Best title for mother abandonment in childhood?

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#1

What would be the best title for this issue?
Love bomb, heartsong?

I’ve realized that this issue could be the root cause affecting my relationships with women and people in general.
I was abandonned when I was 10, and I cried a lot that day. After that, my feelings are not the same. I think I don’t feel love for myself or others. I lack empathy for others most of the time.
I get along with my mother and I think I don’t have any kind of Bad feelings for her AT least consciously.

My current stack consists of khan black + wanted black which has been working great, but I’d like to add a title to deal with this issue.

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#2

Lineage: Mandate Eternal would suit this best. It will heal your relationship with every family member including your mother.

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#3

Seems that you’re talking about healing past trauma, regaining a deep sense of personal worth, and being willing to take the risk of trusting again and connecting with others.

For healing past trauma, I’d go with anything in the Dragon Reborn and Sanguine lines. From DR itself to Phoenix, etc. They have varying degrees of depth and intensity, so it makes sense to start off with a lighter program first (say, Sanguine: Elixir) and to then deepen from there.

For regaining a deep sense of personal worth, value, and self-respect, I’d go with Ascension.

For being willing to take the risk of trusting others, I’d go with Love Bomb.

The above recommendations are not AT ALL the only way to get it done. I’m responding generically.

Another good approach would be to build off of some area of passion, love, or development that is already strong for you. Then you could leverage and harness that area into the above areas. For example, if you are already deeply engaged in introspection and inner development, you could run Revelation of Spirit. Or if you are inspired by challenges and achievements, and so on, you might run Khan or Emperor. Or so on.

But if you want to go for just a straight healing strategy, the above is one that makes sense.

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#4

Let’s not forget Love Bomb.

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#6

Abandonment in childhood is one of the deepest wounds anyone can have.
My opinion is: Love Bomb + Lineage: Mandate Eternal (for at least 6 months) then Love Bomb + Lineage: Mandate Eternal + Dragon Reborn Red.
Or better yet: put Love Bomb and Lineage: Mandate Eternal in a healing-focused custom and run it alongside Dragon Reborn Red.

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#7

I don’t think people really understand how good that sub is! :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

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#8

@magician Have you considered therapy?

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#9

I think the past needs to be dealt with first so that there is a strong foundation on which to build a sculpture of greatness.

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#10

As someone who is working through similar issues, i can only advise you to also go into theraphy as an addition to subs. Those relational traumas can only be properly healed in relationships.

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#11

If I was in such a situation, I would use Love Bomb, Sanguine: The Elixir, and Regeneration as stepping stones to get to Dragon Reborn Red.

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