How do you approach casual s-x?

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#1

I assume that a lot of the gentlemen here possibly go to clubs or do cold approach to hook up with women. I was wondering how do you go about sleeping with people and the risks of pregnancy. Do you use protection? Or do you just rely on your personal skills? If you use protection is there a preference or a bias against any of the protection methods you know of out there? Do you ever have a fear of getting a girl pregnant on accident? How does one go about sleeping with 10+ women or even 20+ women in his life and still walk out of it all? Is the baby drop rate really that low?

Do you know anyone who already got babies and didnt plan to do so? What would your reaction be in that kind of situation?

Sorry this is so out of subs topic but Its been on my mind and since people here talk about hookups a lot I wanted to see what the perspective is on that.

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#2

Not “hooking up” atm, but looking into getting a vasectomy for that very reason.

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#3

I think condoms are not always guaranteed, perhaps 99%, usually they contain seed killing ingredients as well to increase the chance of not getting pregnant. Their second benefit is minimise the risk of STDs. So use condoms and store them correct.

Other things ladies use is pills and other prevention methods. I’m not all well read into it. There is also the day after pills etc. Not well read into these. Check with doctor.

Pull out game? Lol very risky.

Birth control and condoms. That’s the meta.

#4

What is your age and your gender and sexual preferences,

and about pregnancy afaik women only can get pregnant for 5-6 days of month, but if you go for casual sex then you must use condoms, just common sense

Actually I have some questions about sex to ask forum members but I’ll do it later

#5

I didnt know of that at all.
I asked chat gpt and it said that it is technically true but there are some important details in that.

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Such as that ovulation timing varies from woman to woman and cycle to cycle. It’s not always regular making it hard to predict those 5-6 days. And some women even have those cycles longer.

also sperm longevity is 3-5 days. So if you do it 5 days before her cycle stars, she still might get pregnant.

Not to mention Im almost 1000% sure most women dont even know what ovulation is or when ovulation happens.

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#6

Don’t rely on those “morning after” or Plan B pills. They can fucking trash a woman’s hormones for a while after use.

#7

That’s why I said 5-6 days afaik women produce eggs for only one day, but yes sperms can survive up to 5 days, but I’m not sure %100 of the numbers I cannot search it now

#8

Almost every woman I’ve met in the last 5 years has an IUD.

#9

I know several guys who got a girl pregnant “by accident”.
In all of these cases, the woman wanted either to lock in the guy or had baby rabies or wanted to secure a financial provider, or several of these.

In all of these situations the state was on the women’s side and the guys have effed up their lives.

My personal rules are:

Using condom protection at ALL TIMES, regardless of what she says or wants.

Preferably, do not have sex with her if she is ovulating and does not use any protection for herself. As already mentioned by someone above, condoms are only like 99% safe.

And, ALWAYS flushing down the used condom into the toilet.

The only woman where I would feel safe of not using a condom and flushing it away, would be a woman that 1. is more significantly more wealthy than me and 2. a women that I would want to marry.

Besides that, booking prostitutes, if it is legal in your country, is one of the best ways for “casual sex” and with a lot less risk.

PS:
From what I know, sperm only survives for longer than a few minutes if it is inside the women. If it is outside and dries up, it is disfunctional. But theoretically, a crazy chick, could still take the cum you shoot on her or in her mouth, take it and put it inside her vagina with her fingers. Hence, stay away from crazy, broken and disfunctional woman at all times!

It seems, all the options come down to either prostitutes, or women who are friends with benefits and have super high integrity levels, or women who are marriage material.

#10

Every time I get the option to put on a condom or not, this video flashes before my eyes:

It’s an extreme example, but it works for me, lol.

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#11

This doesn’t mean even if you use it correctly there’s chance to get woman pregnant, and no company never would claim that they protect %100 because of legal issues. Yeah I know scientific test say it’s %98-99, but do you know how they measure it and test it?? Do you think all the couples say the truth when they asked did you use it correctly, so if you use correctly and there is no tear it will be %100 because sperm dont have ability to teleport.

flushing condoms might be hard for your plumbing

This is not quite true sperms can live for days.

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#12

I remember reading about the risks when using condoms and I always thought it was lower. This was a first result on google about it. Now this is ofcourse counting general errors that can occur not directly caused by the product itself.

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#14

As a said here. Research more that how they come out with these numbers.
it’s hard to track couples and you can’t be sure when they said yeah we used it correctly or ask it chatgpt but really question it.

#16

98% or 99% is more than enough lol. Nothing will happen as long as the condom stays on the d and doesn’t break. Let’s not complicate it

#18

Lol that is my worst nightmare.

#20

That’s why these days I usually ask to finish in their mouth or face. In my experience all are okay with that
And I do it with their consent.

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#23

Condom is on the side by then lol. Anyway let’s not go too deep and crazy

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#24

I learned to put a bit of spermicide in the condom tip. I don’t rely on the condom manufacturer to do that.

Yep.

Nope. Less.

Still nope. Still less.

I just don’t do casual sex. If I don’t know her well or don’t know if I can trust her, I’m not interested.

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#25

Just for reference

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#27

Unfortunately, that table does not say how often sex took place during that year. Once? 365 times? Without this info, those numbers are completely useless.