Wow… last night before I went to sleep my whole body was sore and today I woke up… zero soreness. LOL, awesome. Can’t wait to workout today, Spartan ZP is something else. I’m noticing increased recovery rate
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True I agree with that, all women are beautiful because they represent the divine feminine and the opposite is true as well. I maybe wasn’t clear enough with what I meant. My perspective is not that they are not attractive, but more the compatibility with me as to where I am currently in my life. All women are worthy of my love and I’m worthy of the love from all women. So when I heal I’m more compatible and enjoy spending time with women that has also done some work healing rather than just numbing their pain with alcohol as an example, but nothing wrong with that, just different ways of living.
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Congruence is this:
You have Person A and Person B.
Person A = typical beta male
Person B = alpha male
Each of these people have an internal framework. They have subconscious belief systems.
Person A = large amounts of emotional trauma, lack of self-love, low self-worth, subconsciously afraid of being masculine, sexual repression/unwellness etc.
Person B = high self-love, high self-worth, unapologetically masculine, healthy expression of sexuality.
Okay now, remember. We’re purely talking about subconscious mind here. Not the conscious mind. We’re talking about deep internal framework and subconscious belief systems. That is what drives everything.
Person A is a mess, so he reads a self-help book on how to be a masculine Alpha Male.
I’ll just make up a couple things of what they’d potentially read, lol.
- Sit up straight and tall, have confident body language.
- Start saying no to people and asserting boundaries.
- Stop chasing women.
Next day, Person A just suddenly changes to do all of those things. Uh… no.
Person A still has [large amounts of emotional trauma, lack of self-love, low self-worth, subconsciously afraid of being masculinity, sexual repression/unwellness etc.] within their deep internal framework and subconscious system.
One cannot just make conscious adjustments and expect changes. The internal framework is still the same. The deep childhood trauma of the parent teaching you to be feel worthless hasn’t suddenly disappeared, has it? No lol.
So when you make conscious adjustments, it’s incongruence.
Basically, you’re consciously trying to be a certain way and 99% of your internal subconscious is going the opposite way. You’re not congruent. Your entire being is not aligned and harmonized in the same thing.
In fact, here is a redpill. Most of the Alpha Male behavior/characteristics you read about in those books or listen to in youtube videos… are natural expression of the internal framework and subconscious belief systems. The internal framework and subconscious belief systems have a default expression. So the Alpha Male is not even consciously aware of their behavior, it’s all Automatic and Natural.
All of these “How to be Alpha books” are essentially the result of Beta Males, putting Alpha Males under a microscope and extracting their EXTERNAL behaviors and expressions. Not taking into account the DEEP internal framework and SUBCONSCIOUS belief systems that are the main driving factor BEHIND all of those external behaviors and expressions.
So when people with messed up internal frameworks integrate this knowledge and try to consciously adjust to it… they are incongruent. They’re not the real thing.
There is absolutely no way you can just learn it like that, lol. It’s unnatural.
A person who has a childhood trauma to hate themselves, it doesn’t matter what they consciously do. The subconscious default of their expression for body language will always reflect that. They will always be in a state of consciously correcting it, until they address the subconscious default - healing their trauma.
They can habitualize the outer body language through repetition but it won’t be naturally derived from their internal framework in an organic way.
Incongruence is the overly conscious mimicing of EXTERNAL expression. It’s cheating, unnatural and doesn’t work, lol. It’s disconnected from the deep internal framework and subconscious belief systems - which is where the real change is.
This is prevalent everywhere… the entire realm of PUA for example, is based around incongruence. Instead of doing the subconscious work and doing the real thing, it’s much easier to just shortcut to the external behaviors. One can do that, but they’ll always lose out to the congruent man lol.
Incongruent man is the false prophet that has binoculars on the congruent man in order to copy and be like him. Different parts of him are conflicted and opposing, his internal + external doesn’t add up.
Congruent man is the man, the myth, the legend… the real deal. Inwards, outwards, top to bottom. Fibonacci sequence, lol.
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To further add to that… this is why I say that when you’re congruent then “shit testing” doesn’t exist.
When you’re incongruent, people can sense it subconsciously and vice versa.
Beta male who is 99% traumatized takes a pre-workout, listens to some hyped warrior soundtrack and walks around puffing out his chest like he’s the shit.
