Hi all,
So after running RoM + EoG ST1 for a full cycle, I think it was RoM that finally pushed me to make the decision to break up with my partner of 8 years. We’ve “broken up” 2 other times in the past, and I would always end up coming back (a bad habit of mine even in other relationships).
I’m feeling pretty convinced this is it, but I said that last time too. Any advice on a sub that could really help me power through the breakup and not look back? To come out on the other side happy to be single? I’d also take some book suggestions, something to keep me focused and excited about the single life again. I just picked up “Single. On Purpose”, felt fitting.
I’ve always said consciously “I love spending time alone and am comfortable with myself” and the irony is that in the relationship I would want so much alone time. But last time ended up feeling so sad at one point, got triggered by a song and a memory. So I think subconsciously my body is always wanting to go back to what it knows, the comfort of the relationship. Same as any habit, like a drug…
I want to continue running RoM and EoG. I was going to run Renaissance Man as my third after this washout, but I’d totally be willing to swap that for something that could guide me through this time.