How do deal with family that may hound you for money

Im abit worried about being successful because then i may have relatives begging me for money how do i deal with this

I want to use asbr but i know it gives fame so would be kinda inconvenient being wildy successful and then everyone knowing about it and asking for money leeching off me

Im actually afraid of being successfull because of this reason

Choose the new story and set your boundaries that they aren’t going to beg you for money. Stop creating limiting beliefs for yourself by constantly telling yourself they’re going to such things.

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I have recognized its a limiting belief but its something that will likely happen if i make it big (and already has happened to a small degree even when i was completely broke lol had cousins shamelessly begging me for money even though i was in debt and made it sound like i was the bad guy when i didnt give them) and need a practical solution to avoid it rather than hoping it doesn’t happen, already my family wont let me move out on my own,wich is annoying as i would like to move into a better area and live my life.

Is there a title/module that can help with this? Maybe something that can protect me from financial leeches or hindering me from living my life to the fullest?

If i become a popular millionaire i cant imagine how much the begging and hounding will increase and putting my foot down and saying no will get me painted as the bad guy

You can summarize it like this: "I’m a bit worried about being successful because [whatever you put in here is a limiting belief], make sure you make room in your stack for EOG 1 or just run DRR to clear those beliefs. If you want to understand the manipulation games family can play and be able to say no when need to, run Emperor: The Will to Power. Or make sure you finish DRR.

Another reason to go through DRR before you run ASBR.

What you actually saying is this: "I’m actually afraid because [whatever you put in here is bullshit!]
The problem is not the reason of the fear, the problem is the fear itself. I hope you see the difference.
Maybe stack DRR and Emperor to get some fearlessness in you before you run ASBR.

How do I know that? At one point, I was in the same spot as you are right now, always making excuses after excuses not to make money. At some some point you’ll understand that if you don’t get rid of the fear of making money, you’ll always find a reason to be scared to make money. Don’t treat the symptoms (the bullshit excuses), treat the cause (the fear itself) .

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When you purchase ASBR, there is a separate version without Fame scripting. But there is no Core for this version in the Q Store.

Modules like Codename: Umbra, Limiting People Remover and Total Nonchalance can help.

But ultimately you need to learn to handle people who come asking for money the same way other people do. By saying no.

If you have issues with saying no and seeking validation, work on that with healing titles like Phoenix or DRR.

If purchasing healing titles will be difficult now due to money, first become rich and then make a healing custom.

This problem will most likely go away after you become rich and you will wonder why you ever thought that way. Or realize that the limiting belief was there only to keep you in your comfort zone.

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Learn to say “no”

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Become rich and successful with ASBR, you won’t have this question anymore.

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Unless it’s your parents or own children ….ignore !

Use E:WTP. Nobody can manipulate you or make you feel bad.

This sounds like a nice guy syndrome.

If you are a good communicator, even if you don’t give them money, you can make them see you in a favourable way.

Besides, if you are a millionaire, would you worry about giving a couple thousand dollars?

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