Everyone is looking at him and can sense that he’s 99% traumatized. You can’t hide shit. So despite him consciously feeling like the bomb, everyone is compelled to treat him and reflect back how 99% of him is defaulted to express and emit outwards towards the reality.
So when he starts getting the feedback that he is outputting, he will conclude that “people are intimidated by me”. Nobody is intimidated by him, they just think he’s weird and egotistical, which is annoying to people. Incongruence reeks like no other… it’s like fear lol it has a distinct smell.
It’s like the nerd in school who starts speaking up 1 day. He’s consciously trying to speak up more, yet 99% of him is still the same. So people sense this incongruence and sit him down, like “yeah I ain’t buying it”. They challenge his incongruence. Incongruence is unattractive by the way because it’s not authentic. Not morally or theoretically… but fundamentally, given the process of conscious + subconscious alignment which I just outlined in the previous post.
It’s like being in a relationship with your controlling girlfriend or your wife and you start trying to be different. They just laugh at you because they know it’s not you. It’s like “lol, yeah sure, sure… now do what the fuck I say or you’re sleeping on the couch…” LOL
You can’t fake stuff or avoid the deep subconscious growth, change, healing.
When you do the work though, then everything changes like magic.
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@SWITCH so if you want to check if something is congruent or incongruent.
Ask yourself, “is this behavior, expression, or thought being driven by a deep internal framework and subconscious belief system? Or is it being solely created from the conscious mind and conscious knowledge base”.
Another quick example I can give is Coquettry.
WANTED ZP can create coquettish behavior, right.
There are 2 types of people.
Congruent Coquette:
The coquettish behavior is naturally and automatically expressed due to the individuals deep internal framework and subconscious belief systems.
Incongruent Coquette (this is 99% of conventional coquettes):
Person reads seduction book and learns that playing hot and cold games can drive women crazy. Person then consciously attempts to express said behavior. It is purely conscious, based on conscious knowledge and it’s not tied directly to their deep internal frame and subconscious belief systems. This makes them extremely flawed because women can sense incongruence and this is why coquettes are seen as toxic and have a bad rap. Since most incongruent coquettes are traumatized, egotistical type of men (hence why they’re trying to consciously learn how to manipulate women like that in the first place). Ironically, the Incongruent Coquette’s biggest weakness is the women learning about his deep internal framework.
For the Congruent Coquette, there is no weakness, because his deep internal framework is aligned throughout. There is no sketchiness or flaws, which drives her even more crazy.
I went into this whole thing in detail here:
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Amen to that. I have started to notice that too a lot, people almost never question me now. At first it felt strange because I was not used to it, but it makes alot of sense now. I’m learning to fill that void it left behind with what it is I want to do, because I was taught to depend on the system and others, blind leading the blind. It’s like you go from a spectator seat at the baseball game, and instead now you are on the actual field stepping up to the plate expected to swing.
What you talk about is so prevalent in the PUA scene, they never treat the root cause, but instead teach people to manipulate themselves into thinking that s**t is supposed to be there and building falsehood over more falsehood. This is the reason I still see posts from guys who has been there for a decade still doing the same thing and banging their heads against the wall over and over again, and then proclaiming how happy they are.
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It’s compensation and coping mechanisms at the end of the day. It’s the easiest way out.
What’s more easy and comfortable? Facing, growing and healing out of years of childhood trauma and crap belief systems while learning to love yourself… or just ignoring all of that and using conscious manipulation that can instantly be learned and applied?
When you’re congruent, then you don’t have to use cheap manipulation tactics and be dishonest to women. You can just be yourself and everything works automatically, lol. It’s a higher vibration too, more fulfilling. Dishonesty is a lower vibration based on fear, so yeah these men who do shit like that are just fearful, coward type of men - all weasely and shit, lol. Hence why their relationships are all messy and their women aren’t deeply into them like that. It’s just incongruence, lol.
You know the infamous phrase “be yourself”. What it essentially means is “be congruent with your internal framework and subconscious belief systems”.
It literally saying to cut out the conscious, incongruent compensation. However, when most people be themselves, they’re a complete mess. Now they have to face their own issues and do healing which is difficult. It also involves reconciling their ego and having to put down the masks which they’re addicted to.
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I wish these programs had some ego balancing.
These man are no different from beyond that you have access to a program that drastically changed your life.
If not for this program, I’m sure you would have belonged to that same category and it’s not their fault. This world is SETUP, like a factory generating such men. And it’s sad.
