Hi guys, I am 19 and I turn twenty in two days,
Any advice I can get from any of the guys on here?
Any experiences able to be passed down on guys in or above their 20’s?
I would be grateful for any guidance or any lesson
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Run Subliminal Club subs
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Find some ways to calm your body mind so that, when necessary, you can settle down and make a balanced choice from a place of equanimity
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Find some ways to energize your body mind so that, when necessary, you can get off your butt and take action from a place of spontaneity and determination
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Perspective-taking skill and awareness of (often invisible and underlying) needs—your own and others—improves all relationships
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You do deserve happiness and well-being
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So does everyone else
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You are awesome. You are literally a tiny part of the Cosmos.
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Happy birthday, brother (in two days)
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Everything Malkuth said is Gold, but this is like Mega Gold. If you can learn to really master and apply the skill of taking perspectives outside of your own (and there is a number of titles that can help with that) at a young age you’ll find yourself surprisingly self-empowered compared to your peers.
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Start consciously building the life you want to live now. Build the work habits, perspective and plan and stick to it. Sacrifice (SOME not ALL) fun in the present to position yourself for a career and anything else you want to be underway by the time you’re, say, 35.
Choose a career field now. You can change it later, but pick a direction to work toward.
If you’re in school make sure that you’re in a major that’ll make you money when you graduate. Enough money to justify the debt. Those payments SUCK. Now that I’ve mentioned that, minimize the amount of that debt you take on.
Don’t put TOO much focus on girls right now. If you get great stuff going on in your life, they’ll come. Do have some fun, but don’t get tied down, and for the sake of all the gods don’t get one pregnant.
Hit the gym and build a physique that you can be proud of. Not only will that make you look and feel good, but it builds habits that will help you be healthy for life.
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Thank you, brothers
Any advice on titles?
I run Emperor X Wanted X Primal Seduction now with Ascension Chamber
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@COWolfe How good is it that I started working out at 18? When I was 17 I started to lift heavy rocks at my backyard. At 15 and 16 I would just do occasional pushups until failure to test my mental strength.
It would be good to gain some perspective on workout gains and what to focus on. Any area that can be developed further? Anything notable? I am focusing on legs now, but only upper body is in the photo. I may have a hint of body dysmorphia
I want to get that Adonis belt. I worked on shoulders, biceps and did pull ups today along yoga and stretches. I spent like 3 hours at the gym and finished up the final bit of Statistics homework to get the whole of spring break clear.
I am working on a psychology-philosophy double degree/ double major. I am going to pack it into stem probably after I get out of my city college, and have GE’s underway. Also I am prepping a business, I am aware it WILL take off 
On an alternate note, though, I do feel afraid that I am running out of time. It looks like I got a lot maybe, but truthfully I am absolutely unsure of how or where any of it is going to direct me. A good amount of what I have done has been mimicked by others older than me, and I actually am not as aware as I would like to think I am. I am kind of grasping at straws in the dark that I have been told are good decisions or a decent match, I don’t actually know, and do we ever? (legit question)
Emperor does so many good things that I feel like you can’t go wrong with it.
Since you’re in uni right now, Limitless or Quantum Limitless would be a good program to add in.
Alternately, Revelation of Mind, could be great. (Emperor already has Limitless functionality in it.)
So Emperor x Wanted x Revelation of Mind.
Revelation of Mind will help with this:
Your plans already sound great. They’ll continue to evolve over time. But you’ve got a lot of good things developing. Your double major, your business idea, your workout. That’s a hell of a lot.
Remember to enjoy the journey.
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Become best friends with your subconscious mind by running subliminals from here.
Also ask @Brandon and @AlexanderGraves and @Lion and @Floridianninja and @Leandros and @Yazooneh and @Trader and @Joa23 for input. But not necessarily in that order. 
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You don’t need to focus on any one thing. What you need to be doing, if you aren’t already is just getting and staying on an organized, well thought out program that focuses on progression. I.E. as soon as you can do three sets of ten (or whatever, it doesn’t matter that much) of an exercise you add a small amount of weight the next time you do it. If you’re doing that for the long term, awesome.
Ok, is that degree going to translate directly into how you plan to make a living and generate wealth throughout your life?
I was a psych major myself, and I actually consider having gone to college a mistake. I am making more at a job that I could have gotten with a GED than I ever could have using that degree.
I don’t know where you live, but in the US you’re looking at six figure debt for a bachelors degree. If you don’t NEED one to do what you want to do, then you might want to think about wether it’s worth the time that could be spent doing something else, and the decades of payments.
I wish someone had told me that twenty five years ago.
These days you can get one later in life if you figure out that you need to.
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The biggest lesson I can give you from my own experience (34yo, running subs for years) is:
Acceptance and Goals are NOT mutually exclusive.
Accept who you are right now. Your flaws, your shortcomings.
FROM THAT position, set intentions to change it.
Your vision should be BIG.
And focus on IMPACT over MONEY.
As in:
Don’t ask yourself how much money you want to make.
Ask yourself what do you want TO DO once you have money?
What is the plan for your life?
And, by no means do you need to have the right answer. It will likely change over time.
Totally fine.
I started 12 businesses before I discovered what I need to do
But you gotta work towards SOMETHING.
This applies everywhere.
Looking for a girl?
Don’t ask yourself if she is super hot or super good in bed.
Ask yourself what do you want TO DO with her and/or her being super hot.
What does this gain you?
Why do you want to be in a relationship?
It’s not sex. You can buy that. You likely seek connection.
And, the last part, understand that society is set up against you.
It is designed to make you a mindless worker drone, because it keeps the system running.
There is NOTHING wrong with a “simple” job. But it is VITAL to understand the fabrics of society and how things are set up.
Not everyone needs to run a business. (but I see you want to, so that’s good)
When it comes to subs, I see a stack most young men would run haha
Wealth, confidence, sex.
It’s fine, man. Keep running it, your mind will tell you what you need.
And congrats on finding subs so early in your life. GLORY AWAITS.
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