HELP: problems of anorexia and bulimia?

I have a female friend with bulimia and anorexia problems. Every time she looks at her body and the mirror and see herself fat and deformed but her body is perfect!

I want to introduce her to the world of sub for help her, but what sub can help her in this kind of situation?

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Medical disclaimer of course.

Healing subs are one way to go. The other would be Seductress+Rebirth; imo.

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She went to a doctor and a psychologist but they don’t help her to much.

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Its a tough condition, I understand :frowning:

The fact that the media deifies symbols of unhealthy body images on young girls doesn’t help either.

I’d still suggest Seductress, there’s an undeniable morphing of one’s psyche to that of an ideal self that could help her out. This in my opinion is a gentler approach than that of a healing sub, the combo of Regen+Elixir could bring out improvements. Throwing in Rebirth is not a bad idea. Ofcourse she has to be willing to change

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A few thoughts,

Does she want help?

Does she REALLY want help?

Does she really want help from YOU?

Do you want to fuck her?

Do you want a relationship with her?

Is this oneitis/white knighting on you part (and yes, I am aware of your Khan journal)?

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She want to be helped of course and is only a friend for me indeed she is my best friend’s girlfriend.

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Why do you say ā€œof courseā€?

This could just be how she interacts with the outside world.

A lot of young women with this have middle class parents with high expectations and this manifests as them regulating their weight as the only thing they feel they can control.

Perhaps she likes the drama and attention.

But you immediately jump to the ā€˜she wants to get better’. How do you know?

Are you really trying to tell me you have never thought about her attractiveness? I don’t believe you. In fact you have already mentioned she has the perfect body.

I’d suggest Regeneration, followed by The Elixir. And of course, therapy. She might need to find another doctor if they aren’t helping too much (though they may be helping her just fine, it may take some time). Your desire to help her seems noble and sincere, I’m sure if she’s determined to improve her condition the subs will her a lot.

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She told this to her boyfriend and to me. She is an adult, the search of attention is the last thing she search for.

She has this condition because past trauma for people bulling her about her weight. She was fat, and now to not get fat again she constantly work out and eat less but despite being in good shape she continue to say that it is not enough, she want more weight loss. So I think something like rebirth can be a good start.

Wrong way of using words, sorry. I meant she is in perfect shape, but I don’t like her sexually.

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Thank you for the suggestion. I Will suggest her too this combination. :smiley:

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The Divine Self-Image module sounds good for this sort of thing but I don’t know any major that has det stuff in it. Might be worth to consider a custom.

Oh… introduction to subs… maybe not a custom yet.

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yes, maybe a standard sub would be better.

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The Seductress is her best bet. I know that emotional healing titles like Elixir, Regeneration and Rebirth are good ideas to handle such problems but the advantage of Seductress as a first title for her is that the added benefits of such a title will be more appealing to her.

Besides results like body image confidence, self care improvement, courage and emotional maturity that Seductress provides, the physical shifting, attractiveness, charm etc will make her more interested in doing this title for a long time. And be impressed enough by SubClub subliminals through Seductress to be willing to try the other titles later.

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If she is constantly working out and eating less than she needs, then may I humbly suggest she is eating the wrong kinds of foods. Eating ā€œlessā€ of junk food may not lead to weight gain, but it will cause cravings and feeling miserable… possibly manifesting as a belief that she is still fat and needs to do more.

Subs for improving self image are a great part of it, but I definitely suggest she take a good look at what she’s eating, and make some changes. I’m partial to (clean!) keto, but even a standard low carb approach works well, with lots of healthy fats (avocado, nuts, oily fish like salmon) and piles of fresh veggies.
I’d also suggest having her minerals checked, as certain imbalances (I’m not a doctor so I won’t even attempt specifics here) can lead to body perception issues, especially when coupled with a history of emotional trauma from bullying and the resulting self abuse (both mental and physical, ie binging and purging).

2 great resources for the nutrition aspect I’ll suggest are the recent books by Dr. Mark Hyman on the ā€œpegan dietā€, as well as every book by Dr. Jason Fung. His work with insulin and other hormones has all but redefined how I view obesity. Brilliant.

And… the book Nutrient Power, by Dr. William Walsh. This looks at how nutrient (minerals, mostly) imbalances shape so much of what happens in our body. Too much copper, or zinc? Or. not enough? Potential for major shifts in brain functioning.

No ā€œbro scienceā€ here, these are all well-respected accomplished doctors with peer review, published studies, etc.

It’s very rare that you can build something with a single tool… here’s a few more you can add to your toolbox for helping your friend.

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Thank you!

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