The more you work on self-love, the more you’ll find situations where you’ll stand your ground assertively but without internal trepidation. When someone tries to disrespect you, don’t be surprised if you find yourself asking the person: “Hey! Who are you talking to?” with a firm tone of voice while keeping a smile on your face. Don’t even be surprised if you see people apologizing profusely. Self-love is the cornerstone of alphaness.
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You have no fucking idea how much I’m looking forward to that.
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Don’t look for it. It will come naturally. The mindset is “I love myself way too much to accept anything less than the best from others.”. At the same time you love yourself too much to be associated with the idea that you give anything less than your best.
Be careful though, self-love and narcissism are two completely different things.
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So does that mean LB would enhance or super charge and alpha title? Damn I think I just found what I have been looking for, for the last thirty plus years. Thank you @ksub
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Here is what I think: There is a reason why most, if not all, alpha titles contain some self-love scripting. Sub Club knew from the beginning that trying to develop alpha traits on shaky self-esteem foundations is a moot effort. By the way, going through life with low self-esteem is beyond difficult. Been there, done that! Self-love, self-esteem, self-appreciation, whatever name you give to it, is the first, the last, and the most primordial shield anyone could have. It’s the alpha and omega of personal growth.
I have been around suicidal people because they went through life with a damaged or non-existent self-esteem, trust me, it’s not a good place to be in life.
I know business mentors who recommend to pay yourself every time you earn money. Even before you pay your bills! Doesn’t matter if it’s a few dollars! Thank yourself for being who you are. Thank yourself for being awesome. You might as well open a self-love bank account (different from your savings account) and put money in there every time you get paid. Use that money to treat yourself exclusively! No one else.
Self-love is the elixir of life. Everything else is built on that!
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To me it comes down to self reliance . More than wealth or whatever all I have ever truly wanted is self reliance. Especially mentally and emotionally. I know from my own experience how immaturity , timidity , and neediness can destroy relationships, cause job loss , alienate people , make people want to actively avoid you, and make it so you have no idea who you are or what you want.
That’s why I finally said " fuck it" and decided to start running Love Bomb .
I’ve allowed people to destroy my self esteem and self worth. For what? Nothing
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My next stack I’m dropping alpha titles all together and running just my LB/Sanguine custom with a new custom I just ordered with KB4+Paragon Sleep
Self-love, inner peace, sexual energy mastery, and good sleep habits are alpha enough for me to conquer everything I want ahahaha
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Hit the nail on the muthafuckin head with that one my G
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Btw, my Stark Black results nose-dived after switching to the no-fame version this past cycle.
Making mistakes at work (aka cognitive scripting not working), feeling awkward and being scared of genuine self expression (aka popularity scripting not working), and overall brain fog and lack of motivation
Weird that my results would take such a turn, since I thought it was the fame scripting that would give me recon instead of this.
Oh well lol. Maybe I’ll revisit SB with fame another time. For now it’s out of my stack.
Going two customs + Limitless when it drops. All I want is that cognitive boost to start killing it at work (I’m in an analysis role, so I need that strategic vision + tactical proficiency)
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Hmm, can you say more? How many loops, did you increase exposure, did you change anything else?
Makes one wonder if the other objectives are more dependent on the fame aspect than we originally thought…
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You prolly right my man. SB makes the self-love of WB a bit different though.
Come to think of it, when I tested the launch version of WB I do remember having a lot of childhood memories come back into frame. So this does feel like a synthesis of the two titles.
Never forget that independence and self-reliance does not equal isolation. It’s an easy trap to fall into on a healing journey of this kind.
The bigger your social network, the safer you are, the easier it is to love yourself.
Idk, I’m giving you the advice I refused to take for too long. Not sure if the shoe fits lol.
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I was running this at 3.5 min loops, every listening day along with full loops of my custom.
That was the first cycle I started with my custom, and it’s my very first ever, so it could be that I was overloading on that.
Good call out. Take my experience with a grain of salt then everyone.
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Inquiry
For those taking university mathematics for STEM, what are your initial impressions on A Stark Black Reality?
There is a Stark Black without fame? I’m out the loop, what’s this about?
edit: Just figured it what it is (didn’t even know it existed). You have to really sift through threads to find this stuff out, lol. It would help to pin this stuff somewhere, but then again it’s experimental.
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Yes there is. It’s not famous, that’s why people haven’t heard of it…lol
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Hmm, really feel drawn to people running Khan while on SB, does anyone else feel this?
There is no shame in admitting the truth.
But for real though, there is something about people on Khan that I’m drawn too. I wonder if it’s related to this:
I’ve noticed it outside the forums too, I feel drawn to people with that kinda strong personality, but it’s not competitive, it’s almost like I feel the urge to support them, right hand man, king’s advisor type of energy.
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Or… consider what I, a Khan user, did… marry it with ASRB