youre making me blush…bro.
Okay I’m going to explain to you from A-Z how i felt in relation to you and what changed so you get a gist of what’s going to happen.
I felt sad lonely in despair. For exactly the same reasons you felt it, and it killed me when it hit.
To answer your question, no, it ended in stage 2, the moment I got off stage 1.
What happened about a week into stage 2 is that for the first time in my life I realized WHY, I wasn’t feeling the love and warmth of popularity within a group of men and women, this has never ever happened to me before for one reason, childishness.
“uwu im victim”
“society is shit”
“fitting in is bla bla (insert lion zen bullshit here)”
Or perhaps I’m in a self pity stage of my life ?
“I suck”
“nobody likes me anyway”
“etc etc”
There was always some excuse laced with negative emotion followed by position delusion, that was even 20% of the time, the other 80% I just didn’t think about it.
Within 1 week of stage 2 I started to, for the first time in my life, ACTUALLY REALIZE why I wasn’t popular with a group of men and women.
Like actual realization, bro.
MEN
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I am not investing enough time into a particular group.
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I am not investing enough time into a particular person (building a 1v1 connection with the persons of the group)
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I am not (this changed the most after khan now that ive been on for 4 months) adding value to said chosen group
Keep in mind khan gives you the tools required to accomplish these tasks, you feel like a man’s man, one of the boys, you also feel like MR.player, very smooth very life loving and fun generally you also realize you WANT to do what it takes to complete these tasks because you have a changed mindset socially.
these were basic thoughts that later evolved to, once i completed the tasks above
- I am not investing into more groups (this might come when you’ve got a few groups that love you and you have a “persona” in the group aka (mr funny guy, cool guy, player guy, exxentric bla bla, keep in mind the persona you have FEEDS the others as you feed off them so this is “value”)
“I want more groups to discover more personas”
NOW TO WOMEN
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I am not investing enough into a particular woman.
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I am not emotionally and personality-wise, eccentric around women
I have to talk about this point because I was so fucking oblivious to it before khan that it didnt enter my radar. Woman are scared of men, we’re big strong and can have bad intention. By being mr social and mr cool and being eccentric with your personality you pass through about 500 layers of screening for women and are seen as “safe” and generally a large number of women youll find out already want to fuck you at this point, but at the very least all mentally stable women will at this point at the very least thing “He’s alright, we can trust him, he’s mate worthy”
- I am not adding masculine value to the woman’s life
Again another point I didn’t even think of like a child in quantum physics or rocket science. I tried to play mr cool guy and have the attention on me as this broken down child of a man they have to fix and it was very unsexy
Khan made me realize how to make women obsessed with you, with value.
Adding them to your masculine friend group HEY BOYS THIS IS X, SHE’S COOL, and all the boys take her in (something i was too pussy to do before because i had cheating fears, i now realize is a way to hook a girl since she loves being brought into your social circle. I also now care a lot less if they do actually cheat cuz my self love and esteem is sky high, I’ll literally smile it off and find another, easy peasy, I know the tools and secrets now, theyre deep in my head and a lot of men don’t have them.
adding value by showing them your world: come see my movies that I like, with me, I’ll make the dinner babe. Come to the gym with me I’d love it. OMG my favorite restaurant so many memories come let me take you there. I love this park let’s walk there. This list goes on and on and on but it was something I did not do, I thought dates were this awkward thing I showed up to, and I thought relationships were you two talking endlessly about your pasts or present and yeah…wow, no wonder I never attracted women.
So yeah I realized WHY I aint getting popular and I did something about it, stage 2 was a ride for me I find it even better than stage 3 even though majority says stage 3 is better, but maybe I learned off stage 2 quick, I guess it’s how fast you execute the actions, I did them very fast as they were very very very clear and it seemed like the easiest thing in the world once I had clarity on why tf I aint popular.
