Also to counter this, wanted black isn’t all just fuck boy aura or whatever you call it, infact it could give you an exclusivity aura, I’ve had experiences infact you could be sleeping with all the high value women in your class(this was my story) and no body will know, the moment I told one of my friend one of my exploits with a girl who even had a very wealthy boyfriend and he betrayed me and exposed my secret because it was too good to be true, everyone saw her as untouchable and unapproachable having the mindset that she was out of our league, she got angry and broke all connections with me.
It was still when I was running wanted black I dated my ex and she was an exclusive sort of girl who’d rather stick to one man and not share her man with any one, it rather gives or gave me an aura of I just want this dude by all means so maybe in your case it did give such aura but never in my case
It was also about that deadly combination of his aura of saintliness with the dark, mysterious side of his character.
Women are naturally drawn to the uncanny in men—not only for psychological reasons (enigmas they want to figure out and, therefore, classify = “possess”), but also for biological reasons (he is a stranger who offers robust genes absent in her “tribe’s men” = the familiar men she already knows).
I know some people think seduction is treated as a science or something overly complex here, but it really isn’t. It’s simply that there are many layers to it—just as there are many layers to our psychology and biology.
With Aeon+sexual/seduction subs mastery which fire mentioned will stack well, there will be rasputin level of stories here too
You can not take everything at face value. Women will often gossip about other women to make themselves look better. Because society judges them and they know it. It is part of their social strategy.
That is why I think a good suggestion for the scripting is to give of an aura that you understand women and their desires. And that you are a honorable man in the eyes of women. Not in the traditional sense of being a good boyfriend. But that you are a man who is not going to judge her for her sexual desires and that you won’t use her for bragging rights with other men in order to boost your own social credit.
This mean you are in the know and it is also a big criterium for being preselected by women and being passed around by her friends.
From the copy of Stark OG:
You’ll become the type of man that can easily persuade a nun to run away with you due to your magnetic presence (or any woman).
I mentioned an aura of understanding women, but this can be supported by scripting to help you actually understand women. Women in general, but her in particular to make her feel special.
Is creates a paradox which fits the Wanted archetype.
It reminds of this Italian movie Parthenope. The lead character is an absolutely stunning and beautiful woman. There was a priest in the movie who was a ladies man and Parthenope ended up sleeping with him because she was intrigued by him and he was bold enough to seduce her. He looked like absolute shit btw.
This movie is an absolute must watch.
Hank Moody’s vibe.
Precisely. However, I would go with combining something that is most natural to you with something in you that contradicts it. For example:
– a tinge of melancholy with extraversion
– a touch of femininity with a streak of cruelty
– being honorable while being a decadent (like Moody).
Bro, this is a limiting belief that you have with money and success. To say that it has nothing to do with the equation, is false. Im not saying it’s everything, and I’ve pulled girls with $3 in my checking account, and a belt tied around my bumper to hold it up.
That said, as you get older, most women want a man that is at the very least self sufficient. You don’t have to be wealthy or even successful, although the benefit to that is not the money itself, but the lifestyle that you can provide for yourself, the social expieriences, travel, security.
If you are talking about seducing, as you say and more of a long term endeavor, a women will quickly loose interest in a broke man because he has nothing to offer in a long term romantic endeavor.
Going on adventures, having the freedom to take off work for a weekend of excitement, these are things that require some level of moderate success.
I understand that the archetype isn’t a wealth archetype, and shouldn’t revolve around wealth as that isn’t the medium of attraction. What I am requesting, and many others, as that it does not make seduction and women the only focal point of your life to the point of neglecting financial responsibilities and purpose.
I have almost certainly ran this sub more consistently and long term than you, and I feel you are coming off that you are the expert and the only person that has any authority on the subject.
Try and understand, that you currently live in a different culture, Asia I believe? I’ve also spent time in Asia, and the seduction culture there is nothing like the U.S, as im sure your expieriencing, and would venture to guess was one of the reasons you moved there.
You can be in the top 1% of men there on a very, very, modest U.S salary, teaching English even.
In the U.S, this is not the case, and to offer the same level of adventure and mystery to women you need to be at the very least at a moderate income level.
I ensure you with the highest level of confidence, and I think you know this as well, that making 30-40K/year, you are not going to be a master “seducer” in any capacity as a man over 30 years old in the western culture. There is 0% chance you are retaining and deeply seducing a 9-10 at that level of income in the western culture, and you know that.
You are not the only person who has ran this sub long and consistently, and are not the final authority lol. There are a lot of other requests here; and please try and recall what dating culture was like in the west, like making a 30-40K salary here which is what I would imagine what a teacher in Asia is pulling in, you don’t even have the finances to be able to go out and meet women or take them on a date.
I am not the only one mentioning that wanted, even OG, has not been conducive for work and business. Not saying to turn it into that; but I am requesting it is not disruptive to a stable and relatively financially comfortable lifestyle, as I and many others have reported in the past. Not everybody lives in Asia dude lol.
I didn’t and I stopped reading here, sorry.
Cheers, mate.
Kind of did lol
And even here, like Hank Moody isn’t Hank Moody without having the lifestyle that being a financially successful famous author alots for.
If he is a starving/struggling artist isstead of a successful one, he doesn’t have the same level of confidence, he doesn’t have the freedom to stroll through his day without a care in the world and that same non-challant idgaf attitude.
He doesn’t have an awesome apartment to bring home girls too in California.
He doesn’t have access, to the same level of beautiful women.
A wanted man, in my view, is the total package. Financially free enough, status and access to the best parties and women, ambitious- yet stress free, calm and non-challant.
There are not very many full time pick up artists on this forum, it just makes sense to have wanted be more complete.
Right now I’m using GLM solo but I think I will definitely add this to my stack when it comes out, will make me feel more desirable since my self esteem has dropped since I have been cheated on
I don’t live in US but from what i heard of friends in US and seen on US based dating podcasts, shows it seems like the most average basic looking girls have insane standards especially regarding wealth lol not to mention bad mentality, highbody count and toxic attitudes from various social agendas pushed in west.
Seems like a pretty terrible dating market ngl.
In my country absolutely gorgeous women that look like models dating avg low income guys.
When i was younger i wanted to move to west but now i see its pretty bad or gotten so much worse.
Why assume that to be the case for all, depends on case by case, humiliation and degradation isint uncommon kink for many women, even tho they might initially get triggered, mad by judgement /shaming they crave and chase more after if they attracted already+it hits a deep spot kink.
Whats a turn off for one is turn on for another. Gotta adapt case by case
Sure there might be women who have a kink for humiliation, but that is not what I was talking about here.
I was talking about a social dynamic that remains hidden for most men and living by a certain code of honour that puts you in a different category of men in her mind. Men who get it.
It is a framework that helps you understand women and their behavior. Are there exceptions to it? Sure. But honestly, I don’t understand what you are trying to say.
Please elaborate, what do you mean with women who have this kink? Are you talking about things like negging and DHV (demonstrating higher value). I personally hate this stuff and avoid it.
Or are you talking about women who enjoy humiliation in a safe space or in a controlled environment?
Or are you talking about women who crave being put in their place? Or about women who get addicted to men who are abusive and destructive?
Or are you talking about something more extreme like Bonnie Blue type of shit?
And most importantly, as it is relevant to this thread, in your opinion do you believe that the sexual auras are only capable of attracting women who in your mind are somewhat broken and have lower value?
That is not my experience at all with subliminals and not the experience of most people have had here. Some the sweetest girls I attracted were when I was listening to highly sexual titles like Primal Nights.