Stopping defining yourself as the problem is 99% of the solution.
It’s not necessarily that it’s more about not being willing or hopefully having the foresight to actively set yourself up so potential future problems can be avoided as much as possible.
I worded what I said the wrong way
You are still thinking in terms of problem. Maybe instead of trying to avoid problems, start creating situations that make the problems irrelevant. For example, if someone is struggling financially, instead of cutting expenses (aka avoiding problems), start creating a situation where you have so much income that the expenses don’t even matter.
@James : What do you think @SaintSovereign and @Fire did with this company? Do you think they sit around trying to compete with other sub creators (aka avoiding problems)?
They actually created a product so good that they made competition irrelevant.
Stop trying to avoid problems and start creating a reality that’s so compelling that it dwarfs problems.
I don’t know what to say reading this back. I think I just blew my own mind
Now your stack is: Love Bomb, Limitless, DR: Phoenix?
I think this is a fantastic combo.
Yeah that’s it. I was seriously debating between Phoenix and Khan Love & War. I will probably run that in the future. I already have a couple of stack ideas for two to five years from now.
After initially reading the sales page for Khan Love & War I felt that Khan , Dragon Reborn , and EOG all updated will be my eventual stack. Continue sculpting myself into the man I want to be and enjoy the ride
You’ve run both Phoenix and Total breakdown, right?
How would you describe the differences, or how they felt different for you?
Dropped the third title in my stack. Staying with Love Bomb and New Limitless. Also gives me the opportunity to spread the loops out more even if it is only thirty seconds I still want the opportunity for my brain to be able to process everything in its own time. Not rushing anything anymore. It’s not worth the recon
I’ve been feeling pretty lousy about myself lately so I decided today to drop my stack back to only Love Bomb. I plan to run it solo until I cultivate these 11 things
Is this helpful?
Do you feel expansion when you read that or some contraction?
It gives me a clear objective
Not sure what you mean by this
Do you think the outer world has to change before you’ll feel good and expand?
“First I must experience a, b and c in order to feel good.”
Not at all. I used to. I know I have to change from within and allow that to bloom outward.
Another great article about self love
I can feel myself having changed although my actions having necessarily changed. I can’t hold on to the past anymore. I don’t have any desire for nostalgia. I keep thinking of this quote from Eddie in Limitless
“Only problem… if I wasn’t moving forward, I felt like I was going to explode.”
I feel a lot like I did when I was running the original version of Dragon Reborn St 1 almost four years ago. Losing interest in a lot of things. I don’t feel bad about myself as much but I feel like I’m also trying to figure out exactly what it is I want and what I enjoy despite any external influence. What it is that makes me who I am.
I have always felt I have been easily swayed into thinking about or trying to enjoy certain things even though I knew in my heart that whatever it was wasn’t for me.