Finding My Foundation

[Michel]

Still on washout.

But I’m very pleased.

I’m taken aback at some of the results I’m getting.

Like I seem untouchable in a mild way.

Like people have seen a celebrity

Women are a few steps from grabbing me off the street.

Chosen is me.

It just works for me in a way that the other hard edged subs don’t.

Bright, positive, open. Immune to bullshit. I feel lighter too.

Chosen + Hegemon gives it a smouldering seductive edge.

I belong here, the best years are to come.

I feel great, I look “sparkly”, I get to create and mentor in line with my natural energy.

The main monkey on my back - constant dread fear at nothing major - is faint background noise. Barely audible.

It’s a 180⁰ from feeling heavy, ill, can barely walk up the stairs, in a 10hr job taking insane amounts of stress, then returning to a toxic relationship that I co-created.

I wouldn’t call myself an optimist at all. But as long as the sun shines, it’s a good day.

[Michel]

Chosen Hegemon custom is still delivering for me

The deceiving thing is the thought:

I’m fine, let’s add some more stuff

Because the level of self confidence now feels “normal”, the chaos of building it is missed. So adding another sub won’t harm things, right?

I can convince myself that the rate of progress should be faster

But on Wanted it took 4 cycles to get past the first fence.

Things will take time

Wonderful things like participating in “grown up” kids games and winning is a good ice breaker around women.

Joyful things.

Will it be too much to continue to the end of the year? Don’t think so. A Wanted year end sounds nice. Who knows who will show up (or how many 🫢)

[Michel]

@Michel

Wonderful things like participating in “grown up” kids games and winning is a good ice breaker around women.

Looks like I’ve found an interesting way in to success with women - just play. I’m good at having fun

Speaking of success with women:

You know you are getting successful when a good friend says down on the phone line that I sound a lot more positive today than a year ago. She said before I wouldn’t take her advice to get my mind right and think better, but now I’m a lot happier and the evening out with her was the most she’s laughed out loud.
She also felt safe with me despite a full blown rock concert about to start around her.

The key here was that I didn’t care about whether my jokes “landed” or my observations were outlandish. I was myself and I felt really positive about myself.

I’m seriously thinking about adjusting my stack, making play and joy central to it as it works much better than trying to be dominant alpha . Outward, shiny fun, joyous @Michel is more me.

So Chosen with Summertime (Chosen/Endless Summer) with Wanted swapped out for DreamBoi?

[Michel]

And then I see this advert for Lego on the train today… Maybe there’s a message 🤷

[Xelas]

I’ve had very similar breakthroughs on WANTED. At some point I realized that my natural way of being is all about fun and play, and, most importantly, not caring whether my jokes or my personality overall lands with people or not. it skyrocketed my results with women and helped me become more popular overall.

I’d suggest to consider that it’s probably WANTED helping you to discover your authentic style of seduction and being before switching to another sub. Although, an addition of Chosen and Summertime to WANTED sounds pretty sweet