Would elixir work for this. Have an issue trusting others due to some incidents in childhood. Would elixir help with this? Also since it has a hands off approach are there any other things I can do to take action besides journaling?
This is the major goal of subliminals for my partner.
Elixir and Chosen both work extremely well as hits of pure positivity, freedom from trust issues, and joy.
Because NSE is SO much more powerful and because DR:G is such an incredible sub, I can’t help but recommend DR:G for this.
DR:G is in my opinion the Multistage Chosen.
You could also run Phoenix if you’re up for it, and you’ll see the changes come quickly.
Trust issues have always had a major, major effect in my life. Genesis was beautiful for me since it 1) got me out of my shell some via the exploration scripting, and 2) the emotional transmutation worked fantastically. I had some unique experiences since I’ve mostly pulled back from relationships. To be blunt, Genesis baited me. I wanted more. It allows the fear to turn into something else, and it was exciting. I just knew these issues were running my entire life. They have.
A week back, I scrapped my subliminal plans, and I decided for myself to go on DR RED. Just reading the sales page, I thought Fire may have been watching my progress wanting to heal this over the years here. One aim is to heal all those broken beliefs causing mistrust, loneliness, and further misery. From the sales page:
“A brutal string of rejections could cause you to forever abandon the prospect of dating, relationships and deep connections, leading to unhappiness, loneliness, abandonment issues, inability to trust, energetic disbalances and a plethora of other issues.”
“How amazing would it be to feel cherished, accepted, and truly valued right now? Surrounded by loving and supportive people, loneliness a long forgotten feeling?”
"What if you experienced complete honesty and trust from everyone around you?
What could you accomplish if you knew, deep in your soul, that you can trust those close to you?
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How incredible would it be to feel unwavering loyalty and faithfulness from those who matter most to you?
…
THAT is the essence of Dragon Reborn: RED."
And that is why I’m on DR now. I’ve begun DR twice in the past, making it to Stage 2, and I allowed fear to take over. Stage 3, which I’ve never done, is the “step above your problems” stage. Like you’ll pull back and look over your issues, not owned by them, possibly giving you insights on how to handle them from an outside perspective.
That’s my goal right now. I’ve had wins and losses over the years using many healing subliminals. But doing microloops with DR is infinitely easier and more productive than any other healing subliminal I’ve used. I’ve used all of SubClub’s healing titles, on and off.
And lastly, I’ll speak on my present trust issues. I’ve not created a journal for DR RED yet, and in the past, I’ve done so very quickly. All my life I’ve relied on others to lift me up. I’ve done so on this forum for years. I’d even say I “used” people to have some sort of self-worth.
DR is definitely working on this, as I write. Even today, I’ve had deeply ingrained impulses to approach people playing a child’s role of “can you help me? I can’t do this”. It’s an unhealthy tool I used, and that helpless mindset does not work. Not on DR, and I’m grateful for this. DR’s doing something magnificent, and I’m allowing it. Otherwise I’d be doing the same things over and over…stuck in one place. I’m tired of being there. And DR is stoking this fire in me. It’s not always easy, but good change is better than being stuck, any day of the week.
You’ll make the decision that works for you. Thank you for starting this discussion. It felt good to share.
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Nice reading this update from you.
I was a little worried because you stopped suddenly updating your journal.
But reading about your progress, I’m seriously happy for you.
Do what’s best for you and your progress.
And if it is not to journal in here, than do that.
I’d just encourage you to keep an offline journal instead, if you’re not doing that already.
Just to track your progress and to have something to review in the future.
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Thanks for the encouragement @Parsifal.
Damn, being honest here, I’d closed down the forum tab an hour ago, feeling a growing dependence of someone validating my thoughts. And just now, fearing feelings of being abandoned again, I decided to come and delete it.
Trust issues? Abandonment fears? Yep. Definitely.
Edit: deleting posts is how I avoid the sting of being rejected. I.e.: “I’ll abandon you first before you abandon me.” I do the same thing in real life, on a daily basis.
Edit 2: I opened up a movie app minutes ago, hoping to bring up more emotions (I’ve done this often on healing titles). I searched using the keyword “emotional” and decided on one. Watched the trailer…and I’ve hesitated. I sensed deeper emotions coming up, and I felt afraid. I think DR is working on something close to this, for I questioned trusting myself.