Yeah, the monogamous society structure is based around insecurity and they see polygamy as some extension of FWB culture. I’ve had guys in my circle tell me that I’m afraid of commitment, lol. Whatever you can think of that monogamous type of men come up with, I’ve had hurled at me.
The trick to dating multiple high quality women, is being emotionally, mentally and even spiritually invested in them. Most men are under the impression that you just have sex and that it’s purely physical - like FWB.
It’s not like that at all, at least not for me. I go to birthday parties and meet families… all of that stuff. It’s like having a bunch of really close friends, while also being a very busy person.
As long as you keep everything on a high vibe, keep it respectful, authentic, classy and etc, then everyone wins. Me and my partner have been in an open relationship since day 1, and despite being open it’s probably stronger, more romantic and more in tact than 99% of people’s relationships in today’s society. She also hasn’t slept with or met with another guy, despite having the option to and being very easily capable of doing so. There’s no point for her to, lol.
There’s also the thing of her being insecure when I go on dates with other women and sleep with them. She doesn’t actually care, as long as she gets a piece of me. The piece she gets from me is 1000x more powerful of a physical, emotional, spiritual and mental investment than she would get out of 99% of other men. Also, when it comes to hot and cold seduction as a coquette… Most coquettes “hot”, is my “cold” LOL. If you use WANTED and go deeper, you will move the goal post like that, as you start exploring and opening up more to energies, passions and romance.
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