Love Bomb Pro-Tips

Questions and Comments
#2

So if something is out of your comfort zone, you shouldn’t try to strive for it?
If you feel like staying in bed in the morning and don’t have the intention of getting up, do you act accordingly?
Or do you strive for improvement and get up nevertheless because you know that staying in doesn’t help ? (Speaking of everyday life, not days for relaxation and recovery).
I guess you had days, when you didn’t want to go to the gym, but did anyways.

Love and intention is like a muscle. You can train and get better at it. But like with muscles, growing is challenging at times.

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#3

The ability to choose your feelings is called emotional mastery. It’s always a good thing to know how to choose feeling that will help you have a good experience of the day.

#4

Ask yourself this question:

  • How can I show love for myself?

For example, if your goal is to lose weight then you can start by eating healthy, walking more etc… the result is that obviously you will lose weight this way, but first of all you are developing love for yourself. I quit smoking very easily when I was on LBFH, but my goal was love and not quitting smoking, that was a consequence.

If you are not going to radiate love (whether internally or externally) then ask yourself if you are listening to the right title, remember that the love you feel on the inside you will show on the outside and radiate it, so it is not “ forced". You are simply defining a clear action of the title you are listening to, for example if I listen to Limitless I will start my day defining what to study.

I totally agree, especially when it comes to loving yourself, but what you gain from it will be worth all the effort you put in

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#5

You are not just your conscious mind. Conscious mind you experience is only a small part of your being (do you consciously control how your liver works etc.). So you are not your current feelings either, it’s just a temporary state.

You subconscious mind isn’t without intelligence or like a robot, so when receive your intentions will act according to your current situation to reach that goal. So despite how you feel in that moment you set destination for what you choose to be.

So about that pro-tip… ofc it’s your choice to set in an intention for that day. But if you don’t wanna choose that why bother listening to Love Bomb program to begin with?

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#6

No one is talking about forcing.

You set the intention like “Today I am going to try to spread love.”
“Today I am going to try to not eat that afternoon cake.”
“Today I am going to try to ‘insert intention here’”.
“I am going to take 5 minutes today during my lunch break to think of things I love.”

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#7

It’s simpler than that

Playing love bomb is already intention into itself

You waked up and did smth for your self like mini habit whatever it is 2 push ups whatever this is intention to radiate love

You thinked about beautiful trait in some one and you say I would like to see more of it this intention .

The diamond of love light has many facets , curiosity , interest , peace whatever it is that you can act on

Make it simpler

In play love bomb and didn’t have that daily intention . But when I read the sales page or play the title I know what I want to achieve and live by listening to that title . It’s simple you don’t need to conjure up certain feeling

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#8

Take it slow, breath by breath and step by step. Set an intention, afterall, you are listening to Love Bomb and are directing your energies towards that path - the objectives; then go through the day and let it unfold before you.

There is no forcing, nothing fruitful comes out of force. One might fail that intention shortly after setting it, perhaps you burn your tongue drinking coffee and it sends you in a spiral. Take note of it, become aware, thing bring yourself back into that space and carry on. Later on that day, still within the earliest parts of it, you’d encounter a mechanical problem with your vehicle, your bus is late, there’s traffic jam, and thing of such. Repeat. Continue until the end of your night and reflect on the situations where you feel like you failed. Rinse, learn, and repeat.

Its a daily thing that you commit to until its second nature. There may be days where you could keep that streak for days on end, others you’d lose it early on. Doesn’t matter, work with it and let it unfold as it should be. No one outside of yourself is pushing you, nor forcing you to do anything, don’t be so hard on yourself. Show some compassion to yourself, it means more coming from you :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

You are a human after-all, we go into spirals of emotions, feelings and thoughts, waves with hills and troughs, keep playing with the rhythm until you find your beat.

Also, examine why you are feeling this way when you rise up from your sleep. Perhaps its something related to health and nutrition. Sometimes, untying one simple knot would unravel the whole net.

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#9

then，you could do something make you happy…what do you enjoy doing ？when you participate those activities…you will naturally get into the right state and the scripts will fire off at those moment…. :wink:

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#10

I think some of you didn’t understand what I wanted to say.

I meant that we shouldn’t force things like tinking “Oh , I’m so positive today” :slight_smile:

By my experience, that can last a few days, but after that, things start going bad for me, and then is much worse than if I would have not forced feeling it.

Some of you explained well what that pro-tip meant, and I understood.

@ksub, by what you’re saying you can choose to feel positive even when feeling negative?

