Yeah that nailed it. Well said on everything else 
not to sound like I’m looking for a bandaid, but do you know what subs would help with that?
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LBFH. I’m planning to make an LBFH/Ascension custom for next year. LBFH is about self love.
For me I’ve never really gotten a boost from other people’s comments. It kind of came off as manipulation. But for some reason I was bothered by other people’s judgements of me. So Chosen and Chosen from Within really helped me begin to feel more okay about people. It was nice to see people with genuine positive feelings about me, so having that outer affirmation really helps even though my focus is always on my “inner” game.
But if your main goal is that dating world, you’re on the right stack already. You’ll just have to be patient. Patience is absolutely crucial and if you already know what you want then it makes it easier to stick to your stack long term so you can reap those rewards.
One of the forms of recon for me is that wanting to switch titles, always planning and saying hey I can switch this one title out or I can take a break on my custom for a cycle or two it won’t hurt anything, it could help. But my desire to nail those objectives from my current stack keeps me on track. I read through the copy of all my titles before making any final decisions and it’s kept me on track.
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Same here, since release it’s in my stack
Lifechanging indeed
@Realitysmith It’s great that you’re recognizing these dynamics. When it comes to addressing the need for unhealthy validation, it’s essential to explore the root causes and underlying possibilities. Unhealthy validation seeking behaviors can often be traced back to various factors:
Childhood Experiences - Sometimes, a lack of validation or inconsistent validation during childhood can lead to seeking it excessively in adulthood.
Low Self-Esteem: Individuals with low self-esteem may seek external validation to compensate for their inner doubts.
Social Comparison: Constantly comparing oneself to others can lead to seeking validation, especially if you perceive others as more successful or admired.
Approval Seeking: If you’re often focused on gaining approval from others, it can drive the need for validation.
Fear of Rejection: A fear of rejection can make one hyper-focused on seeking validation as a way to avoid it.
Insecurity: Deepseated insecurities can drive the need for constant validation.
Understanding which of these factors might be at play in your case can be the first step in addressing the issue effectively. To treat it, you need to find the cause of it.
It’s essential to self-reflect and understand whether your validation-seeking tendencies are healthy or not. Here are some signs that might indicate unhealthy validation-seeking:
Constant Approval Seeking: If you’re constantly seeking approval from others and can’t make decisions or take actions without it, it might be unhealthy.
Emotional Dependency: When your emotional well-being depends entirely on how others perceive you, it’s a sign of unhealthy validation-seeking.
Ignoring Personal Values: If you compromise your values or authenticity solely for the sake of gaining validation, that’s not a healthy approach.
Extreme Reactions: Experiencing extreme emotional reactions to praise or criticism can indicate an unhealthy attachment to validation.
Neglecting Self-Care: If you neglect self-care and personal growth because you’re too focused on seeking validation, it’s a red flag.
Take some time to observe your behavior and feelings. Do any of these signs resonate with your experiences?
Regarding subliminal recommendations, others may have more knowledge about the specific titles and what might work best for your situation. Perhaps they can provide more tailored advice based on their experiences and expertise with the various titles available.
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Maybe this is LBfH blooming but I have a really deep desire to be a good friend to people.
Like a genuinely good friend, without trying to take anything from people and willing to help them while remaining strong for them.
Is there a sub that could help with that?
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Ascension
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Seems like the stack of Ascension and Love Bomb for Humanity is good for anyone wanting to be a better person
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-Ascension + LBFH
-Emperor + LBFH
-Chosen + LBFH
-Khan + LBFH 
They all work very well together 
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Hero Origin + LBFH will work too
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if you haven’t done Ascension that’s the starter combo! After all the subs I’m coming back around to AM before I go back to the Chosen line, which was great for being a good friend to people. I had some good trailer effects on chosen but I realized I need to tryout AM for awhile first.
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Thanks for the replies guys, I’m already on Khan 3, EoG4 and KB1. Guess I’ll have to somehow squeeze in LBFH, maybe get a custom with it and one of the other titles I’m running.
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I’m really enjoying the DRLD/LBFH combo. I’ve only been with it for 3 cycles. I’m starting to see more positive responses and smiles from people. It does get some attention, for whatever reason it tends to make some people notice me.
I had another experience the other day I was driving by and this woman was walking. She didn’t notice me but for whatever reason it was like I noticed the love in her heart. I remember I had that last year when I ran LBFH for the first time, I had kind of the same experience one other time.
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Wise choice.
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Two thirds of my current stack. Trying to build the base or foundation that so many have posted about
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Wish the world would play this one now.
Sad times. Human life is precious wherever it is found.
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I can’t get myself to take it out of my stack so from here forward I’m making a LBFH DRLD custom that I’ll run for all of 2024 for sure.
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The other day I went to the drugstore. There was a woman like 10 or more years older than me just smiling at me when I walked in. Then I got to the checkout and there was a younger guy he was really smiling at me too. Another younger lady was checking out self checkout beside me and I went to ignore mode just like I’m staying out of your business. She started warming up to me for some reason. Like she got warm and curious about me and I didn’t do anything! Wild.
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I had another insight. I was finished with my custom but there’s one module I need to add. Path of Forgiveness. I think I could even forget about every other module in my lineup.
So now I’m probably dumping DRLD off my custom for Path of Forgiveness. I can’t give up any other modules and I can still run DRLD on the side. I’ll sleep on it but I was hoping to send it off for the build so I can start my next cycle with it.
Actually it’d be a choice between keeping Furious Ascent module or going with a second core of DRLD.
So LBFH with Furious Ascent or go with DRLD core and I’m running DRLD on the side if DRLD core doesn’t make it into my custom.
Seeing people give suggestions in the other threads makes me want to give some too for this sub. So, here are some that i have based on my experience with LBFH:
- More social scripting. Every time you spread the overflowing love energy, it always involves some kind of socialization, even just listening and being there for your loved ones requires it. I believe adding more social scripting specifically to help spread the love will be beneficial.
- Scripting to be able to detach more easily. After using LBFH, I learned about how healthy attachment can fuel my growth, but i want to be able to detach more easily from it too. While i’m sure there’s this kind of scripting already in LBFH, i notice that detaching is more effortless when i use WB and HeO.
- Lastly, it’s more of my own personal preference. I would love to have a bit of productivity scripting in LBFH, it always drags my productivity down whenever i run it solo. However, i know the sub is not intended for that. and as i found lately, microlooping will fix this problem anyway.
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