Emperor dilemma

Questions and Comments
#1

on the emperor page it says

  • Manifest friends, colleagues, partners, etc. who will help you achieve all of your success and wealth goals.

I believe I manifested a guy friend who Is way better looking than me, more successful with women and finance etc., awhile back when I ran emperor, WB and LBFH…he’s cool for the most part but I feel like he kind of took over my position in my social circle. All the female workers want to talk to him, women throwing themselves at him and women who I thought were attracted to me are now fanning over to him. I’m ngl, never had I been jealous of anyone but I’ve found myself being envious of him because he’s where I want to be in life, but the gap between us is night and day. I’ve kind of accepted the fact that women in my social life don’t view me as the most attractive anymore and have moved on to him.

is it normal to manifest friends or colleagues who are like way better than you in all avenues according to the description on the emperor description…in order to push you to improve

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#2

Mentor Manifestation

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#3

most likely.

The issue is that when he tries to educate me on attraction and what works from his perspective, it kind of falls on deaf ears because women find him very handsome and he can kind of get away with a lot of things that most average looking guys couldn’t

#4

Isn’t that what a mentor is? You’ve manifested someone whos better than you in an area youre desperate for improvement. So ask him for help

That’s self sabotage talking again: “Not handsome enough. Won’t try.”

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#5

If I may opine:

I concur. And what makes you think he’s “better” than you in any way? From the outside looking in, it almost looks like you’re basing this solely upon the validation of the potential romantic interests in your social group.

If you keep moving with Emperor, I suspect that this will pass. From the scripting standpoint, it could be helping understand a blockage related to mentors.

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#6

Well what if his face pyhsically looks better and is taller what advice can he give him?

Just be confident? lol

Imagine someone like Ivan Drago or Chris Hemsworth giving a 5’5 ugly man advice,i don’t want this taken the wrong way and this isn’t a defeatist mentality but pyhsical looks and how your bones are set do matter and you can’t really “teach it” unless you get risky expensive surgeries (wich i absolutely don’t recommend) or maybe new pyhsical shifting can do something about it

#7

He has been giving advice though. He was literally acting as a mentor.

Alright then.

No idea why you’re crashing out here, but this has nothing to do with what I was saying. please look at Saint’s post above.

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#8

I mean you are right about that. I need to swallow my pride and ask for help. Thats something I need to work on.

#9

He’s basically someone who is where I want to be in life. He kind of reminds me of how far I’ve got to reach the level where he’s at.

Also, it just sucks when the woman who were attracted to you are all falling heads over heals for a guy who doesn’t even find them attractive in any sense.

I also showed hints of jealousy and it turned one of them off so much she kind of stopped texting me or calling me…

I do acknowledge that this is a problem I have. I have a huge problem with jealousy, insecurity and not feeling good enough

#10

I will say my friend is definitely taller, better looking and more in shape, so his idea of “game” wouldn’t work for me per say, because he doesn’t realize that women will sleep with him if he just shows 10 percent interest. The advice he has given 50 percent only work because he has the looks for it but the other 50 are somewhat practical. I guess I just need to work on my body to be more muscular and run Lots… I use him as an example to get better than him, in all aspects kind of like how athletes have mentors who they end up surpassing in greatness

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#11

I would advice taking his help for dating but not going out with him during your approaches and dates.

Keep your friendship/mentorship with him separate from your dating life.

EDIT: if he is very fit, take his help for working out. Being gym buddies would be a good idea too.

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#12

I think you could look up to this guy as inspiration and an ideal to aspire to. Although you may not be as genetically gifted, you can still improve your SMV greatly with 12-24 months of dedicated work.

You could use your favourite AI tool to help draft a custom titled GigaChad ZP or something then run the draft through qOS for further refinement.

It may take some work to be able to effectively wield a custom such as GigaChad or Earthshaking Sexuality. I built a couple of wealth customs that were too advanced for me that I plan on re visiting in the fall and early 2027 after some work with Ascension till end of summer.

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#13

My mind actually went to the Stabilizer, although I think I read you talking about some overlap in Reforged as well. As far as a potential vector for additional support for the OP on the self-sabotage angle if it remains pernicious over time.

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#14

Then if you applied his advice and put more effort into your appearance, fitted and confidence, you’d have significantly better odds than you do now.

Again, this is the self sabotage talking. This is the blockage you really need to overcome otherwise you’ll always have issues with women no matter how many times you run wanted and lots

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#15

I can’t tell how valuable this post will be for you, but I’ll write it anyway.

@themadsexyscientist could you pause for a bit? And finally observe the patterns in your posts in the thread.

You’ve already identified the issue, and, it’s not just about a mentor or the changes that have happened in your social circle or even dropping your pride.

Actually, look at the picture you’ve painted of why he’s so successful at what you desire.

What stories are you telling yourself about attractiveness, especially yours?

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#16

Brother, game was made by average looking guys fed up with striking out with women

They studied behaviour, built systems and ran rings around better looking guys and celebrities

Have a look at the pickup artists back in the day

Yeah your friend is teaching you things. If 50% is working great. Go look and find out whats missing for you

Edit:

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#17

To be fair here, Neil Strauss never bedded Jessica Alba, so all he got were empty useless IOI’s. The only reason he became confident in the first place was because of the hypnosis sessions that he underwent from a fellow PUA dude (not gonna post the name here). Neil did not scale up and ascend from the stuff he preaches and the techniques he sells in his books. At the end of the day, the guy is just a marketing dude who was in for the money. The guy is a fake dating guru, same as Mystery, Tyler Durden, David DeAngelo and the whole other pack.

All of this PUA stuff is completely useless in my opinion. Because instead what they were all preaching, all a man had actually to do is to heal their traumas, increase self love and be on semen retention. No techniques, systems, routines or anything else needed. Saying this as someone who grew up with the PUA community when I went to college.

I think the best way to learn from “Naturals” that we have here would be a stack of RAIKOV + Primal Seduction.
But that is after the necessary internal healing work has been done.
And for looks improvement we have WANTED, WB, LotS, WDB, it just takes time…

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#18

The good thing is that you have identified the pattern. This is the first step to breaking any cycle – making the unconscious conscious. Now you are actively discussing ideas and the such with others – another good sign. So long as you are aware of this pattern and attempting to overcome it with action, you are operating from your Zero Point, as we say. That space where the unconscious is no longer directing action without conscious awareness.

As @emperor_obewan pointed out, titles like The Stabilizer and Emperor: Reforged were created for exactly these types of situations. People want OG Emperor’s promise without having done the inner work. And it goes well, for awhile – until an event like this occurs and the person feels the rug has been pulled out from underneath them. The foundation is the most important thing to develop and even if you have done foundational work, it is sometimes wise to return and do more.

But from a non-subliminal related, philosophical perspective – attraction and love, jealousy and the such are irrational in the first place. Depending on who you ask, attraction is psychological, others say it is biochemical. Some spiritual people would say that it is karmic. The commonality here is, while you can alter your own psychological processes, your own biochemical processes and work with your own karma, you have no control over these same elements in another. And thus, to define yourself by the irrationality of others will lead to irrational results.

Without the foundation, even running titles like OG Emperor relegates your results to being defined by another – validation masking as “dominance.” Hence, titles like Emperor: Reforged, Summertime, etc. Titles that are based not in the validation of others, but rather self in relation to self.

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#19

I thought OG Emperor helps build foundation?

#20

Of course Emperor has foundational elements, but nowhere on the level of something like Genesis: Ascension, which was made AS the foundational title. There is only so much that can fit into a single file. Likewise, Emperor was known for its intensity, its drive – things that require a stabilized container to function optimally.

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