Chosen made me superhorny. But only in the beginning. Very interesting!
This is a big one.
âWhat you think about, you bring about.â
As long as you have a negative connotation to that thing or focus on it in a negative sense, it is constantly on your mind.
Same with quitting porn. Just not thinking about fapping etc is usually best!
I say âjustâ but you get the idea.
Occupy yourself with something else.
Thank you so much guys for the amazing responses. Iâm grateful to each and every one of you!
What I realized in the last 24 hours is that,
- My desire to watch porn has gone down
- My main problem is the arosual with âfantasy of fetishâ over the real act.
- I can say that rewiring my brain to lose appetite for the fetish will fix things for me.
- I have lost morning wood and any boner throughout the day
- No PMO for over 4 or 5 days
You know, @mecharc. I was thinking of this today and realized that you could either go through the healing route or the âfocus on something elseâ route. Eg-
Healing journey:
- Limitless ZP
- Regeneration ZP
- DIAMOND ZP
(+ NoPMO + therapy)
Or
Focus on goals journey:
- Ascended Mogul Qv2
- RICH ZP
- Spartan ZP
(Am picking titles just to highlight focusing on chasing excellence, money and fitness so as to keep your mind off your fetish. I think if you donât reinforce your fetish, it will go away in time. By then you will be having so much real sex and might even have an opportunity to turn your fetish (or something close to it) into reality that it wonât matter what fetishes you have. You could pick titles based on your goals though. Like StarkQ v2 + WANTED ZP + Limitless ZP is another example)
Limit Destroyer did that.
On a side note, Limitless is another ZP title (it was Wanted before) that decreased my libido just after embarking on the journey with it.
First, I would accept your fetish. Resisting it makes it stronger. Think about a fetish is like a part of you that generates emotions and if you canât control it, that means that that part was being repressed and you lost control of it.
Six step reframing from nlp or parts integration can help a lot.
What he said.
Energy goes where attention flows.
âDo NOT think of a pink elephant.â What do you think of?
âDo NOT indulge in your fetish because itâs negatively emotionally charged.â What do you do?
Yâall need to read the Untethered Soul!
Also what @Lion said. Both routes work fine I am sure.
Thanks bro! Do you have any suggestions for self therapy?
Internal Family Systems is a great therapy system.
If I were you and I was facing that type of problem, I would actually also pick just 2 subs and run them for a long time. Something like Regeneration and Ascension. I would disregard other subs and run those 2 for a whole year.
Iâm not sure if youâre the athletic type but if you are, try picking up a martial art. Boxing or Muay Thai. Become obsessed with that. Train constantly and youâll see that youâll have little energy left for PMO anyway.
literally came here to say thisâŚ
changing the imprint on the socio-sexual circuit is a losing battle.
sorry I donât think you can reset it⌠altho I cant speak for the effects of medicinal psycheledics⌠they might help if your situation is very desperate
Hey bro thanks for the advice. But I donât understand what it is.
Stacking regeneration, Spartan and Ascended Mogul will be great for that
Why not raise a ticket with SC help desk.
Perhaps write
âDear Support i have foot fetish i love to lick peoples feet can you please create a module to remove my foot fetishâ
Replace âfoot fetishâ with your fetish.
Stopping porn, masturbation, orgasm and social media for 1 month would give you some clarity. Youâll find that a more pure sexual desire and intent comes back, a more organic lense to which to view life and women remerges.
Youâre too clowny bro 
Iâm surprised that no one suggested paragon
Internal Family System is a very effective therapy system : https://ifs-institute.com/
But you have to commit to it and take it seriously. If you treat it like youâre treating your subs (constantly changing and switching), you wonât get results.