Bro, this is a limiting belief that you have with money and success. To say that it has nothing to do with the equation, is false. Im not saying itâs everything, and Iâve pulled girls with $3 in my checking account, and a belt tied around my bumper to hold it up.
That said, as you get older, most women want a man that is at the very least self sufficient. You donât have to be wealthy or even successful, although the benefit to that is not the money itself, but the lifestyle that you can provide for yourself, the social expieriences, travel, security.
If you are talking about seducing, as you say and more of a long term endeavor, a women will quickly loose interest in a broke man because he has nothing to offer in a long term romantic endeavor.
Going on adventures, having the freedom to take off work for a weekend of excitement, these are things that require some level of moderate success.
I understand that the archetype isnât a wealth archetype, and shouldnât revolve around wealth as that isnât the medium of attraction. What I am requesting, and many others, as that it does not make seduction and women the only focal point of your life to the point of neglecting financial responsibilities and purpose.
I have almost certainly ran this sub more consistently and long term than you, and I feel you are coming off that you are the expert and the only person that has any authority on the subject.
Try and understand, that you currently live in a different culture, Asia I believe? Iâve also spent time in Asia, and the seduction culture there is nothing like the U.S, as im sure your expieriencing, and would venture to guess was one of the reasons you moved there.
You can be in the top 1% of men there on a very, very, modest U.S salary, teaching English even.
In the U.S, this is not the case, and to offer the same level of adventure and mystery to women you need to be at the very least at a moderate income level.
I ensure you with the highest level of confidence, and I think you know this as well, that making 30-40K/year, you are not going to be a master âseducerâ in any capacity as a man over 30 years old in the western culture. There is 0% chance you are retaining and deeply seducing a 9-10 at that level of income in the western culture, and you know that.
You are not the only person who has ran this sub long and consistently, and are not the final authority lol. There are a lot of other requests here; and please try and recall what dating culture was like in the west, like making a 30-40K salary here which is what I would imagine what a teacher in Asia is pulling in, you donât even have the finances to be able to go out and meet women or take them on a date.
I am not the only one mentioning that wanted, even OG, has not been conducive for work and business. Not saying to turn it into that; but I am requesting it is not disruptive to a stable and relatively financially comfortable lifestyle, as I and many others have reported in the past. Not everybody lives in Asia dude lol.