Sub recommendations for healing from heart break and letting go. Trusting the process. I am fully ready to let go of my past trauma.
I want to break the cycle and stop attracting men who fall in love with me and then ultimately don’t want / aren’t ready for long term commitment so they leave. People are saying I am picking these people because I don’t feel worthy of my desires but I finally believe and know I am.
I know I am worthy of lasting and unconditional love but I’m obviously projecting something that’s causing this to now be a pattern for me.
I had the same limiting beliefs and would attract people that were emotionally unavailable and I often took it upon myself to help them heal.
I’ve been listening to Love Bomb for roughly 4-5 months and I’ve seen so much change! It’s helped me grow more comfortable in my own skin and love every facet of my being—it just fills me with so much love and warmth whenever I listen to it. However, I noticed that it wasn’t “enough” for me meaning that there was still deep rooted trauma and pain that couldn’t be glossed over.
I have since turned to also using Dragon Reborn Gold (almost done with my first cycle of stage 1) and it’s been a game changer—it’s helping me heal in ways that I didn’t know possible and I’m starting to feel more hopeful and lighter for the future.
I’m currently running Dragon Reborn, Love Bomb, and Sex & Seduction X.
I wish you the best of luck on your journey and just know that you are worthy & deserving of the love you desire because you exist!
I prefer Sanguine or Love Bomb is better not Dragon Reborn.
Be gentle with yourself, don’t rush this out 'coz when this hits you you might get overwhelm with bad emotion. Everyone’s is worthy of lasting and unconditional love it’s just we often choose the wrong thoughts.
I remember my experienced with Dragon Reborn multistage, I recalled the sudden death of my dad and the accident of my pregnant girl friend, It grip my heart really strong and I felt really bad, I used to take pain physically but not emotional. When I finally get freed - I still remember those past but I felt nothing to hurt me. What really amaze me is that I started attracting people, love me, help me enjoy life even better.
I also have Love Bomb and Dragon Reborn Gold in my stack. They synergize so well and help me work through a lot of shit I’ve struggled with at “personal best” speeds lmao
If you’re new to subs I recommend starting slow with these. Or do what wingriddenangel did and start only on LB and see where that takes you
From a coaching standpoint, I would firstly ask, what your relationship with your parents is like, especially with your father?
How was/is your parents relationship?
We often attract what we experienced in our childhood. So if our parents relationship was in a certain way, we often tend to attract partners with which we can rebuild a similar scenario.
Do you see any similarities between your partners and your father/ your moms partner(s)?
For healing traumatic relationship experience I would recommend Heartsong. It’s the tiles for that specific topic.
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Also, IIRC, **Lineage: Mandate Eternal" has scripting to heal relationships with your parents. So if you see similarities between your father and your partners this one might help as well.
Interesting. I’ve been doing therapy for literally years. I’ve done several inventories and I’m 100% clear on my childhood trauma experiences and the effects it’s had on me.
What I’m trying to say I guess is that I intellectually understand *** . I’m actually in school to become a mental health counselor myself.
The reason I turned to subliminals is because I believe consciously I understand these things but I’m assuming subconsciously my limiting beliefs don’t believe I am good enough for commitment.
As I write this I do feel like I am good enough so I’m confused what to do.
Also, my father didn’t protect me. He didn’t provide. But he was always there… he’s always been around he never abandoned me or left our family. So I’m confused where the lack of commitment comes from in my partners…
The not protecting or providing makes sense because I don’t go for “alpha provider men”.
I started to actually love myself, and not need external love to fulfill me.
As for who I attracted, they seem to love themselves too, and are interested in evolving as people in a similar way to me.
Note - LB does help you shift your beliefs towards self love on it’s own, so to speak, but I made sure to take action as well. I went to therapy with a fantastic counselor, I did self love guided meditations from teachers I admire, I started taking better care of myself and prioritizing my own needs, I worked through some of my childhood trauma and tried to be the adult I needed back then for my inner child now.
Subs without action CAN work, but subs with action WILL work.
A good sub for feeling it in your body is Sanguine. I also second Heartsong for healing relationship issues.
TBH that’s the stack I ran for 1-2 months that helped me really break through the wall on this whole relationships & self-love thing.
Love Bomb, Sanguine, Heartsong
The recon was brutal (for me) on HS though hahahaha. Mostly because I have a gf and the month I ran HS we were thousands of miles apart and she would get avoidant to protect herself from missing me too much, and that triggered my anxious attachment, and HS would stick it’s finger in that wound to heal it, but some wounds are quite stubborn I was prob also overexposing, but c’est la vie. I still recommend it 100000000000% tho
I was prob also overexposing, but c’est la vie. I still recommend it 100000000000% tho