Handling DR growth and financial growth simultaneously

Questions and Comments
#1

I am using DR and LDU presently, and a seasoned IM guy replied to an email I sent this evening. I looked at his offer last weekend, and I seriously have little to lose, and a lot to possibly gain (some money, plus EXPERIENCE).

I own RICH and a handful of other store Ultimas, AM, Mogul, EOG, Emp, Emp HOM. I’m wondering…

What am I trying to NOT change by not jumping in? I feel kind of sad. I’m listening to LDU as I write, so maybe something’s being pulled out of my hands, thus the sadness.

Seriously…I’m feeling like a young boy right now. Still expecting or hoping something good will come. What’s new to me is I’ve slowly been seeing that I am the one who has control over myself, and not anyone else. I’m just realizing I feel blind moving forward; not about his offer and results, but how I’m (supposed?) to feel; in short, how will it change me?

Today I slowly began feel lighter knowing I don’t know as much as I pretend I do. Since this business offer is email focused, I got scared I’d have to put some phony face on. All while DR is stripping me of my pretensions.

So, what have you done when facing major internal changes and also facing life transitions with it?

Thanks for your help.

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#2

I wish I had some profound words of wisdom.

I’ll explain what I did.

I’ve postponed my other subs while focusing on DR. I try to attend to the grand prize of big healing from DR after a few months because the rewards should be huge and other subs should work better because of lots of healing from DR because of less conflict inside interfering with other subs. That’s my thinking right now.

If I had financial offers happen, I would probably be tempted to start adding RICH to my playlist with the hope I would be guided to obvious answers and manifestations.

I wish I knew what else to tell you.

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#3

I relate to a lot of what you write. It echos a similar narrative I have in my own head. You seem like a truth seeker. Always digging, trying to get to the bottom. The root cause, the “real” emotions. A noble pursuit, but you have to be careful. Sometimes those “real” emotions are just echos of old behaviors and mindsets masquerading as authenticity.

Life transitions and major internal changes go hand in hand. Two sides of the same coin. The outer is a reflection of the inner.This sounds like a manifestation to me. One that can act as a stepping stone towards your desired reality.

One thing I’ve learned, it will always feel blind. It’s why so many people stay in comfort zones or don’t grow beyond what they know. Nobody likes that unknown. But here’s what you really have to drill into your mind. Your subconscious knows the way, it has access to information you can’t consciously perceive all the time, as long as you have a target and hold that in your mind you cannot fail. It also sounds like you have a fear of losing yourself or your authenticity. Ask yourself what are you holding onto that you feel is “you”? These aren’t always immediate things you can unravel. For example

Sounds innocent enough, but it holds a weight of doubt. You have insight, I’ve seen it in your writing. Don’t underestimate that. What you call pretending might actually be a subconscious defense mechanism of not holding a firm stance on your views or insights. What if you do know a lot? What’s the worst that happens if you hold this belief and strengthen it? Sure you could possibly be wrong, but who isn’t sometimes? The important thing is not limiting yourself prematurely.

I don’t know if that helped or not. These journey’s are each unique. What I’ve learned is you have to start having trust and faith in yourself because you’re the only one that can guide you to what you want in life, nobody else.

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#4

@subliminalguy Be patient. That’s it. This isn’t a race and oddly enough I came across a book tonight that I’m going to read that I feel would be incredibly helpful amd and beneficial for you as well

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#5

Amen to this. I feel that it’s important to get the foundation set up with DR. If I were to start SC today I would run DR first (contrary to what the product copy would say)

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#6

@subliminalguy There are whole days, weeks , and months that I have no clue what I’m doing and I just sort of improvise a lot. Running Dragon Reborn and now meditation as well is helping a lot with the emotional control and stability but there are still times I have no idea and I try to think things through and not give into prior immaturity when making a decision. It’s not easy. It may never be and I feel that’s a huge part of what being a mentally and emotionally mature person is about. Being willing to be vulnerable, admit you don’t know , and understand that for the most part shit is not going to go your way

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#7

This subject line attracted me strongly and immediately:

Handling DR growth and financial growth simultaneously

I feel that it would be roughly equivalent if we substitute the word ‘internal’ for DR and the word ‘external’ for financial.

