Let’s take body language for example.
Confident, open, dominant, alpha male body language.
The body language being created, is subconscious, they’re not consciously aware of it. Most people don’t think about their own body language.
The body language is being driven by the deep internal framework and subconscious belief systems. That is the root cause. One could argue that real time changes in emotion based on various forms of external stimuli create different feelings and therefore different types of body language… and they would be correct. However, all of that too, is being filtered by the deep internal framework and subconscious belief systems.
If I put a gun to someone’s head and they’re a weapons expert who has thousands of hours practice in firearm disarmament, they’re going to be more confident compared to the average citizen who would fear for their life. So you see how real time reactions and interpretations to different situations are subjective. Everything that is experienced is first processed by the deep internal framework and subconscious belief systems which then create context and meaning. You can even take some of the most basic feelings like pain, and well… we won’t even go there. LOL. Let’s just say, the mind is powerful.
Anyways, if someone’s subconscious mind has beliefs about high self worth, internal power, invincibility (eradicate all types of fearful, weak, victim, insecure based belief systems), then they have a subconscious feeling that naturally expresses. Body language acts as one of many vehicles (another would be voice for example) for the natural expression.
This is why watching videos like “How to give a presentation to a large audience” is all incongruent and unnatural. This is another example, but what do they teach in those videos?
- make eye contact with the audience
- don’t move around too much
- have good posture and open body language
- speak at a slow and clear pace
You can’t just consciously integrate that and mimic it. You can habitualize it, but the most natural and organic way is through congruence.
Making eye contact with the audience is being present, authentic and connected/intimate with the audience in what you’re conveying versus how they’re receiving. If one is subconsciously aligned to that, then it’s automatic.
I did a college presentation some months ago and I didn’t do the overthinking autisticky type of stuff to myself like “I’m 10 minutes in, now is the time to make eye contact for 5 seconds to an individual on the right.” Like what? LOL
No, just be yourself, be present, find your flow, be authentic and connect to everyone. It’s all natural, automatic and organic. I really don’t like the overthinking self-conscious stuff where everyone becomes an expert because then nobody is present.
The funny part is… what is an Alpha Male trait? Being present. Something to think about, lol… If you keep exploring that last part, it will lead to a massive paradox redpill but that’s a whole other topic.
Back to the rest of the points:
Moving around too much is nervousness. Standing still with good posture is all automatic if your internal framework is aligned with that.
Speaking fast is nervousness and anxiety, it essentially stems from a weak frame, meaning that the person lacks power and a level of dignified stature in their being/self-perception.
Having open body language is just accepting yourself and not fearing rejection which is an extension of not requiring approval of the tribe in order to feel safe. Hence the person is open, whereas someone who is afraid of criticism or what people think, will have closed off and defensive body language. It’s the deep internal framework and subconscious belief systems that are root causal in driving all of this expression.
These videos teach you how to be overly self-conscious of everything. Constantly modeling and mimicking of an ideal. It’s unnatural and a form of cheating in my opinion, lol. It’s incongruence and I dislike the smell. I don’t believe in those types of shortcuts. I lean towards developing internally and manifesting everything automatically. However, most don’t lean towards that way as I’ve already mentioned because that involves growth and most people are addicted to stagnation so they need quick tricks.
What you’re proposing is that, instead of targeting the root cause (inner work) in order to manifest the expression naturally, it’s better to create the expression unnaturally and purely through conscious means thereby “faking congruence.”
What you’ve proposed is actually contradictory in a sense. Because healing and going through the inner work brings out eternal authenticity out as a person. The healing itself teaches you that there isn’t a need for faking congruence in the first place.
So doing healing while faking congruence, isn’t sustainable lol. One of them will be dropped eventually.
In my opinion and experience, faking congruence mostly has to do with protecting the ego. The more damaged the internal framework, the more inclined one is to fake the congruence. This same dynamic is prevalent in the superiority complex. It’s this thing where being yourself when compared to others makes one feel inadequate and the only way for the ego to feel safe is by falsely exaggerating
one’s self to a state that removes those feelings (often times even going towards feelings of superiority). It’s a form of self-delusion and pretending, in order to feel better about one’s self.
This is far different than the Law of Assumption. Law of Assumption is not a substitute for facing one’s internal trauma. That’s why I’m slightly thrown off when I get a whiff of people who are potentially doing it in that manner because it’s metaphorically like the antichrist of growth. LOL.
LOA type of stuff in general, doesn’t work if there is a block in the subconscious mind. For example if you have a deep-seated subconscious fear of making money, then you won’t attract it into your life regardless of how much visualizing and feeling you do. This is why mainstream LOA is a hit and a miss for most people, it’s because the subconscious mind and belief system aspects have been conveniently left out to the mass public.
Now, if you try to pretend and assume that you’re a confident, playboy, badass millionaire with 20 harems, but yet the first 20-30 years of your life have been programmed with a fear of rejection, lack of self love, low self worth, fear of masculinity, a compulsion to blend in with the herd for safety and massive amounts of disempowering trauma picked up from society, women, parents, media, porn, music etc… All of that pretending and assuming won’t do jack shit, lol. There won’t be a congruent level of change in the individual because again, the subconscious internal framework is still the same. The subconscious mind by the way, is far more powerful than the conscious mind.
