Crippling fear of rejection

Questions and Comments
#1

Guys could you tell me a Subliminal to help with this crippling fear of rejection? This seems to be one of the foundational blocks to my dating life.

#2

Go deeper! What exactly does rejection feel like to you? Does it confirm something you already believe? Or does it shatter a certain illusion of comfort? Is it really

Is it perhaps something else entirely? Maybe it’s not really rejection but something else in life that is missing? It could very well be a symptom and not a cause

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#3

ineffective options: WB, PS, SSX, Heartsong,

Effective Options: Emperor, Wanted, Khan, Primal, Love Bomb, etc.

If you understand what the “ineffective” have in common and the “ineffective” have in common of that list, you can assess all other subs you’re considering through that same lens.

I don’t know where Khan Black would fall on that spectrum. Probably ineffective, as it’s about the energetic system more than the emotional

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#4

For me, the rejection itself is usually not that bad.
But the thought of getting rejected is the most challenging variable to overcome.

If you feel like this too, try DRLD/DRR/EE or anything that makes you just do the thing.

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#5

What does EE stand for? Emperor Executive?

#6

yes it is

#7

Intresting, but isn’t it for productivity and not for dating purpose?

#8

He’s probably using it in the context of self-worth. When you’re out doing your own thing, as a side effect, your self-worth will skyrocket, which can reflect into your external reality as a detachment against perceived “rejection.”

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#9

Imma be honest, I completely missed when you said it’s for your dating life, LMAO :rofl:

I just thought “yeah I’ve been through rejections, (what I wrote) is how I become more accustomed to it, and subs that make me ‘just do it’ have enhanced this even further”. Whether because of cleansing (the healing subs)/they make me think above my fear of rejection (LBFH because I care more about others than my fear or HeO because I care more about doing what’s necessary for my mastery/for the sake of the virtues).

My experience is not with EE but with LE. It gives me that raw “just fucking do it”.
I said EE because it’s supposed to be more streamlined than LE for this purpose.

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#10

With regards to the EE and Rejection connection:

In my experience solving procrastination massively boosts self-esteem and self-confidence. This where EE is already helping me a lot.

Because when you always and instantly do the things that you know you need to be doing in that very moment, then you can never feel guilty about not doing your best or about procrastinating. Instead you simply feel that you are already doing your very best. Period.

  • Procrastinating → feeling guilty about it → which is a type of self-rejection

  • Instantly doing what you’re supposed to be doing → literally making the experience that you are always doing your very best in every moment

  • Fear of rejection from others = self-rejection projected outwards
    → By solving self-rejection because of procrastination, one automatically solves a massive amount of externally perceived rejection

  • And the self-forgiveness scripting from the new Love Bomb also helps a lot with healing of accumulated guilt from past procrastinations

I think this is important, because as humans we procrastinate almost at everything because of our reptile/mammal brain setup and dopamine motivation system.

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#11

Been there myself. It’s like @Saiyan4Blue said, it’s a fear of rejecting others as well as a self worth deficit. If someone rejected me, it confirmed what I already believed about myself and rejecting others meant that I could not get love from another person.

How to cure it? What are you saying about yourself when you are being rejected? That will be the clue to your self talk. Then any of the alpha subs can address it effectively.

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#12

I must say @Jouissance you pretty much nailed it - the ineffective ones were actually ineffective and effective ones actually effective. Can I know more about your thoughts process?

#13

ineffectives ones are skill and aura based, effective ones are internal, status, confidence, archetypal subliminals

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#14

Aah got it

#15

I think it’s partly (or mostly) realizing that “rejection” and dating aren’t a big deal. You just sift through one potential partner after the next till one hits. Like “next, next, next, ah there we go. Next, next, next…” and so on.

As for subliminals probably Wanted Black and/or another seduction sub for the seduction aspect, and if you still feel you need inner healing, LB, Primal maybe, Khan maybe, Emperor maybe (if the problem is low self worth).