Dragons Nest with Gold eggs

[Phoenix]

Listening Schedule

Dragon Reborn RED | Jun 2024 Multistage Stage IVC6
15 mins, Tues and Thur, 7 days break after 21 days
On-WashOut

It’s not the suffering that breaks you—
it’s how tightly you cling to it.
Pain becomes unbearable only when you hold it, replay it, and let it define you.

But pain, by nature, is meant to move.
It’s a messenger, not a prison.
And the moment you stop gripping it with both hands, it starts to loosen its hold on you.

Learn to see your pain like a cloud drifting across the sky—
real, present, maybe even heavy,
but temporary.
It passes when you let it pass.

You don’t heal by denying your hurt,
and you don’t grow by pretending it never happened.
You heal by letting the experience flow through you instead of living inside you.

Feel it, acknowledge it, understand it—
but don’t anchor yourself to it.
You are not meant to live in the memory of what wounded you.

Release the need to keep revisiting the moment that broke you.
Release the habit of defining yourself by yesterday’s damage.
Release the story that says suffering is who you are.

Because it’s not.
You are the sky—
wide, open, unshaken.
And your pain is just weather.

Let it move.
Let it pass.
Let yourself rise above it.

That’s where real strength begins.

[Phoenix]

Listening Schedule

Dragon Reborn RED | Jun 2024 Multistage Stage IVC6
15 mins, Tues and Thur, 7 days break after 21 days
On-WashOut

At first, this concept can feel uncomfortable or confusing, but for anyone who’s been caught in enmeshed relationships or dynamics, it eventually becomes incredibly liberating.

Yes—relationships are mutual, and communication is something we co-create.
But a key part of showing up in safer, more securely connected ways is learning to stay grounded in your own adult self, even when the other person can’t do the same.

This doesn’t mean you take responsibility for their inability to stay regulated or present.
It means you stay responsible for you.

You don’t shrink back because their reaction feels big.
You don’t apologize just to avoid tension.
You can remain calm and hold a boundary, while still acknowledging and accepting where that person is in that moment.

(Acceptance simply means seeing the reality in front of you without over-functioning to make up for what the other person can’t offer.)

Many people seek safety in the other person first.
But breaking old patterns and developing emotional maturity often requires learning how to cultivate safety within yourself.

When you can regulate your own emotions and create internal steadiness, you’re no longer doing emotional gymnastics to keep someone else from falling apart.
You can honor your own needs and still treat them with respect.

You don’t need someone’s approval to have your own feelings, needs, or boundaries.
They can have their reactions—and you can still be safe, steady, and allowed to have your needs.

[Phoenix]

Listening Schedule

Dragon Reborn RED | Jun 2024 Multistage Stage IVC6
15 mins, Tues and Thur, 7 days break after 21 days
On-WashOut

You are a living work of art—always unfolding, always expanding.
Growth isn’t a single moment; it’s a pulse, a rhythm. Every question you ask, every step you take, every tiny shift is shaping who you’re becoming. Keep going. Your evolution is happening right now.

Keep changing.
Keep questioning.
Keep growing.
Keep evolving.
Keep rising.
Keep moving.
Keep exploring.
Keep loving.
Keep shining.

[Phoenix]

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Dragon Reborn RED | Jun 2024 Multistage Stage IVC6
15 mins, Tues and Thur, 7 days break after 21 days
On-WashOut

Your thoughts are the spark for every change you create in your life.
When you train your mind to believe in possibility, your actions naturally begin to match that belief. Let your thoughts be the force that propels you forward — not the anchor that keeps you stuck.
The mind accomplishes what it dares to believe.

[Phoenix]

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Dragon Reborn RED | Jun 2024 Multistage Stage IVC6
15 mins, Tues and Thur, 7 days break after 21 days
On-WashOut

Comfort feels secure, but your dream life lives beyond what’s familiar. The moment you choose your future instead of your fear, doors start to open. Commit to what you truly want — and you’ll be amazed at how life rises to meet your courage.
Your life will transform the moment your dedication to your dreams becomes stronger than your attachment to your comfort zone.

[Phoenix]

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Dragon Reborn RED | Jun 2024 Multistage Stage IVC6
15 mins, Tues and Thur, 7 days break after 21 days
On-WashOut

Beautiful story to share…

A young man once visited a temple and poured out his worries to a monk:

“Master, why does life exhaust me so much?
I’m afraid of losing money, losing the person I love, losing opportunities…
I try to hold on to everything so tightly, yet I still feel insecure.”

The monk said nothing.
Instead, he placed a small handful of pebbles into the young man’s hand.

“Close your hand and grip them tightly,” the monk instructed.

The young man obeyed.
Soon, his fingers began to ache.

“Does it hurt?” the monk asked.

“Yes, Master. The harder I hold, the more it hurts.”

The monk nodded.
“Now open your hand — don’t drop the pebbles. Just let them sit lightly on your palm.”

The young man relaxed his hand.
The pebbles stayed put, but the pain disappeared.

“Does it hurt now?” the monk asked.

“No, Master. They’re still with me, but I feel no pain.”

