Best current tittle or module for secure attachment

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#1

I am thinking about building a romance custom. I am looking for modules that help with secure attchmnet. I thought perhaps Love Bomb would do this but open AI tells me it is the opposite :exploding_head:

Can anyone recomend anything? Please don’t recommend anything like emperor daddy, or GLM, I am a woman.

Thank you

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#2

AI doesn’t know shit. Love Bomb is incredible for this.

What titles have you run and had the best results with in other areas of your life? Because running sub that you already get results with, if it also helps build secure attachment, would be perfect

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#3

DR: Regenaration regulates me, Chosen and LBfH make me feel happy and confident that everything is going to be OK. With limitless, chosen and Ascendent Mogul got a promotion at work.

Yes, I agree. Thank you very much for confirming this.

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#4

Run khan black and heartsong together and you won’t need any custom lol

#5

There is a “Love Without Attachment” module. Not sure if it’s in any synergy ones though.

#6

Love Bomb is fine but also check out:

Note: Lover’a pact might be redundant if you choose Primal Romance as one of your cores.

#7

First of, with this subs, you should have laid a foundation for a more secure attachment.

Regeneration works on trauma
Chosen gives positivity
Ascendet Mogul works on self esteem

Love Bomb is a great title. It’s one of the most basic ones I know in SC (running it again atm).

As someone mentioned above, core wise, Primal Romance could be interesting. It's gender neutral and not as Primal as the name might suggest.

  • Promote mutual presence, enabling individuals to fully immerse in each moment with their partner, transforming simple activities into profoundly meaningful experiences.

  • Encourage the development of authentic connection, helping individuals reveal their true selves and inspire their partners to do the same, creating bonds rooted in trust and transparency

  • Empower individuals to embrace vulnerability as a source of strength, unlocking deeper levels of intimacy and unbreakable connection with their partners.
    Boost confidence in romantic interactions, enabling individuals to project a quiet but undeniable presence that draws romance and connection effortlessly.

  • Encourage emotional openness and authenticity, empowering individuals to share their true selves and create deeper, more meaningful connections

  • Provide tools for setting healthy boundaries, promoting mutual respect and balance in romantic connections.

If past relationships have left you wounded, it's time to get your **Pride Unbroken**

People leave. They can make you feel insignificant, as if you never
mattered. They can prioritize others or their goals over you. They can
disappear, or never even give you a chance. They can ignore you while
giving others the world. It is something incredibly complex, and the
feelings this causes can be with you for life. Worthlessness,
powerlessness, indignation… Pride Unbroken is here to make you
realize that your worth is much more than the way others might have
treated you. You will realize your limitless, true worthiness, you will learn
of your positive pride, while letting go of the negative feelings and beliefs
holding you back. You might have been beaten down, but your Pride is…
Unbroken.

If this has to do something with how you see yourself, there's **Divine Self-Image**. Though it might be overkill with LB, I included it nevertheless in my custom

Doubts and thoughts of inferiority about ourselves, our minds and our
bodies can often be all-consuming. Utilize Divine Self-Image to start
realizing the profound gift that your existence, your mind and your body is – and to start truly loving them. Divine Self-Image will dissipate your
negative thoughts about yourself while motivating you to improve and
become better.

And finally, if sexual trauma is a cause for your not so secure attachment, **Aphrodite** might help

Sexual trauma and negative sexual beliefs come in many, many forms.
Regardless of what they may be however, Aphrodite is the way forward.
Add Aphrodite to your custom to add a powerful healing element that will
naturally allow you to let go and heal the sexual traumas and negative
sexual beliefs you might have, and allow yourself to fully embrace who
you are sexually. NOTE: Aphrodite can be used by anyone, for any sort
of sexual trauma or negative belief. Erectile dysfunction, being cheated
on, sexual shame and repression – Aphrodite has a wide use case. Like
any healing subliminal/module, expect some sort of reconciliation.

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