[HoM] consciously influence the depth of the relationship

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@SaintSovereign

Foremost was their incredibly powerful ability to forge deep relationships with whomever they desire, be they family, friends or lovers. With Medici, you will intuitively be able to know who would make a good partner (in any area), how to get closer to them, and will easily have a deeper and deeper relationship if you so desire.

But not all relationships are the same. Using a number of powerful new modules, including the profound Transcendental Connection module, you’ll be able to consciously influence the depth of the relationship, and Medici will automatically help you make that relationship a fulfilling one that fits you, your desires and your needs perfectly. If you ever desired the ability to create loyal, strong relationships that truly make you (and your family members, friends or lovers) feel good, whole and happy, Medici will help you, be they short or long term

Pretty awesome skill to have, but how does it work to consciously influence the depth of the relationship?

[Leandros]

You gain access to the depth of the relationship
This means you consciously create what you want.

Very powerful

[Malkuth]

@aaa

Pretty awesome skill to have, but how does it work to consciously influence the depth of the relationship?

Relationship depth is influenced by how well we understand each other, by what kinds of shared experiences we have, by how clear we are on one another’s values, goals, and challenges; by how much we mutually respect one another’s values, goals, and challenges. By how much we are able to trust one another. By how much of ourselves we are able to share. How spontaneously we are able to express ourselves. And so on. Many factors influence the depth of a relationship.

You’re already influencing the depths of your various relationships by the way that you behave and express yourself in those relationships.

Modules like Transcendental Connection help you to do so with more awareness, with more flexibility, and with more choice.

[aaa]

These things usually happen for me by feeling(even though I would have never been able to intellectually(and as usual eloquently) explain it like you @Malkuth , I never go analytical to analyze it. Do you? Any of you? I usually just feel like we click and sing the same song.

But I often struggle with being myself and being nice in that area, almost like I am afraid to ruffle the melody. I desire to be expetional at building relationships like on the level of medici, I don’t know why, but I just do, being on a avarage level like most people doesn’t feel enough.

But from reading the description it it seems to be more than just awareness. It is a special skill that defined the medici. It also speaks about automatically making that relationship a fulfilling one. So my curiosity is how then? What if your bad at at it? Creating loyalty and strong bonds… I don’t know but I keep on feeling that there is soo much more.