The monk smiled gently.
“You see, the problem isn’t the pebbles.
It’s the way you hold them.
Love, money, work — none of these create suffering by themselves.
Suffering comes from the fear-filled grip you keep on them,
from the belief that everything must stay yours forever.”

Pointing at the young man’s open palm, he continued:

“Hold what you value with care, but without clinging.
You can still love deeply, work hard, and pursue your dreams —
without suffocating your own heart with anxiety and attachment.”

The young man hesitated.
“But Master… what if one day I lose everything?”

The monk looked toward the garden, where yellow leaves drifted to the ground.

“In this life, nothing belongs to you permanently.
You are simply a traveler passing through these moments and these things.
Cherish them while they are with you.
And when it is time for them to go,
place your hands together in gratitude —
that is letting go, not abandonment.”

Walking home that day, the young man still had his old worries,
but his heart felt lighter.
He finally understood:

“I don’t have to grip tightly to prove I care.
Sometimes the only path to true freedom —
for myself and for others —
is to soften my hold.”

– It’s not what you have that brings suffering,
but the fear-driven tightness with which you cling to it.
– Hold gently so you can appreciate what you love,
not so tightly that you crush your own heart.
– Love fully, value deeply, and when the moment comes,
let go with grace.

[Phoenix]

Listening Schedule

Dragon Reborn RED | Jun 2024 Multistage Stage IVC6
15 mins, Tues and Thur, 7 days break after 21 days
On-WashOut

If you want a life that feels full, rich, and extraordinary, train your mind to focus relentlessly on what you do want — not what you fear, not what you lack, not what could go wrong.
Your attention is fuel. Whatever you feed grows.

Think in the direction of your desires.
Picture the outcomes that excite you.
Build your inner world around possibility, not limitation.

Because the moment you stop entertaining what you don’t want, you stop giving your energy to scarcity, doubt, and distraction.
And the moment you start consistently imagining what sets your soul on fire, you begin creating the path toward it.

A spectacular life starts in the mind.
Focus forward.
Focus intentionally.
Focus on what you want — and watch everything else fall into place.

[Phoenix]

Listening Schedule

Dragon Reborn RED | Jun 2024 Multistage Stage IVC6
15 mins, Tues and Thur, 7 days break after 21 days
On-WashOut

There is a force inside you — fierce, unstoppable, and far greater than anything you’ve ever acknowledged. The vision you carry isn’t random; it’s yours because you have the power to bring it into reality.
Trust your strength. Trust your magic.

Never forget this:
You are wildly, dangerously, unbelievably capable —
far more than you know, and more than the world is ready for.

[Phoenix]

Listening Schedule

Dragon Reborn RED | Jun 2024 Multistage Stage IVC6
15 mins, Tues and Thur, 7 days break after 21 days
On-WashOut

Someone who stays patient with you on your rough days is offering one of the gentlest, purest forms of love. It means they can see your sharp edges without flinching, without pulling away, without asking you to be perfect to deserve care.
That kind of patience is rare — it comes from understanding, not convenience.

If someone gives you that, value it deeply.
And if you’re able to give it, you’re loving in a way that truly matters.

[Phoenix]

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Dragon Reborn RED | Jun 2024 Multistage Stage IVC6
15 mins, Tues and Thur, 7 days break after 21 days
On-WashOut

As a man, shyness doesn’t just make you quiet — it can quietly rob you of experiences, connections, and opportunities that could change your life.
Not because you’re not capable, not because you’re not worthy, but because hesitation leaves the door open just long enough for life to move on without you.

When you stay silent, someone else speaks.
When you hold back, someone else steps forward.
When you shrink, the world doesn’t pause — it simply gives the moment to the man who dared to show up.

Shyness might feel safe, but it’s a safety that costs you growth, confidence, relationships, career chances, and the rewards that only come to those willing to be seen.
The conversation you didn’t start.
The idea you didn’t voice.
The woman you didn’t approach.
The opportunity you didn’t claim.

Every time you hide, you trade possibility for comfort.

But here’s the truth:
Courage isn’t loud.
It’s simply choosing to act while your heart is racing.
It’s saying yes before your fear convinces you to say maybe next time.
It’s showing up imperfectly instead of disappearing completely.

You don’t need to become the loudest man in the room — just the one who refuses to sit his life out in the corner.

Because as a man, the world will open for you only as far as you’re willing to step into it.
And if you let shyness lead, you’ll watch too many chances pass you by.

Be seen.
Be heard.
Take the shot.
Your life expands every time you do.

[Phoenix]

Listening Schedule

Dragon Reborn RED | Jun 2024 Multistage Stage IVC6
15 mins, Tues and Thur, 7 days break after 21 days
On-WashOut

The less I care about how others live, the louder I dare to be myself.
Comparison steals vision. Imitation kills authenticity.
The moment I stop looking outward and start looking inward, I stop living a life borrowed from someone else — and finally start building one that is unapologetically, fiercely, entirely mine.

Stand in your own life. Own it. Shine without apology.

