I agree, it should be easy enough for anyone to run, but powerful enough that everyone gets results (assuming they know what they want and take some action). Maybe that’s somewhat dependent on the anti-recon tech.
Self love is already part of the Wanted architecture, both in WB and the OG (in lesser concentration).
For self love in particular, the ask from users like Ake and myself relate to the fantastic experience we had running WB regarding its self love aspect, and as such we want that power and that experience within the less-chaotic structure of New Wanted.
It’s not about running a foundational sub beforehand and “building up” to run Wanted, it’s about getting that bomb ass self love with the Wanted flavor you feel me?
I’ve run LB nonstop since the update dropped 1.5 years ago, it’s never left my stack. I love myself significantly more than I did January 2024. And that has shown me how long the journey actually is.
@SaintSovereign Mentioned something about a new Masculine Presence feature in the new GLM that’s coming. If it’s not already a pert if the new Wanted maybe add that.
People who need self‑love and use WANTED and WB get subpar results on the main objectives, yet they keep using them for that small bit of scripting that puts them at ease and makes them feel good about themselves (and for the physical shifts since one can get nice results passively), instead of acknowledging that they need foundational work.
I understand that people get imaptient:
but no sub can change the nature of growth.
Yes, it is about running a foundational sub when you need to address such an essential issue as self-love—and the sooner you acknowledge that, beyond pride and self-deception, the better, mate. Honestly, don’t trie to lie to ZP. If you do, you see almost nothing about extraordinary results WANTED/WB can deliver but people showing their exalatation upon self-love results delivered by that part with self-love.
I’m not saying the self-love scripting shouldn’t be there—but the way many of you emphasize its importance points to the fact that what you really need is a foundational sub, more self-honesty, swallowing your pride, and a lot more patience.
No, it’s not. That tech doesn’t change the nature of growth—nothing does. All we can do is accelerate our growth. But running WANTED or WB instead of a foundational sub when you clearly need more self-love is actually slowing your growth down.
I’m more worried about people who need that self-love yet refuse to do the foundational work before jumping into WANTED. Seriously. I’ve been learning to stay away from any agenda—because that’s the only way I can truly support SC.
I believe that scripting may be a shortcut for many, if they decide to pair it up with the new WANTED. Your strong presence—and not reactivity—is the single most important thing in seduction. You stay still while all the women dance around you—and all you do is keep them moving simply by exciting them with your motionlessness, mysterious silence, the power of your focus and gaze.
That’s the thing man, I don’t see all that as mutually exclusive.
I had great results related to the main objectives on WB. I was juggling 3 girls at once and acting like an absolute cad. That was really fun.
And yet, what stood out to me more from the entire experience of running WB was how at ease I felt in my own being.
That is infinitely more impressive to me than how many girls I’m fucking.
And honestly I haven’t had the same experience with other self love focused subs.
Maybe I do need more internal excavation to understand what it is about WB in particular that enabled that, but I’d love to see something similar in the new Wanted because I want to have that experience again, just without having multiple partners because that isn’t part of my goal anymore
What’s interesting is that there have been many deadly effective seducers—like Byron and Casanova—who loathed themselves. I’d reflect on that for a moment, as I don’t consider self-love as critical to seduction as most of you do, anyway.
On top of that, it’s worth thinking about what you’re actually running WANTED for—like you can see above.
For me, it’s always about the unique kind of seduction WANTED offers, because I find it the most enjoyable: that thrill of being chased instead of being the one who chases. Many men prefer the latter, but I enjoy flipping the natural dynamic—where it’s the woman who pursues me. It’s not about being lazy or avoiding stepping out of my comfort zone; it’s about the excitement and the fun of the whole game.
Like some others in the thread, I think seduction on Wanted would be ancillary for me
Like I’m running it to feel Wanted, to have fun, to be at ease, and the women become an expected and lovely and appreciated but secondary objective
Like the seduction just happens while my life becomes more awesome
I think that’s the fun of Wanted, and why I’m more focused on the self love aspect
It’s not that I don’t care about the seduction on it, but I’m so certain it will work with a wholly natural abundance that I’m not worried about it in the slightest haha
I can imagine that it could be the main difference between WANTED and WB—where WANTED has a narrow scope, with seduction itself as the main focus, while WB could have a broad scope, with your lifestyle as a proficient seducer at its core.
I am seeing WANTED from a rather practical point of view:
I don’t enjoy the whole seduction game and neither do I find any thrill in it.
I find the whole process of seduction inefficient and annoying.
It costs time and energy – all to just experience intimacy – a basic human need.
Therefore, from a practical perspective, I want just sex to happen whenever I want it – that is the whole idea of a King having a personal harem in ancient times – and now in moden times, the most efficient and nerve-saving way to have this, is to simply have women always offer sex to you by themselves.
An abundant offer that is always there for me to accept whenever I choose to do so – which would be my personal and most efficient way of getting sex.
In our modern age, I just want always have an abundance of women to choose from and available for me to have sex with at any times when I want it, and all that without getting into that annoying and inefficient seduction process. Without wasting my time and energy on seducing.
My personal “free use fantasy” type of thing.
