Best sub for nightlife & cold approach?

It is unclear how these two relate. Do you enjoy loud night clubs and would like to combine them with meeting women, or are you only going there to meet women? In the latter case, I would broaden my perspective on how to meet women.

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not much but I remember that the closest I have come to getting laid since 2023 was when I was using KB ST4.

This attractive girl approached me on the street at night and made it really obvious she was down to come home with me. unfortunately, I was living with my parents back then and had nowhere to take her.

Im also pretty sure I got some make outs on the dancefloor while on KB ST4 but not 100% sure as it might also have been primal nights.

my problem might be more complex because I have been doing cold approach since 2010 and I still struggle enormously with making that first move.

sounds good bro. I’ll start a journal before I go out tomorrow night.

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It’s not my first sub and I have been doing some form of subconscious programming since at least 2010.

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I only go to nightclubs to meet women.

I find it easier than daygame.

I struggle enormously to approach in nightclubs but at least I can do it once in a while.

in daygame I find it pretty much impossible to approach.

I also find it pretty much impossible to approach in bars.

this is why I only do nightgame specifically in nightclubs.

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thank you for the encouragement.

I also do not drink and go out solo.

I doubt most guys could do night game like that.

For night game, one thing one of my old mentors did with me, Who was the dating coach that taught dating coaches,

For the first 30 mins we just walked around, while focusing on massive relaxation, standing in a high pressure social enviroment feeling comfortable looking weird, No approach yet,

Then when we got really comfortable, he told me, approach the most intimidating girl go,

And I did, Went up to some girl on the dance floor that was drop dead gorgeus and surrounded with 3 guys,

Said one sentence and left, as I did not feel like dancing, 1 minute later she and her girlfriend came up to me outside the dance floor,

And I was in complete flow for the rest of the night, after that one approach,

I even approached another super hot girl and asked what her favorite color was, and she lit up.

The energy you radiate is so huuuuge, Getting out of your head and into your body is massive.

And yea kudos to you going out without drinking, and solo

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Lol for sure I meant your first SubClub sub.

Classic pickup approaches cam up before online dating was a common thing. Having hobbies and a social circle in which you meet women might be, besides online dating, be a more effective approach. Also, if you ever want to go beyond one night stands, women might quickly lose interest in a guy that does little besides going to clubs. If humans would only have sex after “day game” or “night game,” humanity would have ceased to exist a long time ago.

Ha ha, happened to me as well several times when I ran KHAN Stage 4 :joy:

KHAN Stage 4 is the ultimate “manifest women who want sex, completely out of nowhere, and in the least like place to meet anyone at all”.
I mean like, you could be out in the desert, at night, far away from any civilization, and still manifest a woman :grin:

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As someone who bartended in nightclubs and just about every type of bar and restaurant you can think of my advice is talk to everyone you can on your way to the nightclub. Whether it turns into a conversation or it’s only saying , “What’s up”, “Happy Friday”, or whatever and walking away. This warms you up to talking to people. The security and bartenders are not too busy when they first open. Make conversation with them. Remember their names so every time you go back you greet them. Remind them of your name if you have to.

A couple Halloweens ago I took out my friend for his birthday to a nightclub inside of the hotel I used to work at. I worked in the craft cocktail lounge and was pretty brand new, but gratefully I made friends with the security during orientation. Everyday I got of of work at 10pm I would pass the front entrance of the nightclub to chat it up with him about life. Then I would take off to get something to eat. That day of Halloween cover was $60 each person. I was passing by and said what’s up, because my friend wanted to go somewhere else. After 15 min of talking to the security guard offered to let us in free and my friend said alright. I went in and chatted up random people. After 30 minutes I went up to the hottest Blonde when she first walked in. I made her laugh and took off in 5 minutes. What I didn’t know is a lot of women noticed, including the bottle service girls. I walked towards the bar and went up to a girl in a cat woman costume and made out with her within 10 minutes, got her number and hung out later that next week. The next time I was working and bumped into the bottle service girls in the break area of the hotel. The two who saw me talk to the blonde and make out with a girl, came up to me. We ended up being FWB.

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this really resonates with me. is there any sub you have found that makes it easy to accomplish this?

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i started a journal if you guys are interested in hearing my results:

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