That gets at the crux of it for me.

Handling Internal Growth and External Growth Simultaneously

It’s that disorientation. That fear. I want newness; New Possibilities, New Capacities, New Life Situation.

But I also want CONTROL. I also want to be able to PREDICT what is coming.

When the inner world is changing, we feel like the very terms and standards by which we navigate life are becoming shaky and undependable. Ironically, the tighter we hold onto what is changing, the shakier and more disturbing the change feels.

Here’s an ideal: To be able to jump between different perspectives and points of view. Adapting and adjusting flexibly and smoothly.

Embracing the disorientation and acclimating to it.

Instead of striving for some final, ultimate external truth, cultivating an inner resilience, trust, and equanimity.

Knowing that when it fucks up, as it will, we’ll cry…and then we’ll get up.

Learning to trust something inside of me. It does not fix everything in advance and force everything to go well, but it does course-correct like a pro.

I got shaky and scared. May have experienced depression. I’ve isolated myself and looked around shell-shocked. I journaled. Turned to my resources. Talked with people I trust. I exercised. I wrote music and expressed my inner experience. I prayed, meditated, looked at the sky. I gave it all the finger at times.

I’ve done a whole bunch of stuff. Some things better than others.

I usually tell myself, ‘fuck this. we’re not giving up. Someone else is going to have to beat me, because I’m not going to do it for them.’ and then with a heart full of courage and hope, I went out and…fucked up some more.

But gradually things come around. Sometimes quickly. We do adjust. Thank goodness our bodyminds were not developed by us. Or they probably wouldn’t work this well. They learn and they re-establish equilibrium.

Gradually, we grow to accommodate that which once overwhelmed us.

And sometimes we don’t.

But fuck it.

Stay in the thing anyway.

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#8

Be willing to put your authenticity, self care, and well being over performance, or doing something for financial/ success sake but keep taking the steps you know to take for success as it works for you. I reached a point where it was too painful not to do this, and was pleasantly surprised that people respected me more, and I’m more effective, than when grinding stuff out, self sacrificing, and fretting my well being over projects and approval. I see now I was afraid there be nothing there to catch me if I stopped paddling hard, but turns out my feet could have reached the floor the whole time.

I hope I understood the question, apologies if not.

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#9

You need to find some time to go inside, set aside some time daily. At the same time, make sure you take care of your responsibilities.

if you get some holidays thats’ the best time to sit down and go through all your inner blocks see what life means to you where you are where you want to be, etc. These are the most important questions, find the answers. Find the answers to a ll the questions that are causing inner conflicts.

And meditate, find some time to relax each day (e.g. warm shower), maybe some time to push yourself each day too depending on your life philosophy (for me this is. must)

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#10

I didn’t expect such a flood of responses. @Malkuth, yeah, seeking to be in control (and also enjoying freedom when letting go) was the impetus for writing this.

Thank you, all of you, for giving me something unique to think on.

I’m sitting here, after doing a loop of DR this morning, wondering “why do I want this? What’s motivating me?”

Answers: Fear of missing out. And seeking others’ approval again.

Again, thank you all so much. Letting go isn’t easy–but it’s a continual part of life.

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#11

I took a shower. I realized I need to come back to these responses later, as a LOT was shared that I could relate to myself. A whole lot. Almost late for work now.

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#12

I agree! I think DR will make any future subliminals work better and faster.

I would be tempted to do so. But knowing what I know now, I think I would start with Quantum Limitless or Emperor Fitness (or both)… and definitely add Elixir and Dreams. All from the main shop to get my brain used to SC products.

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#13

Yep… that’s DR!:dragon: on dude!

#14

You sound like a wiser, more level headed man than even 1 month ago.

Please congratulate yourself!

And :dragon: on!