My friend whos very swedish super chill and nice had this lifestyle, an OF girl lived at his place and it was the opposite, the girls were the ones controlling and manipulative trying to get him to be monogamous with them and jealous of him seeking other women, he didnt restrict their options but they still wanted exclusivity with him despite having other options, however hes too socially/dating wise savy to fall for it. Like any area of life abundance attracts abundance while scarity more scarcity.
However heās in a paradox, where hes at an age where he wants a good girl for a family but finds such types boring and the fun girls he enjoys, he doesnt see them as serious marriage /mother of his children archetype.
