thats a harsh way to word it dont u think
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Regarding the children owing parents something, think of it this way. When parents birthed you, they did it for the sole purpose of continuing their line. They didn’t love you before you were born. Sure, they might have treated you well and given you what you wanted, but it wasn’t really solely for your benefit. It benefited them to reproduce. Parents can’t live forever so children are a piece of their immortality.
And a child has the choice to reciprocate but I see too many parents using children as their retirement plan. Instead of saving up for themselves and understanding that children are independent beings with their own plans and desires, they hold on to them as if parents owned them with the money they spent on them before. The parent-child relationship then becomes more of a master-slave relationship.
As a child though, all that you can do is give them some part of your money when you can (after taking care of yourself), visiting them once in a while and being good to them (all of this if they are good to you). But all this isn’t an “owing” thing. It’s more like you love each other.
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I think the last part is exceptionally true and valuable.
Sadly, I am facing a different family situation right now. My sister is going a different route and literally leaving the family because of her boyfriend who is intellectually stupid without any former eduction as he shows her that life can be so simple without any goals in life. She broke up with the whole family and accuses our parents of being too harsh and bad parents as an excuse to live her lifestyle which just makes me sick knowing what lovely parents they have been and how much they cared about us. She is literally mentally killing all of us including her, her boyfriend and her future …
You don’t owe them anything, but don’t be like my sister, show some damn respect because this is what they deserve. Your parents should be and most probably are the ones that only want the best for you.
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Is your sister a Pisces or Scorpio? February and May for Pisces, October and November for Scorpio.
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How old is your sister ? I can’t help but read what you wrote and think of rollo. Rollo has said when a women finds a " alpha" " bad boy" " high status " man any one of these 3 or can be all 3 in one man, women will denounce family, friends, religion etc to be with these men. They will adopt the sports teams of this man, adopt his thinking and beliefs etc. Whatever gets in the way of being with the alpha even if that alpha is a bad guy to be with women are emotional creatures, you cant use logic to tell them why they shouldnt be with this guy.
He wrote a article on this topic and i completely forgot what it was called.
Sorry to hear about the whole situation though
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@Hermit Yes Scorpio
He really isn’t anything of these 3. He is the most beta low status good boy I ever met (for his age). Maybe he is good in bed, I can’t comment on that though. He is actually not the biggest problem because it is more a manifestation from her. She now successfully created her own bubble where everyone around her is not so smart so that she feels like the greatest.
I don’t want to go in much more detail but the family of her boyfriend seems to also be involved, possibly being a cult…
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Oh okay sorry to hear ill just say one more thing and leave it at that. In my family and friends of family etc since i was a kid there are stories of someone doing voodoo to get what they want from a particular person. Its common in my culture i know its not the same as a cult but i definitely understand where your coming from
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Yeah, it is just scary how influential we are… You don’t need to be particularly smart, gifted, or educated to hypnotize somebody, manipulated them, or do other voodoo things I don’t even know about. But as I said, it really is a manifestation from her own…
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Just wait it out, it’s a process many Scorpio’s are going through. At the end, everything will be well. For Scorpio’s are mutable water signs and tend to use emotions over logic, especially when it comes down to sexual relationships, Scorpio’s are rulers of the Sacral Chakra…
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@Hermit - that’s interesting. Does Leo have any connection with the third eye Chakra? I used to be always interested in the third eye and used to watch loads of documentaries about it.
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Leo’s most active and powerful chakra is the Crown. Now you see we have all signs present within us, it’s just a matter of how many energy is being poured through in your Natal Chart. Your Sun Sign, Ascendant, Moon Sign are the most obvious energies to notice in a persons character.
For the situation with Friday’s sister above, it is different, because the snapshot of the skies currently give a tendency for persons with a Sun Sign in Scorpio and Pisces to experience lessons in sexual relationships. So that’s really just a reflection of the above into the below. Macrocosm onto the microcosm.
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Sadly, the process started around 2 years ago…
It is weird. I am Leo myself and I often felt an instant connection to people I meet that are also Leo themselves, without both of us knowing.
EDIT: I wasn’t actually meaning us but people I meet in real life in general 
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Yes, that’s exactly correct and it will come to an end very soon. I’ve actually come to know this as a very good Scorpio friend of mine (women) is going through the same exact thing, and some other Scorpios I happen to know. It’s a process that started 2 to 3 years ago and along the way if Scorpios picked up a relationship they went through these lessons.
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@Hermit - “Scorpio Ascendents are reluctant to deviate from their original idea and do not want to hear, let alone follow, advice from their fellow human beings.”
LOL. So me
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Pay attention on the 5th of June on the lunar eclipse and be aware of the house Sagittarius resides within your chart. Reflect on this and you’ll without a doubt be able to notice these energies in front of your eyes.
For me Sagittarius is my ascendant and thus in the first House of the Self, bring transmutations and changes in my personality and self-reflection.
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@Hermit for me its in my 3rd house, any idea what this means.
and where can i learn more about all of this, im interested in learning more about astrology, in-fact i recently got a copy of my birth chart done
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You’ll notice the energies in the way you communicate with others. The 3rd house is the house of communication. Also look up what it means to have Sagittarius in that house.
I’ve found CafeAstrology to be a good website, but obviously there are many different websites, books and other sources on Astrology. Listen to your intuition and it will guide you. Ask to get to know more about Astrology, the kosmos and the celestial bodies and you shall receive. This would be especially powerful doing so when running Alchemist.
https://cafeastrology.com/lunationseclipses.html#lunareclipsejune2020
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awesome, thats where i got my birth chart from, lol. ill check it out, thanks for the guidance.