It’s not “just subconsciously becoming congruent”, the program does that for you, it has powerful manifestation modules, it has powerful technology to bring about the manifestation of the experiences you had—and these experiences is what have made you congruent and real to what you believe in.
The mass is totally powerless because those tools are not accessible to them, neither is the knowledge accessible.
So without that, without recreating themselves… they will be a natural byproduct of what the system makes from them. And clearly that is not much.
See, the system was never broken, it’s supposed to be this way. If the system was setup for human advancement many of the world problems would change overnight and world peace would be achieved and we’d be travelling the stars right now.
In fact all those people are victims, they have been so immensely disempowered that nothing is left of them, not even the character to speak their truth — out of fear they would be even further damaged.
So knowing this why would you point fingers at them, and not at the true cause?
Who is really afraid, those who are in power. Why?
Because they are afraid of the truth! Because what they live is a deceiving lie. And everyone has fallen for it.
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I don’t put all the power into the program. As far as I’m concerned, I manifested the program into my life because I was ready for it.
Like I said before and I’ll say it again…
If Subliminal Club shut down tomorrow and all of their products disappeared from my hard drive, I wouldn’t care at all. Minor inconvenience, that’s about it.
You don’t think I can manifest tools to help me manifest what I want in my reality and change my belief systems? You don’t think I can manifest without any technology of sort? Lol
In my opinion, if one is truly ready to face things and grow in their life or their perception, then all they need to do is but decide and the pathway will be created.
Some people say it’s God, the Universe, Higher Self, etc.
Call it what you want, lol.
My belief is that nobody is truly a “victim”, I don’t buy into victimhood mentality in any way, shape or form. Why? Because it’s predicated on powerlessness and fear - all which is an illusion. I’m not really compatible with that kind of stuff.
I told you that I’m immune to curses and all of that stuff and you said “nobody is immune”. Go and hire someone to target me then, lol. Prepare to get a refund though LOL
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If you are not receptive which I’m sure you aren’t then it will just disperse in your environment, take the path of least resistance and find perhaps an innocent friend of yours who at that time you are coincidentally in conversation with.
Lol. I would rather not be at the cause of that 
My point was that it is very wise of you to believe these things but that it is even wiser to have this conduct while not looking down on all others who are still disempowered because it does not serve them.
That’s like being the empowered villain, while I’m sure you can be the hero in people’s lives
It’s life, it’s true we are all creators and by our Will we can bend the world around us to our liking but clearly it is not working for most — it’s not actually that easy.
Also the creation of pathways is a thought-form.
What if it’s not there in your subconscious?
It’s made by the program, I’m sure it’s from Khan.
Yggdrasil would be the module for that.
Also, you will not be receptive so long you that you have willpower. It’s all a war on mind, during WW2 many occultist were captures as many of them were spies — and to get information out of them, they were tortured, poisoned, weakened, because otherwise they were not receptive to the mind-control.
Everyone can be made receptive by weakening them.
But on Khan you can become a strong and powerful individual who is unlikely to be affected by much (directly). That is true.
It will still drain you and you will likely notice it if it penetrates your aura or gets even as little as a window to penetrate it then it will be very difficult to recover.
Okay, but where did I look down on them?
Hold on a sec here because what you quoted (I’m guessing you didn’t like), was this:
Google definition of weasely:
- devious, misleading, not direct and honest
is that not what PUA manipulators are doing?
Google definition of coward:
- a person who lacks the courage to do or endure dangerous or unpleasant things.
is that not precise for someone who is afraid of facing internal issues?
Am I incorrect? Is there an underlying superiority behind my usage of these words or are they just accurately suitable for the point which I’m trying to convey?
Lol
I don’t use these words in a domineering type of way, that’s other people’s projection, lol.
I literally use them as analysis like a doctor.
I think you’d agree with the state I’m describing these men to be in - which their behavior and decisions are being driven from.
There’s no ego in my analysis, it’s all clinical. Some words are high ROI, what can I say lol.
I’m also not blaming or pointing fingers at these men. Like you said, I’ve been there before too. I’ve been a complete mess in the past. I’ve been a weasely coward for half of my life, it’s not necessarily a bad thing, it’s moreso “okay but where do we go from there”. That’s what the whole discussion is about, bringing to light the importance of congruence and how subconscious tools/work allow one to develop and grow out of that.