#11

100% yes!!! And there are dozens for techniques for that. Anything from EFT, to affirmations, to reframing and more. It’s a skill. You get better at it over time.

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#12

@SuperSaiyan : You can literally believe that the universe is rigged in your favor. It’s called " Pronoia"

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#13

In all due respect, this is a personal opinion, not a fact. There is no known law of anything that specifies whether setting an intention like this is right or wrong. It depends on the individual. If you don’t agree with the pro-tip, by all means, don’t do it.

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#14

The decision to purchase and run Love Bomb is already the setting of an intention to radiate love and positivity.

For that matter, every subliminal program that you have ever played has represented an intention on your part to cultivate and express particular attitudes and states of mind.

As to the specific question of ‘forcing’:

‘Forcing’ is not mentioned in that quote.

Making choices about our mental orientations is a natural process that we are all doing everyday and all day. It’s literally the biological function of your brain’s Prefrontal cortex.

Your body wants to urinate and you say, ‘Wait until we get to the bathroom’.

You’re in a meeting and your favorite song pops into your head. You say, ‘let’s wait until we’re in the car or at karaoke to belt that one out.’

You’re driving in said car and you feel sleepy, and you say, ‘Let’s stay alert and not crash the car. We’ll take a nap when we get home.’

And so on and so on.

You make choices about how to best direct your attention, your cognitions, your emotions all the time.

Now, to respect your original point, those choices should definitely respect the boundaries, needs, and limits of your body and mind. We’re not trying to abuse or ‘force’ anything. You should respect your nature and your joy and your safety; and not make choices that twist yourself or bend yourself in destructive ways.

But don’t pretend that you’re not making choices every day. It’s a burden and it’s also a super power. And ultimately, it’s just a normal part of being a higher-order lifeform. (Octopuses, cows, crows, chimpanzees, and dogs are all doing it too in their own ways and to their own degrees.).

Also, remember that love includes self-compassion and the care that you give to yourself on an ongoing basis. Love, respect, and properly manage your own flow of needs, sensations, and states of being.

This will ensure that you find and keep the right balances, and that you do not force anything.

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#15

It’s not about forcing, it’s about choice and free will. what do you wanna build for in 5-10 years? you are creating it at the moment.
And setting an intention is a way to do it. It is not really about setting yourself for positivity for a particular day.

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#16

I know you guys know your stuff, so I didn’t saw it as not agreeing.
I saw it as not understanding, how to make sense out of it, because the tip in the way it was described, was not in accordance with my experiences and knowledge.

And so I put my self in a position of wanting to understand and learn.
You guys already explained it well and I thank you for that.

I’m going to look at the shared Pronoia video and see if I can learn how to choose my emotions. It just looks to good, to much of a Super Power, but I’m glad you guys pointed me out something like this.

I wondering if a person that masters Pronoia (or choosing to feel good at any time), can overcome a severe depression with this, but I’ll read about it.

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#17

Exactly. If you need to urinate, you can choose to delay it, but you can’t delay it forever.
Now imagine the same for feeling bad about something. I could choose to focus on something positive, but sooner or later I would have to deal with, process that emotion and deal/solve the event/problem that caused it.

But this is according to my experience. According to what @ksub said, there are other techniques like EFT, affirmations, reframing and Pronoia, to help us so that it doesn’t have to be the way is has been to me so far.

I’ll take a look at these techniques.

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#18

@SuperSaiyan

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#19

You’re into tapping?

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#20

Not all the time but it’s one of the tools in my arsenal.

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#21

That’s exactly right.

Unsatisfying though it may feel right now, you’ve already got the answer.

When I was a little boy, one of my weekly chores was to dust the furniture in the living room.

It probably took about 15 minutes or so. And I did it every Friday.

My parents gave me that chore knowing that by the following week I would need to do it again.

My chore was not: Destroy all circulating dust in the atmosphere of our home

It was: Each Friday, take a rag and wipe off the dust that has accumulated over the course of the week.

Do you see the point?

Many things in life are like this.

You inhale over and over again, knowing that each inhale will be followed immediately by an exhale that “ruins” the amazing work that you did with your ‘perfect’ inhale. Does that mean that your inhales are all failures or are done in vain?

When you create an intention of love and positive orientation, it does not mean that you must also destroy all other feelings and conditions that arise in you.

You’re adding something good. And you’ll keep adding it over and over again. Just like breathing. It’s not a vain project that’s ‘doomed to fail’. Like breathing, it’s just part of a healthy life. PART. Not the entire thing.

All emotions serve their functions. Don’t try to destroy any of them. Just add and include love into the mix.

Balance is the key principle.

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