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But there’s a line here, it is your own story, not another person’s story. Your story can influence other’s story doesn’t mean you should attempt to control or expect to be the center in another’s story. Their story coincided with yours, yours was of value to theirs and happened to be integrated as an important part of theirs.
Then there’s this aspect, story.
What story are you telling, both to yourself and others? Are those stories reasonable or even worth it in the first place? Are they helpful/useful?
Everyone tells stories within the greater story of their life. You can try to write this off, but it’s just the truth, it’s one of the expressions of reality. We also have proof of this both, in the scientific and the esoteric/ancient knowledge/or whatever you want to call it.
This is where one gets into taking ownership of their personal narrative. For this two ingredients are required Faith and decision making. If one has engaged in any of these at any point in their life, they most certainly have expressed main character behavior.
And even if we reduce it down to being “fake identities,” there have been recorded incidents where a “fake identity” has physical manifestations, even changing physical structures.
Now, I’m not saying the charade we see on social media is what being a main character is. Being the main character is an innate understanding of who you truly are that cannot be faked, balanced with wisdom and awareness of the other realities that interact with yours.
Please, because something isn’t fully understood or has been taken out of context due to generalization doesn’t mean it isn’t real.