Thought more about the negative associations with the concept of having a “hard-edge” or being a “hard ass”, and I noticed the reason for concern for me was based on how other people might perceive me…in my case, within the group I’m building.
It’s an issue with being overly concerned with how someone else interprets things, and the subsequent thoughts/emotions they might have towards you.
Having a hard edge doesn’t mean you’re incapable of connecting with or having fun with people. You don’t turn into a DMV employee, lol
(no offence to any DMV workers)
It means you possess a gear to “stand your ground” in the face of anything. That you will adapt and overcome. That you lead from the front, not by committee. That you’re committed to achieving victory however you define it.
Consideration of others will still be there, to inform your next move. And if you operate from a place of honor and good intent, then the only issue with being a “hard ass” belongs to the other person who has it.
That expression of masculinity is uncommon, which is why knowing the truth of it is hard.
I’d say @SaintSovereign exemplifies having a hard-edge, and he wields it well. Like in the face of what’s happening today with whats-his-name spamming crap on the forum.
Just my thoughts after a loop of New Emperor this morning.