Help with Social Anxiety

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#23

Same story here, only that I switched LB for Primal because I have one slot filled with my Custom.

LB was great. It changed a lot in me. But it made me also understand that I’m missing that masculine freedom. That’s why I switched on Primal. On Primal I realised, that I’m missing an alpha foundation for it to properly work. So I switched to Ascension (While keeping my Custom and KB4).
Funnily, Ascension is so good, that my urge to pmo (thanks to KB now without the p) vanished almost completely. So I think pmo might also be related to missing alpha qualities. So I dropped KB4 to focus just on Ascension and my Custom.

I too, made the mistake (?) to jump ahead. I considered Ascension at the beginning but I finally decided to run emperor (because it has so much to offer). I didn’t understand that it can take a year to get the results you want with such a broad title, compared to the focused Ascension.

I have a custom cooking in the pipeline with LB and Primal for masculinity and emotional healing. Atm, I’m considering changing Primal to Ascension and later on the journey make another iteration with Primal.

Because I know, that LB, Ascension and to a degree Primal as well are foundational subs. Saint confirmed it recently that Primal is rather a Alpha Sub than a seduction sub. But I think to free your self from the shackles of society, you need a solid base of masculinity underneath.

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#24

@ABC333, @Parsifal did you guys find that while on Love Bomb that you felt so much self love so chill that you lost motivation to do things. This is my main concern with Love Bomb. I asked this question of @Realitysmith above but would like to get both your take on this. Trying to get a consensus on this possible lack of motivation issue.

#25

No. Me I’m not a big fan of suffering for success. One of the first things I got into on my journey was letting go. I found that the things I wanted most I never got. But I got the best things and those are usually unexpected just from living in a place with no attachments or aversions, some call it being hootless.

I also found that when I consciously let go of any resistance, I will automatically do what I need to. Like I just start straightening up and cleaning around the house. Even getting around to working out. It just feels good to get things done.

As far as LB, well I guess I am already a believer that Love is the answer. Feel love and know that everything is perfect. I noticed moments of feeling really good on LB. So those feelings would leak into my life, I’d want to go meet people, have, be, and do all those things I wanted.

People report lots of recon with LB. I think that’s because of that programming. Because the world thinks love come from other people and things, outside of ourselves, so we have to behave in ways that get us that love, which is just not true. So LB may seem to make your motivation less but that’s because you’re working through your recon and resistance, you’re breaking that old programming so you can really find out about this Love thing, and that can be challenging both to yourself and others.

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#26

For me it was rather the opposite.
I already changed a lot during the years before, and let go of this believe.

For me, LB helped me a lot with loving myself and allowing me to take action for myself.
I was unemployed for quite some time and didn’t seriously try to change that. Because I didn’t love myself enough enough and felt like I didn’t deserve to have a job and an income.
With LB that changed and I got myself a Minijob within two weeks after starting to run it.

A month into LB I started to realize what carrer I want to pursue (probably GM with its financial purpose scripting), but I didn’t move into this direction one step.

Interestingly, I made the next step one or two weeks after starting to run Ascension which gave my self esteem a huge boost and eridacted the believe that I’m not good enough.

Now I’m a week into a training position for a sales career with a great company.

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#27

I figured I’d chime in here, given that I’ve run LB myself for some cycles.

I think there is a bit of a challenge I encountered with using it in that I needed to address the balance between being in that love field vs the need to focus on practical things. Each sub seems to have a vibe to it, and reconciling them to work together if you’re running more than one at once or focusing on more than one direction at once is the primary challenge I feel LB presented to me. Thinking about complex mathematics while working with LB for example… hard to maintain both at once :stuck_out_tongue: for me anyway.

That doesn’t mean don’t run it, but I would expect any sub with an aura like LB to present reconciliation if your goals aren’t all aligned with the sub. The good thing is that that recon is reduced or redirected with NSE, but it still helps to get a good handle on what you’re using the subs for (by looking at the sales copy) to help the process along.

#28

I’ve done LB quite a bit. LBFH too. I’m a big believer in Love beyond the idea of human love. That when you feel only love and know that everything is perfect, those seeming problems drop away. Though getting there can seem to be the trick.

I think if I were to have never tried subliminals. I’d start with Sanguine, LB, and Ascension (though I’ve never used it), I went with new Primal and it’s been one of my best titles for social anxiety. I think Ascension would be even better to start with.