Very interesting, thanks for your suggestions 
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Now that you said it, it does seem like recon.
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Iām resuming this old post 'cause honestly Iām still on the same boat.
Iāve started using Genesis since half June, so 5 cycles now but havenāt seen any progress at all in this (Iām also still running Wanted and AM which is supposed to help help with this too).
My action so far has been introspection about this, resultā¦ more confusion.
Today Iāll start looking into this one
https://www.amazon.com/Purpose-Factor-Extreme-Clarity-Youre/dp/B08NFK595F/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=The+Purpose+Factor%3A+Extreme+Clarity+for+Why+Youāre+Here+and+What+to+Do+About+It&qid=1696234510&sr=8-1
Anyone knows it?
Any other suggestion for similar books or courses that are well structured?
A couple of thoughts.
Genesis worked best for me when going out, not dating, but with friends, just drifting, maybe a roadtrip without designation, seeing where the subconscious points you to, laughing, living, discussing life and possibilities.
In my experience, when there is nothing else to focus on and you have the time and space and people you fully trust to talk to, solutions pop up. Just listen to what you (/your subconscious) are telling you. Itās a bit like a classical fairytale meditation, but with more partying and on the road.
Regarding other subs: For a holistic approach to your interests and goals I would use Renaissance Man or HERO Origins. Maybe not the subs to find you destination, but they can help to find the way.
If there are underlying subconscious blocks, maybe Dragon Rising: Limit Destroyer could be helpful.
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Thank you, but as I see it Iām already using two sub that include (AM) and are specific (Genesis), to find purpose.
I donāt see why I should try something else (not designed for this) if these are not not doing itā¦
First half was solely about Genesis, as it has this āfind your own adventureā scripting and IME a purely introspective, meditative approach with G can sometimes fizzle.
Regarding the other subs:
As finding not THE purpose or having too many interests to pick one can point to underlying issues (it can be a bit self-sabotage). Adressing these issues first with DR:LD can make sense.
HEO & RM were just suggestions if you have too many interests and talents and you want to bring the together. If you just want to find āthe oneā, they wouldnāt be of much help.
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Ok I understand what you mean
@Sungaze: I understand what you mean more than most people here.
Run Genesis, RoM and RoS until you find a clear direction. You already know what you want to do but itās getting lost in the multitude if all the other things youāre interested in just because youāre competent enough to do them. Trust me Iāve been there.
All those subs youāre running arenāt helping either: Primal, Wanted, PS. Those are just going to add to the confusion.
What you need right now is a clear direction. Run Genesis, RoM and RoS for a few months and youāll start seeing fake interests fall by the wayside. Some things that you currently believe are meant for you will start looking unappealing. Some situations will manifest themselves out of your life and disappear to your benefit (happened to me). The things that are really meant for you and that were hiding under a pile of fake interests will start looking really attainable and youāll start hearing a voice in your mind and your heart saying āThatās what youāre supposed to be doingā. Only then you should pick the subs that help you achieve those goals and aspirations. Right now what youāre doing is just filling your subconscious with scripts that might not even be meant for you.
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Thanks for our help @ksub
Money is an issue too right now, thatās why Iām running AM as a base sub for future wealth subs.
Iād say Iāve solved main sexual issues a few months ago, so Iāve stopped using PS and primal at that time.
The other sub that gave me ātangibleā result was Wanted, but I was looking to get the max out of it before dropping it.
If I understand correctly, what youāre telling me is that Wanted and AM are hindering Genesis?
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Well yeah! Possibly. Not everything is going to execute at the same time. Some subs are going to take precedence over others. A dense sub like Wanted might very well be taking most of your resources right now. Thatās why I rarely run 3 subs. When I do, the 3rd one is to support the first two. Like Iām doing right now. Iām running Genesis + RoM + DR: LD. DR: LD is there just to support Genesis and RoM which Iām running to get myself back on track to finally start working on my heartfelt goals. Iāve always known what those goals were. I was just busy chasing too many other interests (possible ADHD). Once Iām done with Genesis and RoM Iām switching to a custom AM and EOG.
I usually build my stacks one sub at a time. Iād run the first sub for a cycle or two to see what results Iām getting. Then Iāll add the second one for a cycle or two and look at the results. Then I know exactly what sub is doing what and if one of them is hindering me.
