Is it alright to fall in love in Wanted Black?

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#1

By embracing and nurturing a genuine love and respect for yourself, you radiate an irresistible aura that captivates women.

This scripting may lead to emotional bonding on the partner’s side if you are lying about your intentions.

there’s no need to be deceitful when engaging in a sexual relationship.

I can tell it is no longer ‘friends with benefits’ because they are all showing feeling towards me. At first I lied to them but I can’t hide it anymore.

I wanted to choose only one not all of them.

I really don’t want to hurt them.

I need help.

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#2

It told my lover that my heart is really big and I can love many women at the same time. She knew that instantly without any additional explanation needed.

Can you work on “enlarging” your heart, perhaps?

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#3

I’m a really loving person, I just can’t stand if they gets jealous all the time. Whenever I choose to stick (like a short talk) on one of them the other will stick like magnets. What should I do?

I tried to tell that I can love them, but most prefer that I choose one from the other.

#4

If they cannot accept the way I am, it’s time to say goodbye.

Perhaps, it’s also about working on loving without attachment.

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#5

One thing about falling in love is that you go through stages, first the lust then the attraction, and last the attachment.

You simply cannot love without certain attachment. The Wanted part is very powerful indeed, I wish I can control it somehow.

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#7

That’s a good idea, from the very start I should have told them that I am building a tribe not a family. Yes for a limited time I wish some will just go away, that’s why I’m avoiding some of them, I hope that would be the case but it isn’t that way. Some are bringing on the family for a serious talk, that’s why I ask the question - because they are pushing me to the wall.

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#8

I fell in love while using it, and it’s been the best relationship I’ve ever been in

and it was at a time when I had many options and they all showed affection towards me

I left WB for a while because I knew I was going to hurt everyone with my lack of clarity and, above all, communication.
In the end I chose to leave all my contacts aside for just one person, because it was what my heart wanted, but it doesn’t matter, just try to make it clear

I agree with everything @iron said above

I’m back with WB now and my partner actually likes the attention I get because despite that, she feels like the chosen one, and Khan has also helped me assert myself and express myself much better

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#9

Yeah, you have to talk with them. I would recommend to meet each of them in person, and set some boundaries. Do not avoid them because they will track you down like hyenas. They will “coincidentally” pop up at your gym, your house, your job, etc. Women don’t give a fuck, lmao. Communication is always key in these things.

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#10

Thanks a lot. That is exactly what happens to me, and right now I have few options. You’re right, at one time when I was in the gym and I heard a commotion outside so I look at the window from the second floor I saw my car being painted “cheater”. I lock my social media account but I know it will not changed anything. I did tried to talk to one of them, when I knew she actually shared that conversation to the rest of the women I x with which bothers me. But often times I go mute, I don’t talk that much and women loves to communicate. I did remember that I told one of them that I’m having multiple partners. All of them are good to me. Now they are suing me for my decision on choosing only one.
Yes I would take your advice, I already took some steps to talk to three of them, one of it push me in front of her parents but eventually she hugs me, I know they don’t hate me for sure.

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#11

Just watched this, and thought of posting it here.

:innocent:

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#12

Good one, thanks for this. I never compare people because I don’t want them to be disappointed.

I love the underlying message,

Plenty of roads, but not plenty of time, resources, and most importantly life energy to engage with multiple people. It starts out great but down the roads you end up feeling like a slave to your choices.

Choose the direction of your life so you don’t have to submit to others choosing the direction for you.

You love someone who is not perfect because you see yourself as having a role/purpose to help that person improve on the particular aspect in which he or she is weak.

I believe the answer to my question is Yes, you can fall in love with Wanted Black. Maybe I just got overwhelmed having a lot at once. I have decided to talk to all of them personally, hopefully no more social media attacks for me.

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