Jouissance Journal

@reaper moving your question here to keep @Plutus thread clean.

I’m an SDR manager and find that if marketing is good, SDR’s need less sales skills than people think, and more more people skills.

For context, in my specific company, we get about 1000 leads per week via Facebook ads. Some of them book a call automatically, some of them don’t. Some of them have money, some of them don’t. Often times the broker they are, the more desperate they are to get help, and they sometimes think/hope the closing call is just a free trial, not a sales call.

Important points of the role; reading between the lines in what the prospect is saying, how to be the leader despite it being a normal conversation, knowing whether or not someone is financially qualified.

You’re really a prediction specialist as an SDR first and foremost. “Is this person going to close? Are they even going to show up? What will their main objection be? What distractions might there be? Which closer would best be able to close this specific prospect?”

In order to prevent and prehandle objections, you need to be able to sniff them out and redirect, basically. Make sure they show up to the call.

And then of course it’s also important to present as professional, knowledge, efficient. You don’t want to say too much as an SDR, it’s the closer’s job to influence, but you certainly need to be good at labeling, validating, challenging, reframing, in a normal-sounding way.

Closing calls sound very formulaic, but SDR calls should always sound as natural as shooting the shit with your buddies over a beer. The way realtors and financial advisors talk at dinner networking events, positive, professional, casual, friendly, letting everyone know how good their service is and that it could help them, that’s how you should be as an SDR, alongside having a secret agenda to be a ruthless detective and extract all their lies to find the truth they’re hiding underneath (partner objections, window shopping, real needs, etc).

So, basically just having a normal conversation and being socially savvy. I think those are extremely people-skills oriented not just sales oriented. So that’s what my titles would reflect - but ofc True Sell Stage 2 is dedicated to being an SDR.

I would also look at ST1, that’s what I use for my SDR role, it’s broad and does everything, and that’s what an SDR needs, breadth as well as depth.

C&C is amazing as it provides a lot of leadership and discernment, plus literally “premium pipeline” as one of the major features.

True Social would be the dream fit, based on how important being able to have a normal conversation is. You CANT HAVE A SALES CONVERSATION, YOU CAN ONLY HAVE SOME SALES ELEMENTS IN A NORMAL CONVERSATION so… your social skills will be the primary bottleneck for an SDR role. Sales skills are the bottleneck for closing roles.

Emperor Reforged would be great, as so much of this stuff stems from being confident and quick-witted. You can get to the point where you’re so confident wearing the crown that prospects stop even trying to take it from you.

Summertime gives that really warm first
Impression and makes you likeable AND like people - super important to enjoy what you’re doing as an SDR.

Ascension would slap, both ST1 and ST2, each for the reason the stage was made for. Both stages are so important. I feel like True Sell Stage 1 is a combo of ST1/2 of ascension, but specifically for sales, btw.

Emperor Black would be fucking slick for setting actually because you get ruthless about qualification and making money as fast as possible. Stack with summertime or true social though - advanced stack for sure.

OG Stark is awful for setting. Too much liking not enough challenging. You’re not supposed to be impressive as a setter, just professional, efficient, smart, and asking good questions.

GLM would be good too

@Reaper

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Qos answered a great question and it made me realize I’ve never added “everpresent” or the other Vipassana type one into a custom even though that’s my whole practice

WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME MY GOSH

Really excited to utilize that.

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The recon on heartsong is exactly what I need.

I’m getting the polar opposite of every result that you’re supposed to get and I couldn’t be happier with it.

I realize that if I spend time by myself on a Friday night, it’s empty and meaningless. I’m on my first day in a new city, and I have absolutely no interest in talking to anybody… like OK maybe I’m a bit sleep deprived but I hate the thought of anyone talking to me right now

Literally, it’s clearer than ever that all I want right now is to be alone in a cabin in the woods with Starlink and work my ass off…

Which is something that I’ve been wanting for a long time, it’s a true need coming through. Not something I’ll need forever. But something I won’t feel complete with myself until I do.

I’ve been trading my long-term vision for my short-term connections for a long time now, and heart song has helped me, move into the second stage of grief, a.k.a. move into acceptance/acknowledgement from denial/suppression.

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Most of my thoughts center around being alone. It’s a recon and a result of HS ST1.

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Damn, it’s crazy how fast essence: the alchemy of money is having an effect!!!

Only had it in my custom for a few days… and it’s one of the only modules I changed, and I’m already OBSESSED with stocks.

Kingmaker also feels extremely prominent - I can really feel the effect of the modules I modified in the custom. So surprised to see such a prominent shift in expression from only changing a few modules + adding in Emperor Reforged.

I do feel like Emperor Reforged is great glue binding everything together and acting as an overall results enhancer in every area of life

To me-
This- it can be the exact same or it can be total different. Different doesn’t mean it will solve anything though. Its people, communities, activities, energy, and how you show up. New countries can have a novelty that I see as a kind of neuro-plasticity opening. But yes where ever you go- there you are.

That’s interesting. Coming to complete wholeness in your own life and vision first. I did some Heartsong tests and absolutely love it. Wholeness and completely loving my own life mixed with spikes of recon and absolute craving and sadness about not being or more specifically not being able to have choice and attract great long term partners.

what had you drop KB 1? Any lasting or notable effects there? \

And congrats on the move- where in Mexico are you?

huge effects, very powerful sub, it was more freeing up blockages of self-expression, whereas in reality i’m looking for more control over my life, mind, thoughts, sexual energy, and redirecting it. I’m in a very “not interested in dating” mode of my life, just for a short period of time, but it’s especially powerful. KB not only brought me back into an interest in dating, but also an interest in casual (if still emotionally connected sex) - did that and had a great week with a girl before leaving for mexico, but once I left for mexico decided to shelf KB because sexual experiences are not what I’m looking for at all in this point of time.

On the flip side, Heartsong’s “whole before anyone” and “love life on a friday night alone by yourself” modules are EXACTLY what I’m trying to cultivate right now.

Heartsong has it’s own challenges, it certainly gives me some beautiful recon, but recon all the same. I’m still listening to it, but every time it’s time to play a loop of HS it’s like the sudden anxiety that I get before doing mushrooms, “alright… here we go again…” type thoughts - knowing it’ll be intense but all beautiful and positive.

What I’m going to do is make my second custom, and add RM ST1 and Limitless: Polyglot as cores, with HS ST1’s essence in the custom instead so I can keep working through it at an easier pace.

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The Beautiful Life Of A Digital Nomad (a custom):

1. Renaissance Man St1 Core
2. Limitless: Polyglot Core

3. Essence: The Clear Note
4. Essence: Endless Summer

5. Synergy: Semper Praesens
6. Synergy: Wonders of Life
7. Synergy: Machine Totality

  1. Golden Hour
  2. Nomad
  3. You are not Alone
  4. Approachability Aura
  5. Free Agent
  6. Off Grid
  7. Frugality As Art
  8. Instant Spark
  9. Worldwalker
  10. Fortune’s Favorite
  11. Sun Kissed
  12. Irresistible Relaxation
  13. New Dawn

@azriel this is the one

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