Yet another example is:
Person A gets cheated on by their girlfriend and ends up having immense anger and hatred to their girlfriend. They break up and the anger and hatred remains unresolved in the form of relationship trauma. Person A wants to manifest a heavenly relationship with a beautiful, ideal partner. However, that relationship trauma literally acts as a block which prevents them from attracting what they want. It’s moreso a repulsion than a block. You ever tried to bring 2 magnets with like charges together? Yeah, it’s like that… they repel.
So what ends up happening, is 90% of the individuals mind (including the subconscious which is more powerful than the conscious mind) is repelling due to fear based on unresolved trauma and they’re using their less powerful conscious mind to try and attract. It’s basic physics at that point because the more powerful part of them obviously overrides.
This is why actual growth, healing, internal work and etc is important. This is why congruence and overall alignment is important. It’s not skippable, you can’t delude yourself out of it and you can’t run away or look away. It’s not even about manifesting your goals, this is fundamental to the life experience. Humans have been growing like this since their creation. Most mainstream idols and figureheads have faced recon, taken action and learned to fail through natural challenges of life, because that is what led to their eventual maturation, development of character and ultimately congruence.
The point of that segment is to explain that: soley doing conscious adjustments (trying to change external behavior) without inner work won’t result in much change.
It was part of a discussion. Nobody here is Person A, because they’re all doing subconscious work.
There’s no reason to be annoyed or frustrated because Person A isn’t referring to you or anyone here.
Enter Person X.
Person X is the Subliminal Club customer. A GOAT in the making. While everyone in society is quarrelling, dividing and sedating with each other, it’s Person X who has the tenacity to revolt against the false cards that he’s been dealt. It’s Person X who has the balls to say “You know what? Fuck this, I deserve better.” Person X is someone who has had enough of the nonsense and is ready to grow. They’re ready to use the most powerful tools on the surface of the planet. They’re ready to do inner work, transform and become a badass of the highest order. They’re ready to put the power of their mind where their mouth is. He is the beseecher of internal growth and all that is aligned with the best version of himself. He will stop at nothing to manifest his desired reality because in his heart, he knows that he deserves it. It is his birthright as a sovereign manifestor in the eyes of the universe.
All Person X has to do is follow intuition and take action that aligns with the subliminal.
For example, if someone wants to become better with women. Then they will need to change their deep internal framework and subconscious belief systems. So they listen to something like Primal Seduction which starts moving the goalpost towards what they want.
These subliminals help guide you towards developing congruence but that doesn’t mean that the conscious mind is somehow exempt. The way one uses the conscious mind to develop congruence, is not by faking it or mimicking it. It’s by stimulating the inner work through taking action. You use the conscious mind not to cheat the subconscious inner work, but to maximize the inner work. So when you take action, then the inner work is filtering the actions taken in a way that is not only optimal, but aligned with the destination that the inner work is set to, in order to create the new internal framework = congruence. You’re in essence, not really aligning your conscious mind with the subliminal… but aligning your conscious mind with your own subconscious mind which is reacting to the subliminal. Doesn’t really matter though.
So let’s give a practical example here:
Person X is running Ascended Mogul. Become a badass Alpha Male, large social networks, command respect, get women, make money, be masculine, be confident, etc. The cookie cutter stuff, right lol.
Completely ignoring starting point here. So when they listen to the subliminal, there is then inner work being done and the subconscious mind is stirring. That’s when you start taking action in a way that aligns with what is stirring, but you be yourself throughout.
Like I said in the last post, most people when they be themselves, it’s a mess and that is okay. The tool allows you to develop and change your internal framework to not be a mess, through a combination of subconscious work + action taking. That is how the new internal framework is born and next thing you know, you’re congruent.
When you throw around the word “ACTION”, people gasp. Their hearts start racing and they begin clutching their Jesus pieces. LOL. It’s a scary word for some people. They always interpret it to the extreme for some reason.
Like if you say “take action with Primal Seduction”, they immediately think “oh no!! I have to approach random women and make a fool out of myself!!”
Like woah, woah, woah… hold your horses. When you say Action, it’s almost like they instantly think of the most horrific, panic inducing and humiliating scenario or something.
Google definition of Action:
a thing done; an act.
So scary, lol.
This is how I would recommend people to take action.
Everyone has an internal gauge of feeling, called discomfort. All you have to do, is things that are in alignment with the subliminal, that create manageable discomfort.
So if you’re running Primal Seduction or Emperor and scared to leave the house. Gauge your own feelings and take a small step, even if it’s extremely small, towards the direction. The subliminal will be guiding you and your subconscious mind will be by your side. Excalibur is in the back pocket. This is really where journaling can come in handy. It helps if you treat life like a video game - that is what I do. Before you know it, you’re in a different norm, or a different level. I call that moving the goal post of reality.
Also, your capacity or threshold to take bigger steps, increases. So the growth can sometimes be exponential… how awesome is that.
If someone is using Primal Seduction, then taking action doesn’t necessarily mean cold-approaching women. If they’re afraid of women for example, then taking action would mean putting themselves in places where there are women around (not even interacting with them). If even that is too scary and panicky (discomfort level, remember the gauge) then go even smaller. Although, I don’t know what would be smaller than that LOOL, but I’m sure their subconscious mind will intuitively find some way.
I don’t know if that helps to be honest… but yeah. Lol
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