I’ve always been a bit of a people pleaser personally. Someone who wouldn’t/couldn’t set boundaries and couldn’t say no. It’s still somewhat a struggle but Khan to me allows me to do exactly that whilst also having Chosen reflect in my teaching side/being positive etc. It’s a good ying/yang balance for me.
For example, I can tell my class, like I did tonight, to be quiet without feeling like I’m being the bad guy/ruining peoples fun like I did before. Chosen allows me to empathise with them and still make the class fun/motivating whilst setting my boundaries for my class and me personally.
My aim is to not be messed with, by the wrong people, but to be approachable by the right ones. The bad boy type who has a heart of gold internally, but knows their boundaries and ability to say no.
Let me clarify this. I’m not necessarily using Khan for sexual endeavours - I’m more of a relationship guy, so hooking up etc is pretty out the question for me. I’m using as more of a business type thing and ensuring people listen to me.