Where there are always more than enough women offering themselves to me to have sex with. I can just choose.
Being able to always choose is what really excites me.
Not having “to stick to what is there or else invest new efforts in the hopes of something better”, but the liberating feeling of being able to choose from a wide variety.
Having choice is true freedom!
Hopefully, that “MOST PRACTICAL approach” and “FREEDOM of CHOICE” arguments make sense…?
(Additionally, I always wanted to feel wanted and desired but I recognize that this is rather a validation issue I need to fix with more Love Bomb loops.)
Well, we’re not kings, and there must be something in it for women as well—something that makes your cock unique if you want to have it the way you described, especially since you narrowed it down to sex alone without including the psychological component, which is vital and indispensable in real seduction.
I’m just not sure how feasible it is, and I guess Primal Nights is the closest sub to what you want to achieve.
Wanted yes-but wanted by the woman I want most whether that’s sexual or sexual+More
Desire becomes a source of our further being wanted, so I don’t need to pull away to come together. It’s that strong pull
Physical shifting-
The stoicism, survival instinct -blend that creates that sense of masculinity is awesome
As much BDLM as can fit (I love this sub for more than just the physical shifting BDE is something that has people wanted)
That guy who just has the edge- that unexplainable thing-that woman want
Have the ‘wanted’ nature be fluid to business, offers, -other fields that require trust and influence- James Bond is Wanted and he has that.
Authenticity with the ability to still have intention
Ability for conversations to be effortless when necessary or sitting in sexual tension-
that magnetism and comfort with being pursued without expecting or relying on it.
Imprinting of sorts-
Mind-blowing, spiritual, raw, animalistic, every flavor of the spectrum, incredible sex- for both parties. The Wanted Man should not disappoint once she finally catches him .
What I WOULD LOVE to see in this sub is scripting around being the man in social/group situations that women pick.
I was amazing out on my own when I actively did nightlife to meet people.
BUT
I have so many social situations where an amazing woman would just end up with another man I was with. They sat in the right spot- nearer to them sooner. They were around at the right time, they connected/touched early- this was a thing
Sometimes it was just these little things- other times it was obvious the woman was almost seducing them.
I could point at various attractive traits they had, but nothing crazy- it was just the magic of that night seemed in their favor.
Sure, I’ve done that too, but lost out so many times, haha. So something in Wanted around ‘winning’ out in these situations - when with friends (and being detached regardless), a woman picking the Wanted man, and having things flow in their favor.
Just what I would love to see. ‘The One’ scripting here.
My brother has a friend he has introduced me to recently- he told me not to mess with her- so I respected that although regretfully. I know man want woman but man REALLY want this woman- she’s very attractive but also unusual looking- but her energy, her demeanor, her sexuality, her unreachability until she lets you in- so much about her just has every man really pursuing her. She has so much power in this sense. I would love for Wanted to be this sub that could give a man something like this.
I think the core of wanted should be feeling like the most desired man in the world.
Like, I had this experience when I had a god realization in a nightclub, and everything shifted in a second.
I had been stomach sick for two days and went to the club, and thought, Who would want me? I could barely walk through people as no one noticed me.
But then I just had a realization: if I’m god, I can just choose to be the most attractive man in the world right now.
And everything shifted in an instant. I got approached immediately, then another hot girl came and said, He’s my boyfriend, meanwhile I’m thinking, What the fuck is going on?
A third girl pulled me in for a make-out. Then I talked to a girl for a bit and she said, Why are you talking to me? You could have any woman here.
Then later I went into another nightclub, super high on life, and did a limbo on the dance floor. This hot Norwegian girl just put her legs over me so I touched between her legs with my head. Then the girl from the earlier nightclub come running up to me, Saying i thought i lost you let me buy you a drink.
I had a few more nights like this, but they are still a rare occurrence. And keep in mind i was out with a guy who was a dating coach, who had all attention earlier, He was way better with women yet this night, He could not get any attention as my energy alone just sucked everything in.
And I have never felt so desired.
And all I did was have fun, not give a fuck, be extremely relaxed, and feel like the most desired man in the world.
And that became my reality.
Feeling like the most desired man in the world and massive relaxation is all I want from this sub.
And I agree with SubZero, that a lot of things are not needed. I don’t need the coquette. If I feel like the most desired man in the world without reason, I’m already mysterious.
I don’t need more self-love either. I practiced it for so long. Or healing, for that matter.
I would like the script to be more targeted towards the goal of just being WANTED.
This is a crucial point where you were able to let go of your limiting beliefs. This is why I think the approach of DRLD adapted to the goals of WANTED could be a gamechanger if it is incorporated in the scripting.
But most likely, I think the producers have already thought about this.
That helps a lot, but we mustn’t underestimate the importance of the process called seduction.
It can’t be done any other way than by flipping the ancient (biological) mating rite through seduction. That reversal is at the core of seduction—making the desired person the pursuer. The ultimate seduction.
This is the essence of WANTED: using the most potent tool—tease and coquetry—that we learned from women, as a weapon to place them under our spell and have them at our mercy, where in reality, there is none—because we always go for the kill.