LB question and self sabotage

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#1

So quick run down, while running summer time, I realized that I had a huge issue with self love and self acceptance. At times, I would unconsciously create circumstances through my actions to keep me stuck in where I am right now. I have a hard time accepting love(mommy issues) and accepting success. I sabotage, unconsciously, every time I’m close to an amazing breakthrough through out my whole life. It’s so frustrating. I know I lack the self love so I was wondering

Can LB address this and help me accept success, and stop self sabotaging, when I do get close to a breakthrough, whether in finance, relationships, approaching women etc.,

I feel like I’m unknowingly going to what I’ve always found comfortable, which is mediocrity and comfortability

#2

Summertime gave me very similar issues. I’ll dm you.

#3

I use this in combination with Lovebomb

All the best to your Journey

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#4

It can. Do a decent wash out (8 days) and stack it with Stabilizer or GLM. those will give you the internal validation that super-charge love bomb/.

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#5

Thanks. I plan on doing a month washout while I wait for my QTKS

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#6

Sounds like a plan. Have fun, lol

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#7

I have that issues too I’ve ran lb in the past also this gave me recon too hence Im not thinking run it any soon. I didn’t read the new copy of LBFH but if it has script for self love and self worth you might consider to run it, because it has the newest new technology it might be better

Also the Stabilizer has script for self sabotage

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#8

Thought i come back to this this with some fresh insight during my washout:

It can, BUT the the deeper you want to peniitrs the more work you’ll have to put in. That means accepting and managing the heavy recon that comes with addressing a lot of core issues at once. Start slow. I ran love bomb solo for a cycle.

#9

This is two layers:

Self love, acceptance, worthiness - this is LB territory 100%. the copy explicitly covers shifting your locus of validation inward, deep self-forgiveness, radical self-acceptance. LB is designed to help you build the internal foundation where you actually believe you deserve good things.

Self-sabotage - this is a behavioral pattern. You can start loving yourself more and more but still have the old habit fire automatically before the new self-concept catches up. The Stabiliser has a feature literally called “self-sabotage at the threshold” built for exactly this

So, yeah the advice above for The Stabiliser and Love Bomb are spot on

LB rewires the why (you don’t feel worthy), stabiliser addresses the how (the automatic pattern that destroys good things when they arrive).

One thing to watch for: running LB on deep self-love wounds will produce recon

And if you already have a self-sabotage pattern, your subconscious might try to use the recon itself as a reason to quit. “See, this isn’t working, I feel worse” — that is the pattern expressing through a new channel.

Start slow

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#10

might check it out because this is one thing that has held me back…I feel like I keep saying that to everything now a days while healing and working on myself lol

#11

LB is that one sub I know deep down I need but whenever I run it, I get hit by some heavy recon, followed by cool results, followed by dropping the sub. I start slow too but I can tell there’s something deep down in my subconscious that is stopping me because its either scared of the success that will come after and maybe thats not what my new normal is or the painful thoughts that would come from it

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#12

this is my kryptonite. I see lack of results or “bad” results and I say ohh look, it’s not working, then I quit the sub. I literally did this with a stack I had with LB, Wanted and Reg…I saw great results and then I just dropped the sub because it wasn’t doing what I thought it was supposed to do anymore…which while on my washout I’m starting to realize was heavy recon

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