Brothers,
I salute you all.
this my 24 hours update.
I decided to go with wanted Solo, and let me tell you this is one of a kind experience to me.
The anxiety is gone , the confidence is back.Within 24 hours i was able to shift mentally (not 100%).
I feel free detached still in love but not needy anymore and she felt it.
I was able to pinpoint the root cause of all this mess(more details later).
Hats off to @Fire and @SaintSovereign for their great works ,ZP is a masterpiece.
WANTED has helped tremendously with being detached with outcomes in terms of romance. Plus WANTED has also shown me that I am also a prize in the dating field and in general, which helps with self respect and also kills obsession and oneitis. This has led me to be more focused on my goals rather than women so much.
I see how needy you are right now to the point whoch you consider this an emergency.
I have been there❤
Soo
Take a look at WANTED, it ANNIHILATES neediness.
But look if you wanna integrate other objectives of the sub.
For overall sediction, another sun named primal seduction is amazing.
Ascention is also ok, but VERY extensive on this matter.
IF your only priority is that woman being devoted to you, go and run WANTED 
The weird thing is that for a while I was able to find my balance again. I was fine in every way.
I just lost it in the past weeks.
I need to be careful so WANTED all the way for now.
There is also Sanguine if you think that might help.