only love for this community! It’s been a hell of a ride!
I wouldn’t say for me that Wanted didn’t work outside of aesthetic benefits. I did feel noticeable “surface” effects, if I can classify it that way. And it continues to be a SubClub top 3 favourite of mine.
If I can use the analogy of a house, running Wanted for me really helped getting women in the door. My immediate social skills, approachability, playfullness, aesthetic etc was all boosted by Wanted. Most noticeably was the aesthetic however. It is bar none my favourite trait of Wanted.
The challenges I ran into was what was happening on the inside. Despite “looking successful” I was dealing with feelings of inadequacy, insecurity, and other negative feelings which translated a lot to neediness, a dependancy on validation, spite, hypersensitivity and fear of rejection. Whilst to my immediate social circle; it may have seemed like I was getting it in with all kinds of women, in reality I would was dealing with a host of confidence issues, and not nearly getting enough play as I would like. A lot of missed opportunities.
And so that led me to learning that there are deeper layers I needed to resolve. Past traumas, limiting beliefs and mental blocks I needed to clear.
Dragon Reborn has been the bread and butter for that. It specifically tackled and burned away those liming beliefs and built the “scales” that inevitably would help subs like Wanted blossom properly and adequately give me the results I was looking for. I’m still developing this as I am currently mid way through stage 3. It has been nothing short of profound for me. In the meantime, I’ve put Wanted and Khan on pause while I sort this out for me.
And so when I hear folks on here asking for advise on confidence and self image, I remember my journey in tackling this issue and how it started from the inside out. I could guess most, if not all of us are exposed to some form of trauma, negative societal conditioning that prevent us from expressing our best selves. Healing subs like Dragon Reborn, Khan Stage 1, among others was the pragmatic approach for my case to make the most of any sub I run after.