you can include me in those statistics now.
thats the opportunity to put the lessons into practice.
you can include me in those statistics now.
thats the opportunity to put the lessons into practice.
reconciliation is by definition âreconciliingâ the differences in your past/present self
attracting a woman your past self would be interested in, but then not being proud of that present version of you attracting her, is a textbook difference that needs to be reconciled
Ah /: yeah I was gonna say donât expect anything just cuz a girl gave you her number or is texting you even (I didnât say anything though cuz I didnât want to jinx it). Girls can just not reply, talk then ghost, block for no reason, etc. even if they seem into you. Itâs just whatever, comes with the territory.
oh she was super into me she was just crazy
at least in the moment
thatâs the BPD love bomb, love-you-hate-you energy all in a few minutes/hours
this has been a really deep healing experience for me though. Helped me get clarity.
Now that I learned about BPD - BPD is often attracted to narcissists.
Iâve ALWAYS known my dad is a hella narcissist, my mum is absolutely BPD - i didnât realize thatâs such a common relationship dynamic though.
Crazy if im getting this much healing just off 15s of PS and then anti-recon scripting from AOW
And in those times, you pat yourself on the back and tell yourself âsee, the rejections of the past lead you here, so donât lose your value in the process againâ
Increases self worth đ«Ą
Itâs reality asking you to confirm the deletion of your old self.
This applies to every aspects of life when progress has been made and a newer version of self and identity is unfolding and the old one is being separated, it goes in stages and new choices need to be confirmed to help the separation of the old from the new even further, so experiences that belong to the old self surface to the new self to âtestâ or âsolidifyâ or âconfirmâ its new reality.
So when that shows up and youâre aware of it itâs a good sign youâre already a better version of yourself.
Does this mean you are considering yourself a narcissist or have those qualities? Or that she perceived you as one
Sorry if this comes off as rude just clarifying
Thanks for clarifying,
No,
BPD is attracted to multiple archetypes, but, usually short term,
They usually have the longest relationships with narcissists though. Longest and most toxic. lol.
So itâs a red flag I can watch for. Women who talk about how bad their relationships are but like theyâre addixted to the toxic
Is it too intense of a recon response to want to go back to Khan after just one 15s loop of PS?
Not sure if this is recon, or if itâs recon-optimizing tech pointing me a diff direction, or just fear, or just stack switching
Does it ? its a seduction sub I dont believe it has any physical shifting.
Very light. Just centered around body language and attractiveness. Probably more in movements than in objective photographable physical form.
Thatâs what the sales copy says.