The question is in the title of the topic.
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I’d like to know this also
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With emotional steadfastness you mean no big emotional swings?
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Been on Sanguine for a bit now. Never tried GLM, but Sanguine is great for keeping me calm.
I think given the criteria you’re looking for Sanguine wins out. GLM would be like building yourself up stronger. Sanguine is like learning to roll with the punches better. Old emotional triggers become less potent and there’s this relaxed detached calm energy. I mean both would actually be a good combo. Sanguine is such a good title in general I’m surprised more people don’t use it. It helps you take a step back from things and operate within chaos better without getting sucked into that frenzied energy.
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Maybe there are more roads leading to the same goal.
Sanguine from the side of inner confidence and positivity and GLM from stoic discipline.
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Yes, and being positive or, at least, cold blooded to any negative occasion or situation in life. For example, Sanguine helped me to stay very stable when I was breaking up with my girlfriend and is helping until now. Considering the fact the breaking up was her idea and she did it as she never loved me despite two weeks before she told me she was very happy to meet me and I was helping her with her mental problems, without Sanguine it would be too painful and harder for me to accept what happened and continue my life as if I never knew her.
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Yes! After I’ve started a stack with Sanguine, I’m a Sanguine promotor since then. I think I will proceed with Sanguine for 6 cycles.
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so in terms of what I asked Sanguine is better.
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I’d keep sanguine then
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Does sanguine have permanent effects making you calmer, or is it more of a bandaid treatment?
Nothing here is bandaid. Since zp pushes reality through you, a part of you has to “become” That thing
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Until you become another thing. Nothing is permanent…
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Sanguine no questions asked.
Success with it, sanguine will be a nice experience for you
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Don’t know what happened, but a strong desire to resurrect a relationship with my exgf is taking me over. I don’t know wether I love her or I just got used to her or perhaps something else. If I was able to, I would let the relationship to be continued. I want her back.
The problem is I’m feeling not good because of that. That’s more of when man loves woman, but she doesn’t love him.
This is relatable as fuck to me right now.
I haven’t told anyone this, not even my boy @Billions in fact I’ve been avoiding him.
Because I’m embarrassed to admit it and allow it to be real.
But my girlfriend broke up with me Saturday night after 4.5 years.
She said I hadn’t kept my promises (of moving in together after I graduated college, since I didn’t end up getting a job in my field and tried to start a business instead), I was taking too long to make our relationship serious (by taking the next step to move in), she didn’t feel safe with me (because of how I allowed my ego getting triggered to dictate the way I spoke to her, letting my trauma lead the conversation and force her into a convoluted apology even when I was the one who initially fucked up, which is ridiculous in retrospect and a total power game to feel like I was in control), I was more of a boy than a man to her (for my complete lack of ability to provide), and so much more.
I see 100% the massive role I played in leading her to feel that way, and it hurts so much.
I asked her to give me a chance to prove I can be what she needs.
I am giving up on my agency dream for now (because that’s what it still is, a dream, with zero clients and no real basis in life other than the coaching program I am in).
I am applying for jobs to work remote so I can get some money to move in with her (which my boy Billions also advised against, but here we are).
And yet, she hasn’t even confirmed if that would be enough, or if she would even accept me wanting to move in with her.
She said she feels numb, that she hasn’t felt the same infatuation for me for a while now, and looking back I realize that I noticed and ignored it to keep focusing on my business.
I let my scarcity mindset in business crawl over into the rest of my life, and became dependent on her for any feeling of self worth.
I can’t even be sure if she loves me anymore, or if the reason she still responds to my texts is out of sheer pity. All I know is I need to rediscover my love for myself, no matter what she decides.
The uncertainty and feeling of unrequited love is staggeringly painful.
I was going to run a stack of Love Bomb for all Humanity (for the self love), Sanguine (for the transmutation of negative emotion into positive emotion), and Chosen Way of Nature (for the serene feeling) for this.
After RoM just released, I replaced Sanguine in my stack for it. Not sure if it’s the right move, but the sales page mentioned incredibly synergy between RoM and CWoN, so I decided to try it.
@SaintSovereign any thoughts on this stack? Would Sanguine be better suited to my current needs over CWoN or RoM?
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I’m sorry you are going through man. And I appologise for the unsolicited advice I am going to give you. I’m not going to say to try and get her back or not, but: take a bit of time to understand what you really want.
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Right now you feel that you want her moving in no matter what. Difficult to say how much of this “love” is actually fear of losing her
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She broke up with you. She needs time to inderstand if she still needs you. The last thing you want is give up your dream and then a couple of months later for her to realise she wants something else
So yeah, thats my (harsh) advice: dont try to take her back now, give yourself and her some space to think about what you want and what you are willing to give up. This also proves to her maturity, and you taking the relationship serioulsy, even if that means a period of unhappiness.
One last thing: most likely, the reason she did not say if moving in together is not enough is because she doesnt know now. She needs time to understand what she wants as well.
Feel good!
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Thank you for that.
I’ve spent some time today thinking about that myself, what I even want.
I am not giving up the dream, just taking a different approach to it, is how I see it.
I saw a similar quote here on the forum a day or two before it happened, and it automatically clicked for me in the moment she was trying to dump me.
So I accept the reality.
However you are right. She made some decently logical points about our compatibility, that would require compromise in the future. And the things she said to me, I am not sure if I can ever forget them or trust that she doesn’t think that way again in the future.
I don’t know if I want her out of love, or out of fear of losing her, or out of wanting what I can’t have out of ego.
I have a LOT of reflection to do. Thank god for Sub Club, RoM, this forum, and so many other forces and sources of information that are helping me sort out my thoughts and emotions at this time.
Thank you.
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Submit a ticket. That’s the surest way to get your question answered right.
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