So yeah, I don’t see how I’m blaming or looking down on people.
Yeah, but I’ll always have the willpower. I’m also immune to being captured. Hire someone to capture me, lol. No matter how hard you try, you won’t.
My friends are immune too lol
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Khan are rare individuals and if not for this program we could say they have probably gone extinct lol
This is why certain royalties are ritualistically treated as they are treated. It’s theater, sure, but it creates congruence.
I agree in all these. But are you trying to say that anyone who can’t change or heal their subconscious belief systems aren’t congruent ?
If this is so, it means that anybody who doesn’t use subliminals or anything thing or sort to change ones internal belief systems isn’t congruent.
Yes brother, lol.
By the way, I know you were battling the pornography addiction.
I have many posts here expressing my utter disdain and contempt for it, almost as if I have a personal vendetta against porn. I actually do, and I’ll tell you why.
You see, I actually don’t have a problem about the addictive part. I could care less if other men want to destroy their own mind lol, it doesn’t affect me.
99% of my issue with porn comes from my first-hand experiences with women whose sexual expectations and expressions have been molded by porn addicted men.
The first woman who I manifested with WANTED, is now my partner. She’s 23 so fairly young. When we first had sex, her expectations of how to conduct and express herself during sex had been molded by her past sexual experiences which all consisted of porn-addicted men.
These men want to do all the stuff they see in porn and then create an expectation out of the women they date, to meet their expectations. It’s absolutely insane.
I actually had to teach her how to open up and have real sex. At first she was like “oh wait… what? wow…” and I was like “exactly…”
It doesn’t stop there… most of the women I dated after - same pattern.
I always think like “so you’ve been deprived of what the true natural human experience has to offer, for most of your life”. This warped and debased form of sexuality that porn teaches and programs the mind with is disgusting.
Not because of what it is, but what it deprives people out of in terms of life experience.
That shit really, really irks me. You know how guys like Jordan Peterson start getting emotional and shit when they talk about humanity and whatnot lol… porn irks me on that level because I’ve seen what it can do to women (not men) first hand. It’s absolute madness. If it weren’t for these experiences of mine, I wouldn’t give a shit about porn… I would tell everyone to go ahead and watch it.
It’s just something insane about having the woman you’re with, confused as to why you won’t do something ridiculously insane to them and them not knowing why it’s insane. In their mind they’re thinking “Isn’t this what men like”. It’s wayyy too crazy, just heartwrenchingly insane to me.
But yeah, if you heal your sexuality, you’re also separating yourself from the typical traumatized male even more. Your sexual experiences to the women, will no longer be like how it is with every other guy. Maybe it’s a WANTED thing though, who knows.
Also, those emotional aspects of WANTED matter. I find that the best lovers are the empath, highly sensitive, HSP type of people because they feel so much and are so open. Once you start bringing highly charged emotions and energy into sex, then that’s when it starts turning into powerful, trance-like transformative experiences. Again, this is all congruence, you can’t force, fake or consciously conjure all of it. It’s far too deep for that.
These guys who are closed off and repressed will never understand the magnificence. They’re all incredibly de-sensitized too lol… porn desensitizes like crazy. That’s why they need more crazier and extreme stuff to get off on.
I don’t know if you’re still battling the porn addiction, but if you are… keep at it and don’t give up.
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Am free from that shit!! My Goal is not to get back to the Porn Slavery ever again.
Don’t you think that Porn subconsciously changes the sexual perceptions of these men?
Also you should care man,Come on, you live on Earth like other men, imagine you are the only one who has solved the porn Riddle, would you lay back and watch men destroy themselves? I guess not, we men are all here to give our gift to this world , which you have did countless of times in this forum.
Whoahh I didn’t know this modern day Addiction has effect on our women.
I must say this started from our grandparents that viewed sex as a taboo and negative. They didn’t even teach their children how sex looks like and how it should be practiced.
Porn now came in and most people learnt about sexuality through it which then distorts our perception on what true sexuality is…
Don’t you guys also think that having women with this porn satisfaction mindset make it harder for us men who go in with full congruence to be able to satisfy her?
When we are healed we are coming from expressing sex in an extremely natural way with intense emotion. Where as her expectations are insane stuff from porn videos.
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This sounds like a painful and heartbreaking experience 
Yeah it has a way of affecting them in such manner. Because the sex will now become more of mechanical instead an emotional experience.
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