[Phoenix]

Listening Schedule

Dragon Reborn RED | Jun 2024 Multistage Stage IVC6
15 mins, Tues and Thur, 7 days break after 21 days
On-WashOut

If you want to grow, you’ll need to get comfortable saying no. Every yes costs time, energy, and focus — and you can’t give them to everything.
“No” is what shields your goals from distractions disguised as harmless choices.
The life you want isn’t just built on what you commit to — it’s also built on what you refuse to carry.

Say no more. Protect your yes. Build the life that matters.

[Phoenix]

Listening Schedule

Dragon Reborn RED | Jun 2024 Multistage Stage IVC6
15 mins, Tues and Thur, 7 days break after 21 days
On-WashOut

Connection, attention, and kindness have a quiet, transformative power — a power we often underestimate. A simple act of listening, truly seeing someone, or showing genuine care can heal wounds that medicine, logic, or time alone cannot reach.

When we offer our presence without judgment, when we give our focus without distraction, and when we respond with compassion rather than criticism, we create a space where hearts can soften, minds can open, and pain can begin to dissolve.

The ripple effect of kindness is profound: it restores trust, rebuilds confidence, and reminds people that they are seen, valued, and not alone. Even the smallest gestures — a warm word, a thoughtful message, a patient ear — can reach deeper than we realize.

In a world that often prioritizes speed, achievement, and outcomes, we forget that the simple human elements of connection, attention, and kindness are not soft or weak — they are potent tools of healing and transformation.

Never underestimate the impact of truly being there for someone. Your presence alone can be the medicine they didn’t know they needed.

[Phoenix]

Listening Schedule

Dragon Reborn RED | Jun 2024 Multistage Stage IVC6
15 mins, Tues and Thur, 7 days break after 21 days
On-WashOut

Most people flee from silence because silence tells the truth.
They drown themselves in noise, in crowds, in endless company —
not because they love people,
but because they fear being alone with their own thoughts.

But solitude is not loneliness.
Solitude is the battlefield where you finally confront yourself.
It’s the place where your mind speaks without interruption,
where clarity rises like dawn,
where peace finally finds a voice.

When you sit with yourself, unguarded and still, you discover:
what you truly feel,
what you deeply desire,
what terrifies you,
and who you are becoming.

If you cannot sit with your own soul, you will accept anyone —
even those who drain you, distract you, or pull you off your path.

Learn to love your own company.
Make your inner world a sanctuary, a place of comfort and fire.
Because when you delight in yourself,
you no longer settle for anyone who doesn’t belong at your table.

Silence is not empty.
Silence is truth.
And only in truth do you find freedom.

[Phoenix]

Listening Schedule

Dragon Reborn RED | Jun 2024 Multistage Stage IVC6
15 mins, Tues and Thur, 7 days break after 21 days
On-WashOut

Your energy triggers their insecurity - -

Sometimes people don’t like you because your confidence, kindness, progress, or ambition makes them feel small in comparison. Your growth reminds them of what they’re not doing, so instead of feeling inspired, their ego feels threatened. They might judge you, gossip, or distance themselves - not because you’ve done something wrong, but because they’re uncomfortable with their own reflection when you’re around.

[Phoenix]

Listening Schedule

Dragon Reborn RED | Jun 2024 Multistage Stage IVC6
15 mins, Tues and Thur, 7 days break after 21 days
On-WashOut

You don’t give them what they want

Some people only like you when you agree with them, always say yes, reply instantly, and never set boundaries. The moment you say “no”, stop being available on demand, or refuse to be controlled, their attitude changes. They don’t actually dislike you-they dislike that you stopped being convenient for them. Being disliked for having boundaries is still better than being liked for betraying yourself.

[Phoenix]

Listening Schedule

Dragon Reborn RED | Jun 2024 Multistage Stage IVC6
15 mins, Tues and Thur, 7 days break after 21 days
On-WashOut

You’re different from their “normal”

People may dislike you simply because you don’t fit into their familiar box-maybe your culture, beliefs, personality, humour, style, or lifestyle is different from what they’re used to. Many people fear, judge, or mock what they don’t understand. That doesn’t mean you’re wrong or weird; it just means you’re not their version of “standard”, and that’ perfectly alright.

[Phoenix]

Listening Schedule

Dragon Reborn RED | Jun 2024 Multistage Stage IVC6
15 mins, Tues and Thur, 7 days break after 21 days
On-WashOut

They only see one side of you

Some people form strong opinions about you based on one moment-a mistake you made, a rumor they heard, a single awkward interaction, or some social media post. they build a full story in their mind from a tiny piece of information. You can’t control that. You only control how you actually live and how you treat people, not the version of you they’ve imagined.

[Rhinesuchus]

Would you say you’ve passed through alot of traumas on this sub or has it been pretty smooth sailing?

[Phoenix]

Listening Schedule

Dragon Reborn RED | Jun 2024 Multistage Stage IVC6
15 mins, Tues and Thur, 7 days break after 21 days
On-WashOut

Your honesty makes them uncomfortable

If you’re someone who speaks honestly and respectfully, some people won’t like that you don’t play along with their lies, excuses, or fake image. Your truth can make them feel exposed or guilty, even if you’re not attacking them. They might label you “rude” or “too much” because it’s easier than facing themselves. But gently honesty is still a gift, even if not everyone receives it well.