Alt account. IYKYK.
Emp Black is phenomenal.
I didn’t think this would be such a good fit for me because it’s all about “monk mode” on the surface. But what I’m really feeling right now is a sub with the capacity for long term use, so long as your goals are 90% business 10% everything else. I could absolutely use this sub and be in a fantastic long term relationship. I could use it and be effective at sales. I could use it and be effective at making friends. There’s no dichotomy unless you make a dichotomy.
Monk mode isn’t really a one-time thing for me. I’ve been in monk mode for 2 years, and trying to live life to the fullest while doing so. I don’t go out and party, I don’t stay out late, but within my disciplined routine, I make time for very occasional socializing, and only of the highest quality, but I need it to feed my soul and let me play this business game for the super long term.
It’s always a fine dance, to find out how to socialize and live other aspects of my life as little as possible while still being absolutely happy, so, not under-utilizing socialization as a tool for happiness. EMPB will help me find that edge.
As a guy who owns a business and doesn’t really want to focus on girls, but likes the conversations and occasional interactions, this is amazing. Great report on my first day of EMPB for you guys…
Went to a cocktail bar for a glass of wine and some work tonight… the past 2 weeks, I’ve been going to the bar and pulling out my laptop to work about once every 3 days.
And this girl working the bar recognized me, asked me if I was coming to work/study, and then left. She was cute af.
And she kept coming back.
She at one point came up to me and gave me a bunch more napkins, even though I already had plenty, then just said something to me, smiled, and walked away. It was like she wanted to be servile andw wanted an excuse to come up and say something to me, since I only ordered one order of wings.
Definitely executing the dominance scripting and aura. She saw me focused on my biz and loved it.
Then, after the people beside me left, i said something to her to chat her up… very innocent, but she did not stop talking to me after that. She just sat at my corner of the bar and started telling me a lot of deep and personal stuff… where she goes to school, her fears, her dreams, her ADHD, which we laughed about, she liked all my jokes, everything was good… even when she had to take orders, sometimes she would pour drinks while still talking to me, she’d pour them without looking at what she was doing, because her body was entirely pointed in my direction.
She could just not get enough of me.
My jokes were on point, I had an intense focus on her and into her eyes, we had amazing conversation. And in classis EMPB style, it was dominant, I had an aura of sexiness, but, it was good at the level it was, I didn’t feel the need to escalate.
Escalating is ultimately a distraction from business, and besides, I have a girlfriend, which makes escalating a MASSIVE distraction from business. But I was just happy to connect like that. I’ve listened to Wanted. Primal. True Social… but never had results socially this congruent.
I’ve never been a social animal, but always liked socializing once in a while. I guess I’m a perfect fit for EMPB. Business is #1, everything else comes second, and with EMPB, my aura comes off that way, but I can still socialize extremely well, not just after a month of solitude, but even after the end of a singular day of solitude.
I’ve always struggled to deeply connect with people, actually. I talk, but I always try too hard, so it never feels easy, natural, or satisfying at the end. I try so there’s always an anxiety of “did I do it right?”
But at the end of this conversation, I felt like I was walking away with the accomplishment of having made a new friend. A hot friend. And a friend I didn’t have to do ANYTHING to get. If I wanted to, I could’ve gotten her number or more that night, but the best part about Emperor Black for me is the fact that I didn’t feel like I needed to or wanted to.
Other observations… voice is deeper, masculine body language and aura of sexiness is high, language and speaking is on point. When I socialize with friends and family shortly, I’m not interested in parsing words, very effective and to the point, but never too short, everyone always feels heard and acknowledged but I do it as quickly as possible.
Also, of course, I’m extremely productive today, pushed right through my mid day slump, then, working at the bar tonight on my business, had some innovative ideas that will really help out.