Choose a woman who chooses you

[Simon]

@SuperSaiyan

in the below video

@SuperSaiyan

When at the gym, I get lots of attention when working out, I have just not been approached yet, but I believe that if I keep insisting sooner or later I’ll be approached.

I haven’t watched that specific video, but I’m well aware of Robert Glover’s ideas.

He teaches everyone to always be social… talk to everyone – men and women.
What you’ll find is that some people give closed one-word type answers, while some are enthusiastic to continue the conversation.
Of the latter group, some will be open to 1-on-1 friendships, others to sexual possibility, and yet others would invite you to their existing social groups or business networks.

In his words, from a google search …

– “Get out of the house, Expand your route, Linger in public, Talk to everyone, and Walk through the open doors. Every time you walk out your front door, expect a miracle!”

– "It is a sin to say ‘no’ when you should have said ‘yes’. Make this your mantra for a good life. Every time you are stuck or feeling indecisive, just ask yourself, “would it be a sin if I said ‘no’ to this opportunity?’”

In this context, almost everyone you meet after the first interaction, is CHOOSING to explore the relationship deeper.

You’re not a powerless victim either. Dr. Glover asks YOU to do the same categorizing for yourself. Some people will be red flags to avoid, or simply not your type. Others will make good acquaintances, friends, or business connections.
A few however, will be worthy of long term relationships as wife, business partner, inner circle buddy, etc.

Instead of chasing someone who doesn’t care about you …
You build a life in which BOTH parties choose each other.

And because you talk to a lot of people,
You will have the maximum choices.

[RockyHandsome]

Simon is correct he is one of the Gurus.

@Skadoosh please listen to Guru.

[TheRock]

@SuperSaiyan

When at the gym, I get lots of attention when working out, I have just not been approached yet, but I believe that if I keep insisting sooner or later I’ll be approached.

I think you have to “allow” the girls to approach u. With that, I mean, be social, greet and meet, smile and give nods. If you don’t show that you are approachable you don’t get approached because you scare the hell out of them. They stay safe and approach other, more friendly and less intimidating guys

If you feel comfortable in your skin and self-confident, then it shows, and you will be considered as a man worth being approached.

[TheEmpress]

@Realitysmith

What is it about the guys pursuing you you don’t like? are they trying too hard?

It’s because they aren’t the one that I want pursuing me. I have an SP. (specific person.)

Like I said above:

@TheEmpress

I find it super attractive when a man pursues me, but the men that have pursued me are not him. Hm

[TheEmpress]

yep!

I’m gonna go bang my head off the wall now, for fun?

[Realitysmith]

Have you ever heard of “one-itis”?

[TheEmpress]

Yep. Learned that from @Trader

I prefer the term SP though.

[Realitysmith]

Lol oh, well he might be right. Would it be possible to be open to other guys you might like if your SP isn’t giving you sufficient attention? I.e. detach yourself from liking only this one person?

[TheEmpress]

I am open to him or something even better!