unrealistic high standards based of social media validation from simps or some maybe even manifest a high quality man but only for sex or short term, not commitment then their self image goes high but they dont put effort to be a an attractive match as well so its just in their head.
The inflated self perceived value without actually improving themselves leads to no parthners in long term.
Even dating coaches/matchers are complaining having trouble finding parthners for them because of this delusional self image.
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I like the manifestation of these subs.
Connecting with different women even the wrong ones, makes me better understand what kind of parthner i genuinely want long term.
And DRR makes me resonate at a higher level to be congruent and relate to higher qualities instead of being ruled by lust or social constructs of what is trendy…
For me i dont care so much about model looks, being cute is enough and in healthy shape.
What matters more to me is:
Good values, good character, kindness, pleasant personality that nurturing feminine energy that makes u appreciate the beauty and passion of life, enjoying the moment as it is and being able to relax and smell the flowers instead of grinding and building empires all the time.
Another important thing for me kind of a deal breaker is virginity in women. I lose all attraction if shes not a virgin .
I always had a feeling of repulsion and disgust if i knew they slept around, i couldn’t understand why but i still felt it.
Now i understand sex is a sacred ritual of bonding on mental, emotional, spiritual, physical and energetic layers, such entanglements last a lifetime. Its not a fast food dopamin hit activity.
We give a part of us and take a part of each person we sleep with.
I seen plenty of times peoples lives become chaotic in many areas after they slept with wrong people.
Theres even studies that show divorce rates skyrocket and are correlated to number of different people both slept with before marriage.
Women that sleep around love to use ‘insecurity’ defense but it is a deflection they dont hold long stable relationships, moving from one to another and often lose real pair bonding ability based on loyalty, love, intimacy.
I have noticed many different cultures and religions imply this and have come to same conclusion.
I am a spiritual person and i like that sense of spiritual-sexual(both related) purity in women.
There is a sense of grace that you cannot fake, a different sense of higher quality energy and aura about them.
Having loyalty, self respect and self dignity to abstain till they find the right man for them are also admirable traits.
They are often religious /spiritual which fits me so we share values understandings and perspective on this.
It is also a great gift and sign of commitment to a man.
It does narrow my pool to much younger girls but i dont mind taking the older leadership role and i like the traditional dynamic in relationships.
I have manifested it and i know i can manifest again if it doesnt work out.
I dont care about quantity of women but rather prefer to build long term quality incredible depth of bonding, intimacy, connection and love to divine levels with the right kind of a woman.
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It’s more interesting if you think about things like microchimerism.
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I refuse to worry about the reasons people have “unrealistic” standards people may have acquired through whatever social media platform they frequent. I refuse to acknowledge the social constructs that don’t serve me. In fact, it doesn’t even matter whether people’s expectations are artificially high or not. People instinctually know if you’re what they consider a “good” partner based largely on appearance and then they’ll learn things about you if you’re already close enough. I endeavor to enthusiastically ascend greater heights so that the more desirable/higher quality partners get caught up in my gravitational pull and I won’t even be seeking them out anymore, they’ll just be the women that I routinely interact with
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I’m having a cool experience. I just posted this.
I know it’s got risk taking scripting, but honestly, I’ve not felt it like this so far
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Khan in one sentence, lol
Maybe I’ll add throw these words into it to somehow:
“The indomitable power, the raw sexuality, the gaze of pure seduction, the regal mannerisms of an empire-conqueror and the desire of an untamed tiger.”
I like that one haha,
I was doing a fun exercise earlier of “describe this subliminal in one sentence”, lol.
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He looks like he is at the party with a disco ball.
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It’s abstract; though, he is celebrating the fruits of his conquests, surrounded by the world powers and plotting an intrigue.
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It’s so empty it looks like everyone else left earlier and now he’s the last guy who has to clean up after the party. Pick up the confetti off the floor and such.
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Anyone did the healing stages of EoG, Khan and Khan Black together? Feeling tempted lol
Khan TB with EoG1. A bit irritated at times.
Khan TR with EoG1 is much more intense for me.
Emotional Rollercoaster.
KB1 was emotionally much easier. The physical recon was hell. I felt bulldozed every morning, feared I would fall down the stairs because I needed ages to wake up and feet hurt terribly.
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I am currently on an Khan / Khan Black Journey. I have run KB1 for 5 cycles now. And K1 for 2. Had really no bad days during the run. Only good and very good days. Very cool, calm and collected.
So i switched to Khan Stage 2 and stayed on Stage 1 of Khan Black. After a 30 Sec run Recon Hell broke out. Im irritated and annoyed by everyone. Most of my collegues at work. They want to go as slow and chilled as possible. Guess this behavior doesnt fit the khan drive. The point is i am a really honest and straight forward type of person. And since i added Khan it is a bit over the edge.
When a person annoyes me i let them now. Guess i have to learn how to do it without putting them down on an personal level.
Also my drive to workout went down. I go to the gym almost daily. For this i wake up everyday at 4:30. Since Khan 2 it is hard to get out of bed.
Good things happend as well. On the first day of Khan 2 i got a raise and my boss wants me to take on more responsibility, which means even more money in the long term.
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It’s a trade-off, less gym more money.
Im trying more heavy volume 11min khan2 and drr4 15min back to back to see what happens