Wanted is going to use a lot of your resources in order to attempt to manifest women. AM is going to use your resources to manifest money and status. Those are going to affect your belief system too. Is there any mental resources left for Genesis? If youāre running Genesis, youāre looking for clarity which means that youāre questioning yourself. And at the same time, youāre running towards a definite goal (Wanted). It sounds kind of counterproductive to me. Either youāre looking for a direction and youāre going to use your resources to figure that out or youāre going in a direction (Wanted) and youāre going to use most your resources to get there. I just donāt know if both can be done successfully at the same time.
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Thatās not my case though.
Yeah, what you say makes sense.
Iām using Wanted since January and AM since April, so maybe I should try what you suggest.
It might also be that the book in the link Iāve posted ācomesā from Genesis
I actually think you probably already know. There might just be too much noise in your mind right now. You just need mental space, time and calm to think about it and most of the time for most people, the answers come. As with most men, chasing women is always going to be the main source of distraction. When you decide you take some time for yourself and really examine your life without distraction, youād be surprised the things you learn about yourself.
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I do have a woman right now, so Iām not actually chasing any other.
I agree that I probably tend to invenst to much mentally and emotionally in my current relationship. (and this is actually starting to create problems too 
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On that side I was hoping to see the nonchalance from Wanted, but I donāt.
From another perspective I guess that not having a Higher Purpose/Specific direction in life leads me to direct most of my energy into what makes me happiest at the moment, my woman.
But that just makes me dependent on her probably 
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When youāre not with your woman, what is the one thing that gets you excited above anything else? What is that thing that you believe youāre naturally good at or you can become good at?
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These are very good questions.
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Iād say music, but it has been over a decade since I donāt play ājust for funā.
(and to be honest I always have been a perfectionist, e.g āI have to learn this scale perfectly before starting to play it with othersāā¦ and thenā¦ finding myself never actually playing with other for fear of making mistakes).
In a more broad sense Iād say āthe process of creationā (from the mental to the physical), this apply to my music and electronics interests and actually to many other thing I have interest in. -
I donāt really knowā¦ I think I can be good at almost anything with enough time and dedication (that can be supported only if there is interest/love for what you are doing obviously).
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To me it looks like your purpose or your genius zone might be in music. You donāt have to be a musician. There are dozens of possible careers or businesses in the music industry. Especially with how fast technology is evolving right now, the music industry is evolving as well. I heard of a guy of is a pianist but he also got a degree in computer science. He got hired by a headphone company to help with how AI can accurately render music notes. He is using both his music skills and perfectionism and his computer science degree. There are a lot of opportunities in the music industry. Why donāt you start looking there? Just a suggestion.
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I had thought about this in the past (sound technician was my guess), but not having much time to get the skills needed (cause Iām currently working) or to look around what is the offer always blocked me.
BTW Iād love the idea to get a degree but it requires a lot of money and time and Iām already in my late 30ās
Anyway very good suggestions, thank you 
My relationship with my girlfriend is not going perfectly.
Most of the time, itās great, but there are some ādowns.ā
Iām once again haunted by my sense of insecurity, even after a year of DR, and months of wanted, PS, primal, ecc.
Recently, she stayed at my place for some time because she was waiting to move into a new house with two of her friends. Even though I know theyāre just friends to her, the situation makes me feel anxious. I understand that itās my usual struggle with not feeling good enough and inferior.
I feel that this insecurity is now affecting our relationship, especially in the decrease in our moments of intimacy.
Sometimes, Iām not sure if itās all in my head or if she actually notices the same issues I do but pretends not to, which only adds to my anxiety.
On a practical level, there is less physical attraction from her, for various reasons, according to her: excessive alcohol and smoking, not having her own place, and hormonal fluctuations related to her menstrual cycle, among other things.
On my part, I have a constant fear that our story might end and that Iāll be abandoned again by someone I love. I also fear pushing her into intimacy against her will, as it happened with my ex, and I know it also happened with her previous boyfriend.
I feel these concerns primarily in the evening. We often stay up late talking, but we often end up too tired for anything more and just go to bed. Sheās not working at the moment and can rest, while Iām probably dealing with the stress of work and lack of sleep.
Frequently, my evenings end with inner discomfort, as if I know that she will eventually get tired of me.
āāāāāāāRegarding work, things are definitely worse. Nothing seems to go right; one problem follows another. I donāt know how to get out of this situation.
Again, I need a direction, a purposeā¦ I think Iām to much into her and losing other interests and that will actually ruin the relationship