Best current tittle or module for secure attachment

I am thinking about building a romance custom. I am looking for modules that help with secure attchmnet. I thought perhaps Love Bomb would do this but open AI tells me it is the opposite :exploding_head:

Can anyone recomend anything? Please don’t recommend anything like emperor daddy, or GLM, I am a woman.

Thank you

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AI doesn’t know shit. Love Bomb is incredible for this.

What titles have you run and had the best results with in other areas of your life? Because running sub that you already get results with, if it also helps build secure attachment, would be perfect

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DR: Regenaration regulates me, Chosen and LBfH make me feel happy and confident that everything is going to be OK. With limitless, chosen and Ascendent Mogul got a promotion at work.

Yes, I agree. Thank you very much for confirming this.

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Run khan black and heartsong together and you won’t need any custom lol

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There is a “Love Without Attachment” module. Not sure if it’s in any synergy ones though.

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Love Bomb is fine but also check out:

Note: Lover’a pact might be redundant if you choose Primal Romance as one of your cores.

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First of, with this subs, you should have laid a foundation for a more secure attachment.

Regeneration works on trauma
Chosen gives positivity
Ascendet Mogul works on self esteem

Love Bomb is a great title. It’s one of the most basic ones I know in SC (running it again atm).

As someone mentioned above, core wise, Primal Romance could be interesting. It's gender neutral and not as Primal as the name might suggest.
  • Promote mutual presence, enabling individuals to fully immerse in each moment with their partner, transforming simple activities into profoundly meaningful experiences.

  • Encourage the development of authentic connection, helping individuals reveal their true selves and inspire their partners to do the same, creating bonds rooted in trust and transparency

  • Empower individuals to embrace vulnerability as a source of strength, unlocking deeper levels of intimacy and unbreakable connection with their partners.
    Boost confidence in romantic interactions, enabling individuals to project a quiet but undeniable presence that draws romance and connection effortlessly.

  • Encourage emotional openness and authenticity, empowering individuals to share their true selves and create deeper, more meaningful connections

  • Provide tools for setting healthy boundaries, promoting mutual respect and balance in romantic connections.

If past relationships have left you wounded, it's time to get your **Pride Unbroken**

People leave. They can make you feel insignificant, as if you never
mattered. They can prioritize others or their goals over you. They can
disappear, or never even give you a chance. They can ignore you while
giving others the world. It is something incredibly complex, and the
feelings this causes can be with you for life. Worthlessness,
powerlessness, indignation… Pride Unbroken is here to make you
realize that your worth is much more than the way others might have
treated you. You will realize your limitless, true worthiness, you will learn
of your positive pride, while letting go of the negative feelings and beliefs
holding you back. You might have been beaten down, but your Pride is…
Unbroken.

If this has to do something with how you see yourself, there's **Divine Self-Image**. Though it might be overkill with LB, I included it nevertheless in my custom

Doubts and thoughts of inferiority about ourselves, our minds and our
bodies can often be all-consuming. Utilize Divine Self-Image to start
realizing the profound gift that your existence, your mind and your body is – and to start truly loving them. Divine Self-Image will dissipate your
negative thoughts about yourself while motivating you to improve and
become better.

And finally, if sexual trauma is a cause for your not so secure attachment, **Aphrodite** might help

Sexual trauma and negative sexual beliefs come in many, many forms.
Regardless of what they may be however, Aphrodite is the way forward.
Add Aphrodite to your custom to add a powerful healing element that will
naturally allow you to let go and heal the sexual traumas and negative
sexual beliefs you might have, and allow yourself to fully embrace who
you are sexually. NOTE: Aphrodite can be used by anyone, for any sort
of sexual trauma or negative belief. Erectile dysfunction, being cheated
on, sexual shame and repression – Aphrodite has a wide use case. Like
any healing subliminal/module, expect some sort of reconciliation.

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Ha, beat me to it. As soon as I saw this Q&A, my first thought was “wait a second, isn’t there a module with that exact same title?” :slight_smile:

I’d echo the Love Bomb recommendations; I’m currently running it in a custom with DR: Regeneration :+1:t2:

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Just to add though, as @Parsifal mentioned, it could be helpful to drill down a bit deeper into what the roots are of whatever issues you may have around secure attachment.
It’s easy to make blanket recommendations (and these can certainly be helpful), but gaining clarity on the underlying issues can often guide you towards the most appropriate title or modules :slight_smile:

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some one mentioned the module “love without attachment” 。that is an option,I used it in the past ,it is good ,it did what it says in the description…I did feel more secured….also there is a another module called “attachment destroyer”…it functions similarly,just affects broader….you might want to pair them both….if you could dig deeper and find the source of the problem…probably will be easier to find a suitable option….if the problem is caused by origin of family then the module “Lineage ”could help…if it is self love issue then the module “blue skies ”and “divine self image ”would help….if it is past relationship ,then “depths of love”and “Aphrodite”might be the choice….as for Love bomb that one definitely help and could work on various issue……also personally,I notice Achemist:Singularity is a really versitle title that could soften rigid sense of self…as a result…a lot of so call limiting beliefs might just disappear…… :grinning:

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Awesome module with many benefits, will include it again soon.

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Have you considered Heartsong?
I found it is similar to Lovebomb but runs far lighter.

Currently also working on creating secure attachment to myself. Regeneration works wonders for me.

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Thank you everybody for your suggestions, they are all good but I want to build a light custom with one core and a few modules. I think I’ll go with divine self image and love without attachment for the custom and I’ll also run Love Bomb, Heartsong or Primal Romance in the stack.

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Have you considered NEHE Core?
IDK how they fare with nowadays anti reconn tech, but the CFW/NEHE Name Embedd that I created once HIT HARD.

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You’ll definitely love those.

Inner Voice may also be an option; it can’t hurt to have that reassuring feedback loop. It´d probably bounce off and synergize well with Divine Self-Image.

In any case enjoy :beers:

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Yes. Can confirm this.
I have Lovebomb, Ascension, Divine Self-Image, etc in a custom with NEHE.
It’s my favorite custom ever.

Also you need enough script for Q software to be able to create the custom.
That’s why there’s the usual minimum amount of 10 modules.
Though it can be less with denser modules like Cores, Synergies or Essences.

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People don’t talk about it as much, but Divine Self-Image is one of the most powerful modules and result enhancers, in my opinion.

Everybody should try it at some point.

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I was thinking of 4 essence modules, plus divine self image and love without attachment, plus the 2 experimental modules, if I also add NEHE core, that will make 10.

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Iirc, Fire said to be cautious with Essence modules because they’re pretty dense.
Limit is 3 I believe.
But if the rest is rather light it could work. Especially with the two experimental modules.

I’d open a ticket about it, just to be sure.

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I remember that too. I think the recommendation was for 1-2 Essence modules in a custom, 3 at the very most. And if you’re doing 2 or 3, they should be kind of focused and synergistic.

So for example (albeit not relevant to this thread, but it makes the point)
RICH Trader core
Essence: Bulletproof Focus
Essence: Unstoppable Execution

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