How do I change my vibe

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#1

Hello everyone,

I seem to be having this problem that occurs way more often than I’d like to recently. I enjoy hooking up as any young man would but I’m noticing that this is happening more often but almost every girl though before we hook up are okay with the idea but then after seem to change their mind and want to either stop it cause they are catching feeling or want something more… usually that’s not an issue but I don’t want any of that and I made sure to pick women that are okay with our arrangement. Is there something I can do so I can come off as more a undatebale person, someone you just sleep with and move on? I know it sounds like a stupid problem but that means she will hook up with other guys but I can’t and it’s kinda getting to me.

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#2

Not understanding this …
You want to date women?
You dont want them to date or see other men?
After they hook up with you they change their minds?

#3

The third one, I’m not really interested in more at the moment and I make it pretty clear but after we hook up they seem to switch up and want more…

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#4

Ohk hook up with them as soon as they want more just give me a call i will handle that. :sunglasses:

To be honest its the first time i came across this.
Dont worry many experienced members will assist you shortly.

#5

Hahaha, I got you :+1: . Some of them do seem to have some issues they need to work on not saying I’m perfect but if we do get into a relationship I don’t think it would end well for any of us.

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#6

What subliminals are you using currently?

#7

Sounds like Dragon Reborn would be best although it is recommended someone run Ascension or Emperor beforehand

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#8

2 customs, one with stark, inner circle and another with emperor, daredevil,pcc and primal seduction. plus sex mastery q

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#9

This is not a bad thing. They obviously see you as quality material

To shrug them off, confidently state that you are not looking for a relationship and you are just keeping it fun

Either they will go along with it and if they don’t, it’s their problem

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#10

Hi @ggplex,

Difficult to answer without knowing how experienced you are with women, so take what you want in what I write.

I call frame what you call vibe. It may be due to the fact you are projecting two different vibes (starkq vs emperor).
It seems that you have more success with women thanks to the sub, but more exposure to women lead to more learning opportunities and maybe you meet new type of women you are not used to.

Have a look at blackdragon aka Caleb Carr blog he explains more about frames in relationship and understanding women.

In order to be considered as sex material you NEVER verbalise it if not asked (twice) but you need to SHOW it : detached of (sexual) outcomes, VERY sexual when together but low interest when not together (low initiation of text/call but be 100% with her when you can talk her), target to go to sex within 3 dates (or a good sign of engagement kiss/blowjob depending on the type of girl), only fun dates, soft next quickly if she messes up or refuses to have sex, zero pressure zero anger toward her, never force for sex, never negociate to have sex.

and you don’t talk about being exclusive or player before she asks twice. The discussion HAS to come if the woman fancies you, so just be ready and handle it like a pro.

Your mindset : If she want to meet you, you set your availabilities, you are flexible but you dont bend your obligations for her. You dont play games, you desire her, you are comfortable with your sexuality, and there are plenty other opportunities, you go fast to sex but you are a gentleman.

Summary : read blackdragon blog or book on alpha 2.0 (even though the is quite extreme in my opinion) and think about the frame your are projecting because it is likely the cause.

Hope it helps,

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#11

Wow, thanks for the link. He affirms many of the things that I noticed. Would you recommend getting his ebook after analyzing his blog? If not, any other recommendations?

Thank and happy holidays

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#12

His blog is a very fun read, I use to binge read his articles. His book “Unchained man” doesn’t really bring anything more but in packaged version though like I said I have read most of his posts.

I dont know material as good/entertaining or maybe The Book of Pook (a legendary book that I wish I had when I was 18, it is supposed to be free not sure where to find it). I found other stuff unnecessarily long.

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#13

Women are emotional beings they can say it’s fine and okay with just hooking up but like I said they are emotional beings, they can’t help but catch feelings sooner or later especially if you are a high value guy in there eyes.
Outside of hooking up don’t give attention and have no relationship outside of meeting up for your arrangement. No texting, casual conversation etc none. BUT Again women are emotional beings they are not built to only hook up and not catch feelings

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#14

Rum Dragon Reborn each stage for at least 32 days.

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#15

Both! I have read his blog and his book “The Unchained Man”. I aim to live that lifestyle where you seduce attractive women and have a location independent income

He’s a great teacher. Entertaining and educational. His logic is sound and he teaches us how to apply the redpill to our benefit. I would recommend his youtube channel too:

https://youtube.com/channel/UCA5YSMWjnHKRIRdZa0_-l4g

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#16

Thanks for the suggestions, I will be sure to grab these up :smiling_imp:

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#17

@Phoermes - found an audiobook version of The Book of Pook:

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#18

That was mighty considerate of you; I’ll boot it up right now on my way for a morning jog :metal:

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#19

Unfortunately we have a lot of mutuals so I expect to see her a lot, I did happen to meet her yesterday, said hi and basically ignored her, didn’t give her any attention. I believe that is the best course of action for now, If she wants to be just a friend then she’ll get treated like one. it’s shame because we actually had some sexual chemistry going but it is what it is. Thank you everyone for your advice, I’ll make sure to apply all the advice with future ones.