Love Bomb Pro-Tips

[Malkuth]

@SuperSaiyan

Now imagine the same for feeling bad about something. I could choose to focus on something positive, but sooner or later I would have to deal with, process that emotion and deal/solve the event/problem that caused it.

That’s exactly right.

Unsatisfying though it may feel right now, you’ve already got the answer.

When I was a little boy, one of my weekly chores was to dust the furniture in the living room.

It probably took about 15 minutes or so. And I did it every Friday.

My parents gave me that chore knowing that by the following week I would need to do it again.

My chore was not: Destroy all circulating dust in the atmosphere of our home

It was: Each Friday, take a rag and wipe off the dust that has accumulated over the course of the week.

Do you see the point?

Many things in life are like this.

You inhale over and over again, knowing that each inhale will be followed immediately by an exhale that “ruins” the amazing work that you did with your ‘perfect’ inhale. Does that mean that your inhales are all failures or are done in vain?

When you create an intention of love and positive orientation, it does not mean that you must also destroy all other feelings and conditions that arise in you.

You’re adding something good. And you’ll keep adding it over and over again. Just like breathing. It’s not a vain project that’s ‘doomed to fail’. Like breathing, it’s just part of a healthy life. PART. Not the entire thing.

All emotions serve their functions. Don’t try to destroy any of them. Just add and include love into the mix.

Balance is the key principle.

[SuperSaiyan]

@Malkuth

When you create an intention of love and positive orientation, it does not mean that you must also destroy all other feelings and conditions that arise in you.

And remember that people are projections of parts of us (at least I believe in it), so the same principle applies to people: “Don’t try to destroy people that are bad to you, even if they have damaged/hurt you seriously!”
Instead talk to them and try to understand what is going on, and what they can teach you.

Heal yourself from those wounds and emotions, and heal those people that have been bad to you, by giving the example. They have been bad to you because someone has been bad to them, many times in a very long chain of bad/evil behaviours that was propagated through countless people.

Many cowards just propagate to others what someone has done to them. I refuse to do that. What I would have trouble to do would be the healing/forgiveness part. And so I would throw it back at those people to make them see they can’t to that anymore to me nor to others.

Now, with the Love Bomb I will be able to understand, forgive, and grow/get stronger.

I’m going to break that cycle of evil, hatred and resentment, and show everyone my true strength, by spreading the chain of Love through them!

[SuperSaiyan]

My father would also destroy bad things in people, to the point of oppressing them (it is what he has done to me).

Even though he would do that, it would work for him, he was very successful, and I don’t understand how did it work for so many years. For me, if I try to do that, I fall quickly.

I think it’s in the same way how many dictators can maintain their empires for so long. It eventually falls, I just don’t understand how can they build it, and keep it up for so long.